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I've nowhere to go or have anyone to turn to. What should I do?

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Question - (16 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *michelle writes:

Hello everyone,

I am 22 and I have a 16 month old baby. I am with my baby's father almost 3 years. I love him so much. But he is always leaving me home with the baby and going out and partying and drinking all the time. That is not the kind of life I want for my son. He is very controling. He never listens to anything I have to say. When he ask whats wrong and I try to tell him he flips out so I can never talk to him. I cry all the time.I am very depressed on alot of meds. I love him so much, but he is much different day to day anymore.

I feel my life is to short, but I dont know what to do. I have no friends. No where to go. I left last night but ended up coming back because I had no where else to go. He knows that to. Can anyone help me? I am so lonely.

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A male reader, enjoimx United States +, writes (16 November 2007):

enjoimx agony auntThe guy must listen to you and work with you or else how will you be able to effectively raise your child? You must be strong and be reasonable with your expectations for what you need him to do as a parent. If he decides to not be a reasonable parent then you should not be with him, because his influence will hurt you, which will in turn hurt the child.

Its hard for guys to change.

Clearly lay out what it is you want him to do...dont be idealistic, be reasonable. This is his child too and his life...he has a right to live how he wants and parent how he wants.

The question really comes down to you and him unfortunately. He can raise his child however he wants, but if you arent happy in the relationship you must be honest and tell him then take action.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007):

listen honey...just leave him and stop being an emotional wreck. you deserve better and don't let him walk all over you like this. you've got a life to live as well. dont put yourself down for him i love you

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