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writes:ok so in eary September i randomly ran into a fella i knew fom i wasyounger at a party in my house... we all had the biggest and maddest party ever n it lasted from the fri til the monday, it was amazin as it was just after the biggest dance festival of the year so we all had a great time. When this fella came in i thought nothing of him looks wise n just started to chat to him and got to know him a bit better. When everyone went home on the monday he ended up staying behind and in the end me n him slept together. we started meetng each other like twice every week because i worked nights so i couldnt really meet him any more than that. And at the weekends we all at and had a drink again in my house and each weekend as everyone started to leave he ended up staying with me again.at the start i wasnt really bothered in gettin ginto a relationship as i had taken everyones advice and just played the single life, but he really showed an interest in me, phonin me all the time and texting me wanted to come down to see me. Then as the weeks went on and i started to show an interest he started backing off.. stopping phoning me until the weekend came around and then as regular as clockwork he'd phone me asking me if i was havin a party in my house n cud he come... so i began to think that he was usin me but still i was sleeping with him...then a few weeks ago his best friend sat and had a real heart to heart with me, he said that this guy sleeps around with anyone who will let him and the things he was telling me about him nearly made me physically sick.. i just didnt expect it from him because this guy was so nice to me, so i stopped seeing him and now he is seeing a girl who i know sleeps around - so really they are well suited..but when i think about it i just feel so stupid and think to myself, i should never have got involved with him cuz there i was at the start not caring whether or not i ever seen him again, or if he phoend me or gave me a text but towards the end i start to get attached to him and i was the one to phone and text him... i see him every now and again with her and i'm hurt... although it seems stupid to say this but i dont know why im feeling like this.... So can any of you figure out why?? and also id like to get mself checked out for and STD just incase, where is it i go?? thanks xx
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reader, legacy  +, writes (16 November 2007):
Hi, my best guess is that you began to fall in love with the guy. Not hard to understand even if you don't want to call it "love." You are hurting from being disappointed and betrayed. Just remember all guys are not like this, no more than all girls are like the one he is with now. I'm sorry for you but get checked out to reassure yourself then get back on with your life.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (16 November 2007):
 In the uk there are drop in centres you can go to to get yourself checked out its free and you dont even have to use your real name
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reader, CorpusDei +, writes (16 November 2007):
 As far as the STD's go, you do need to go get checked out. Where you go will depend on how old you are and/or what kind of services you want. If you've already got a gynecologist you may want to check with her for a pelvic exam and to see if she can run an STD battery. If not, or if you want a little more anonymity, check in your phone book for the local county or municipal health clinic or family planning. They'll be able to get you tested or if not, they'll have definite information on where you need to go.
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