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What can I do to raise the temperature?

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Question - (16 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xPrincessxLxX writes:

me and my bf have been having sex now for the last couple of months but i want it to be exciting but i just dont now what to do. what could i do to heat it up?

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A female reader, XxPrincessxLxX United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2007):

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XxPrincessxLxX agony auntwell my bf is 18 cummin up for 19 and certainly knows what his doing if you catch my drifft and he always wants to roleplay and whatever but im a bit shy and whenever i see him i jus want to jump on him so because im bit shy i d3unno what to do

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (19 November 2007):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

all the sex toys in the world wont make a difference if the sexual chemistry isnt there or if its a wham bam thank you mam experience.

If your fella is young like yourself chances are he really doesnt have much of a clue what to do. I know from personal experience that its hard to play the considerate lover when you are still in your teens. Its that damn testosterone!

All I could advise is to treat sex like its special. Dont just have sex for sex's sake, make it an activity where you both are simply gagging for it.. lots of foreplay, if he blows his wad too quickly then you can simply get him to focus on you until he gets hard again ( at your age it shouldnt take him more than 10-20 minutes ) that way you can be brought to a stage where you are desperate for it and he is ready to service you. Having said that he does really need to know what to do, so why dont you direct him down south while his batteries are recharging and show him what makes you feel good?. At your age the sooner you can open up and communicate about what gets you horny the better, everyone is different and everyone has different buttons they like being pushed.

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A female reader, XxPrincessxLxX United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2007):

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XxPrincessxLxX agony aunti've alredy got something from there but i want something more lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007):

ask him what he would like and what he is into and then .........................................................................................GOT TO ANN SUMMERS :d trust me

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