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writes:Well I net this guy a few months back and he is really nice and very good looking, We used to speak everytime I saw him in a club that I go to every weekend and once we had a kiss and we parted ways and he said he'd call, I saw him the week after and we were talking and he couldnt keep his eyes off me We spoke for ages and then again we went our separate ways. A week later I got really drunk before I went out as I had been experiencing a lot of problems and foolishly decided to try and forget them with the help of my friend alcohol. I don’t know what I did that night as I was drunk to the point of complete memory loss, extreme shame and embarrassment. I apologised the next time I saw him but now he wont even look in my direction, I feel really stupid and embarrassed but more importantly I have ruined my chances with him, is there anything I can do to turn this around? Apart from never drink wine again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): Sorry about that, it sucks...I know exactly how you feel, something very similar happened to me a few months ago. Unfortunately what's done is done and you can't change the events of that night, but maybe a good thing to come of this is that you won't make that same mistake again and next time will know when to stop on the wine?! Well that's how I felt!If he is a nice guy he may be a bit embarrassed for you and too afraid to say anything about that night. If you see him again try and act normal, try and make him feel comfortable or make him laugh or something to ease any tension / awkwardness, he obviously likes you so all you can do is try and maybe meet him away from that club and convince him you're not always like that- I'm sure he's been hammered before! If he's genuinely interested he should give you the benefit of the doubt, if not he's not worth getting to know. Good Luckx
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