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writes:am i being played for a fool?hi, i have been going out with my girlfriend for about 10 months now and i have come to a point where i'm lost, i'm 21 and she's 20 and has a 1 year old, i think i love her but cannot be sure wether she feels the same, she is a going out person who deffinatley can't handel her drink (she gets into fights wenever she does drink) i woulod rather go out for a quiet drink.this is what i need advice abouti was in a relationship before for about 18 months when i got abused i got cut burned hit on top of things you cant imagine, she has already given me a black eye once and i keep thinking she's going to do it again.she says she loves me and stuff but i also think she is cheating on me with her ex she is always on the phone to him everyday even at say 11pm when shes with me she stays secretive about what she does when i'm not around .and in the last 2 weeks i have seen her once she spends days at a time without answering m y calls or txt's even though i put read reports on so i know when she does look at them but i cant help this nagging feeling thatshe's cheating on me.i will give you an example she went to her ex for momney rather than saying to me that she needed any.i just feel like i'm a toy to her and i dont know what to do i cant talk to her about it cos her uncle has already been out looking for me thinking that i hit her yet i have never layed a wrong finger on her which i suspect is down to whatever she has said i feel like a prisoner and i relly dont know what to do any morei think i love her but could this be the wrong thing for me to do? please help regards red
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Hi there
This is probably not the answer you want to hear, but you need to hear it in any case.
THIS GIRL IS BAD NEWS.
I won't be able to say if she's cheating or not, but you seriously need to move away from her. She lies, she's aggressive, she's secretive, she doesn't return your calls etc etc etc. She has absolutely NO respect for you OR your feelings. You seem sooooo nice, and caring. WHY would you want to waste your time with somebody like this?
Get out, and move on.
You deserve WAY better.
Good luck
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