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writes:My ex and I broke up a month ago we still say we love each other and make love and he says he doesn't want to get back together and that because he wants to see what else is out there and i am so lonely without him do u know what i should do??
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reader, red1982  +, writes (16 November 2007):
You poor thing. He sound like a pig! If he loved you sweetheart he wouldn't want to know "what else" is out there. You need to stop sleeping with him. At the moment he is having his cake and eating it. He doesn't need to be with you so is free to go off and find somebody else, but knows that you will be there as and when he feels like having sex.Do you have any single girlfriends that you could go out socially with. You need to learn to enjoy being single again and then you won't be so lonely and vulnerable. If you still want him back..... get yourself a new haircut, have one of your friends do you a makeover so that your confidence is high and act like you don't want him anymore. If he sees what he is missing he may come realise he's made a mistake. At the minute he's not missing anything because you are still there for him.
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reader, hmm...  +, writes (16 November 2007):
There are no compromises in love. He is either all yours or he is history. Tell him that and stick to it and he might chase you back. Tell him you need love he can give, not him and that he is replaceable. If you don't do this you will be hurt and live in hope. I know you don't feel like that now, but you have to do it!
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Sorry about your situation - it must be very tough for you?
You need to MOVE ON. If your ex bf wants to see what is out there, then don't sit around and wait for him, and open yourself up to getting hurt even more. Also - i know it is NICE to still feel loved, but your bf doesn't LOVE, else he would still be with you...
You won't win him back by making love to him. He will only continue doing this with you until he finds that 'something else' he is looking for, and then you will be left high and dry. Why not move on, and find yourself somebody who will really appreciate you. You are worth more than the treatment you are currently receiving from this guy.
Good luck...
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