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writes:I don't like myself. I have low self-esteem, very little confidence so whenever I want to ask a women out, i flinch and walk off. I really hate myself, I wish I was someone else. Obviously I can't so how do I change myself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): hmm yes i agree asking a woman out can be really scary
a game you could try , be yourself and just act natual, might sound wierd but picture her as someone you know or can relate to and relax whats the worst she can say "yes" if she says no , you haven't lost anything your the same place where you started
but if you try to hard you wont get far but if you run and never tell them how you feel you wont get what you want either
you have to love yourself before you can be loved by others
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): i don't think there is anything wrong with you lots of men and women suffer from low self esteem theres nothing wrong with that. every one getts a little paranoid now and again even me, what i find helps is if you get a pen and a piece of paper and write down all the good qualities you have and if you can't think of any ask a friend the lokk your self in the mirror and give your self three compliments. so every morning when you get up and night before you go to bed lokk your self in the mirror and tell yourself three of the ngood qualities you have then throughout the day give yourself compliments you'll find you will make your self much more confidn't
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 In what ways do you want to change your self?
Is it your image the way you think or the way you think ppl see and think about you?
Well your image is easy, change your style of clothing, haircut etc.
They way you think about omething. Are you the type of guy that always worries what ppl think of you?
Remember other peoples opinions dont concern you if they dont like something about you then they dont need to look or talk to you they can walk the other way.
You should never become something for someone else.
Try thinking on the reasns of why you have such low self-esteem.
Confidence is something that yu will have o work on slowly. Asking a woman out is scary fullstop, yes you may get knocked back a dozen of times before that one girl says yes. But with each knock back think to yourself im that one step closer to the girl of my dreams.
I wish you all the best.
Remember people will like you for who you really are and not for the person yu are trying to be.
Peaches
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