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I feel trapped!

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Question - (3 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2007)
A female Ethiopia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi i am 24 and i am marred for 1 and half year .all of this time he is so nice for me and wishes for the success of my wish but now when i am about to success my wish he dont let me to go out alone .and he said if u go dont come back .so what can i do i have too meet people to do my things but he dont let me to meet people what can i do?please help me

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (3 November 2007):

rcn agony auntHe's a control freak. I'd ask him for an explanation. "Don't answer right now, but here's the question: you want me to succeed, but you don't provide or allow the tools to do so, why? I'll give you some time to think about your answer. I don't want BS, or blowing smoke up my rear, I want a real answer, one that focuses on the question without dancing around it, and one that is a justifiable, which if others would be asked to judge your answer they would state your reasoning is correct."

Then just walk out of the room. Understand too Marriage is not about control, it's about two people sharing time because they choose to be with the other, not become property of the other.

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