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writes:My boyfriend has a 2-year-old child with his ex-girlfriend I used to spend the whole Saturday with my boyfriend but now his ex-gf doesn't want me to be there whenever they are there.The child is not yet used to my boyfriend that's why she should be there also with their son. What shall I do I'm jealous knowing the fact that they are together in one house though they sleep in different beds and my boyfriend keeps on telling to trust him because he loves me and he's doing this because he wants to build a good relationship with his son and that he doesn't have any intention of going back to his ex.But why is the ex-girlfriend doesn't want to see me, because she loves my boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): Well,I forgot to say that his son doesn't speak his language and had just seen him after more than 2 years.That is the reason why she needs to be with him because he can't communicate well with him.I didn't hear her saying she hates me but the sister of my boyfriend told me she told her.She doesn't even want me to call him when they're there because she hears from him addressing me honey and he doesn't even talk with her nicely,something like she's jealous.Once I really tried to call intentionally while they were there,and she got angry at him she didn't let him see the boy for a month.He loves the boys so much that's why her black mails are effective.
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 That sounds like a complicated situation. I do not understand why she needs to sleep at his house. If he is trying to build a relationship with the child the mother doesn't have to sleep over. Have you actually heard her say that she does not want you there while she and the child are at his house? Has he formally introduced you to her? In a situation like this I think it is best to trust your instincts if you feel like soemthing isn't right then more than likely it isn't. In my opinion it just sounds unbelievable that the only way he would be able to bond with his child is if the mother sleeps over. Maybe a little more detail would clarify why that arrangement was made.
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