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writes:I am 47 in the middle settling my divorce. I end my unhappy marriage of 22 years. It is a relief to me as I dont love my husband any more and feel great to be on my own again. I am so desperate to find someone else. I want to make up for the lost time. I met this man 18 years older than me. I am starting a new life with him. We go dancing in the working man club every Saturdays. I've never had this before with my husband so I find it very exciting. We've been together for 9 months now. I get bored going to the same place all the time. He enjoys it and never wants to change or go to places I want to go. He doesnt like pub because drinks are more dear there. He's loaded but just dont like to spend a bit more. Im also frugal but he is unbelivable mean with money. Even if I offer to pay to eat out he wont go. I find that is not life. I did talk to him but he insists and not going to change. I enjoy his company but really dont like his attitude towards money. Will this relationship work? Please advise.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 If you and he have talked about this and he insists he isn't going to change then you have to make up your mind whether you can accept his stingy ways or you will have to part ways.
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