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writes:Hi readers have had a few problems with my schedule and that explains my absence for the last 3 wks. I recently had a burst up with my girlfriend and i erroneously told her WE WERE DONE! the problem is she seems to have made up her mind 4 good yet am dying to have her back. What can i do to salvage my relationship, now that even my desire for a woman needs nursing, which only her can do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 You'll have to talk to her. You also need to remember that when she decides for good, the conversation can't be about you and what you want. It has to be about her and WHY she should be with you.
Also remember this, repeat it to yourself often, and live by it "NEVER SAY ANYTHING YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE HAPPEN".
If you say it and she takes you seriously, you can't blame her for doing so, you're the one who made the statement. Some people don't look at it as a joke. You say it, then that's the way it has to be.
I would say something like this "I'm sorry I blew up, I know I hurt you when I did, It's my fault and I shouldn't have said what I did. If you give me another chance, I'll make it up to you." Then you do the rest.
I hope it works out for you. Take care.
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