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writes:Hi to all that reads this I have been with my partner for 23 years now and have three grown up children all still at home.Its very rare my partner and I sleep together I sleep downstairs on the setee we do not do anything together on our own our relationship has gone down hill for quiet a while.At work one of the companys customer recently gave me a kiss on the cheek i thout no more of it as I thout she was just being friendly the other day she kissed me again but this time on the lips now I am getting feelings for her.But I dont know what she feels for me and I dont know what to do about it please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): do you love your wife?? if the answer is yes, then tell this woman (if she tries to kiss you again) NO! and be firm about it.why are you sleeping on the sofa? make a change in your routine and go to bed with your wife (your the one on the sofa after all) and have even just a cuddle. tell your wife you love her. being intimate doesnt mean you have to start having rampant sex with your wife, its a matter of being close with her. compliment her on something to make her feel nice.in my opinion you have had some sort of feeling because this lady has shown you some attention. it could have been anyone.long term marriages are rare and very precious these days so protect your marriage and all the years good and bad that you have with your wife and family. you may never find it again. people all over the world strive for and are envious for what you have so dont give it up unless you are absolutely sure you dont love you wife.if on the other hand you dont love your wife, then you should tell her so. but even then i wouldnt advise doing nothing with this other woman. if you decide to break with the wife, its not a good idea to jump straight in with another person.most important of all i would never ever ever advise affairs. all sorts of mess, hurt and problems. good luck sir, i really do hope this helps. you can get back on track with your wife. you have something precious so guard it and protect itxxx
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reader, Rainbows  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 its high time u should start saving ur relationship. u cannot afford to lose ur life partner of 23yrs, 3 grown up children and ur 'home' (not a house) for a "customer's kiss".
u have struggled & invested ur youth for a peaceful and fufilled life. now is not the time to get carried away. put in extra efforts for ur wife or buy her a lingerie and surprise her one evening. women, no matter what age, they still love the lil gimmicks and surprises their husbands give them. good luck!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 I don't know, first talk to your wife. Ask her how she feels about your relationship. If she's willing to work on it or not.
That is strange a customer kissing someone who's working. At first you didn't know what to think, then the kiss on the lips and developing feelings for her. You need to slow down how fast you fall for someone or it's going to lead to a mess of trouble.
Talk to your wife. The funny thing about relationships is, tweak a couple of things you can have back what you once had.
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