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writes:Okays...I'm a 15 year old and well i like this guy that is 16 and he HAD a girlfriend, but he broke up with her because she was always treating him bad....she would call him just to cuss him out and so on so on.So he ended it because she treated him badly and because he was starting to like me; and he had told me that he defiantly didn't want a relationship with me for a while, that way he could get to know me better, which was fine because i felt the exact same way. So we have been talking A LOT and we're always constantly flirting...but last night he gave me bad news.... He said that he wanted to get back with his ex-girlfriend because he still had feelings for her. Personally, i think that the real reason is because everyone at his school is giving him crap about the break up. He is very emotional and doesn't like hearing negative things torwards himself..he kind of cracks under pressure. When he told me i felt really upset because i have really began to like this guy, so i kind of was "screaming" at him through text messages...i tried telling him how i felt and he replied and said i'm soo sorry i still like you i just.. idk; which makes it seem like he doesn't have a reason for getting back with her; and then he tried saying that he gave me the wrong idea about her and so on....kind of like defending her. i keep trying to talk him out of getting back with her because i don't want him to be hurt again, and plus i like him. i know i'm young but could you please voice your imput on what i should do!?because i can't stop thinking about it!PLEASE HELP!i hope that story makes sense.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Well, it sounds like he really likes this girl and is not ready to call it quits. If I were you I would let the situation play itself out. If she treats him badly then obviously he likes it. If he was defending her, that should tell you something. I would move on and forget about him.
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