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writes:I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal.Completly out of the blue i got an email from him in july..asking how i was ect and apologised for how he acted.We emailed and txted for a month when i eventually asked what he wanted from this....he sent back an email reveling that he had a girlfriend who at the time was 7 months pregant with his baby..but he said they had a rocky relationship and didnt think it would last long after she gave birth. We spoke on the phone for the first time 2 weeks ago and have called or txted each other everyday since.We meet up yesterday..and straight away all the feelings i had previously had came rushing back....We went back to his and after sitting around talking and messing around for a while lay on the bed to watch a film....we ended up kissing and more.I stopped at one point and said that i coudnt go any futher because of his girlfriend. He said that we had already crossed the mark, but we stopped, he then said he needed to know that if he was going to leave his girlfriend he needed to know i could commit to a relationship....we then stoped and spoke and he said he felt really awkward and embrassed for almost begging....so we agreed to call it a day.We held hands in the car on the way home and kissed goodbye.I couldnt help later on feeling really guilty about the situation 1. Because he has a pregant girlfriend 2. Because i almost felt like i was leading him on.PLease help me i still have really strong feelings for him but dont know what to do?
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (5 November 2007):
 He has a pregant girlfriend that is 7 months gone. I understand that you feel these feelings come flooding back but you have to think realisticly.
1) His girlfriend will be in the stage of her pregancy whre she id hormonal and groutchy, she will take this out on him.
2)He will feel left out because it will be all about her and the baby.
3)Onc the baby comes he will be head over heels into her again, she will have given him a child and that is the best thing anyone could want.
Move and and leave it be. If he leavse her and comes to you then if you wish yes you can go there, but not behind her back and not straight after.
Be wise.
Peaches
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