A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hiya could any of you suggest ways for me and m wife to have a really intimate night without sex? Its just last night she went to bed abit early as she wasn't feeling very happy. She hadn't had the best day and she as on her period so thats added on to it. We were just talking and she cuddled up to me. We just started kissing and that never seemed to end. That was at 11.45pm and at 1pm we were still doing it although by then she was either sitting on my knee or lying on top of me. We loved every minute of it but it was abit frustrating though because by the end of it we really wanted sex and we couldn't because of her being on her period. But it was really nice i couldn't leave her alone. What other things could we do and how could we do this without getting the erdge to have sex, and if we do how to resist it? We'd love some advice on different things to try. Cheers
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (3 November 2007):
Some people choose to have sex even at that time of month although it is completely down to what you both feel comfterble with.
There are many things that you could do at this dreary time although most may not be as satisfying as sex.
Have you though about tantric sex.
This involves touching and caressing and also sex by deep breathing. Some people swear by it and his could pleasure you both.
You culd buy a book or a dvd and learn from there.
It is classed as an art and does take time to learn and the more you practice the more enjoyment you could get from it.
Imagine pleasuring your wife and giving her an orgasm by just looking into her eyes. With tantric this is possible.
Good luck and enjoy
Peaches
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