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*lliebellie
writes:this guy ive known since joinor school, well ive got in touch with him. everything was going ok till yesterday. his mate was round his house and we were talking on msn. all of a sudden he was like oi f***er, you are ugly as hell, i dont want to talk to you, i hate you. hes just become so mean. when i ask him wats wrong he was like youre whats wrong. it's like overnight hes become so mean. he called me frigid and insulted me loads. he also told me to get some friends and a sense of humour. he used to be really nice and when i told him hed changed he was like you dont even know me. i stilll want to be friends with him. should i block him or say something to him? please helplolellie
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 hey,
this turned out for the best good for you byeXXX
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (3 November 2007):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks anom....ive just left him now....
lol
ellie
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): well good luck in whatever you decide to do
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (3 November 2007):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks everyone. anon: well i think its the 3rd option, unfortunately he blocked my today and then unblocked me so.... yeh i dunno i wanna say one last thing to him though....just summing to finish it all offso yeh thanks to everyone else as well. as always answers always very much appreciated...:)lolellie
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): I have had this problem in the past and i have found that there are three possible reasons:
1) it isn't him. This happens loads when someone goes on his msn when he ain't around and then piss all his contacts off. It really sucks but if this is the case next time he is online, ask him what happened and he should be unaware of it or he will explain it was someone else and he is sorry for it.
2) He was in a terrible mood and took it out on you. I am guilty of this but also been the victim of it. As the person who ha done it, i felt really guilty and next time they were online i apologised for all i was worth. I explained why i was in a bad mood and they eventually forgave me. If he still is a friend he would do the same. You could maybe prompt him as in ask him what happened and hopefully he would do the same as moi.
3) Unfortunately, sometimes they do just change and i think this is the time to block them. For one reason or another they suddenly turn into a jerk. It happend and you are going to have to accept it. I know that is harsh but it has happened to me and well you will get over it. This is because if he did mean it then you know he is not even worth a second thought let alone continue to be your friend.
Anyway this is how i would solve your problem- find out what happened and depending on what it was will give you your answer. Hope i have helped. Good luck.
Btw, post a comment if it did help- i appreciate feedback. thx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): block him. he sounds like he is not quite right in the head. Tell him to get a life and block him. he's not worth wasting your time on.
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reader, lilgirly +, writes (3 November 2007):
hey,
i think you have to face him blocking him won't be the answer.
and see what happened , and after that you should pick up your answer on what to do next.
good luck byeXXX
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 block him and delete him. he sounds like an immature person who isnt worth your time.
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