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writes:Hi, I am 23 years old, i met a woman online, at first it was just fun and as the relation got deeper and longer i felt more and more for her, she is sweet and lovely, she got 4 kids, the youngest one is older than me by two years, i dream to meet her one day and be with her, i want to know if this relation gonna last or not, i want it to work, i love her so much, even if we are thousand miles apart, i am afraid of the age thing as she is older than me, i don't know if she is having fun with the young meat or she thinks serious .. want your opinion of the situation .. Reply to this Question
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Well, I hope that everything works out for the two of you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Rockelle & Anna for the reply
no this woman is not married, about her kids they are adults, they don't need her help any more, i have discussed with her what she wants from the relation, she love me and she wants to meet me, so she is coming to where i live to be with me someday (she said). i know what she is saying is true because i have been with her for more than a year now .
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reader, AnnaW219  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 dont think that this guy that is older than you going to wreck it because if he cares about his mum then he wouldnt as well it depends if you write back and tell me what she says i can tell you if its just beacuse she wants fun dont let the age differents put you off and ask her if its just fun and if you want a real realtionship go over to were she lives and see if it works
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reader, rockelle +, writes (16 November 2007):
Is this women married? Are you prepared at 23 to date a women with 4 kids? Are you or she willing to relocate? Im sure if you were to become serious she would expect for you to relocate since she has the 4 kids and moving for kids who are in school to be with your online bf sounds crazy. Have you discussed with her what she wants from this relationship? I do not think it is a good idea to get too serious with someone that lives thousands of miles away that you have never met. How do you know that everything that she has told you up to now isn't a complete and total lie? I would be very cautious about this realtionship and until you have the opportunity to spend time with her face to face then I would not get my hopes up. I am not saying that it wont work, becasue it does for a lot of people. But you have to make sure that she wants it to work as much as you, and is willing to sacrifice as well. Good luck.
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