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writes:HiI'm a 28 year old male, dating a 26 year old girl. i really believe this is a women i would want to grow and build a realtionship possibly spend the rest of my life with. Our problem is that there is no variety/spice in our relationship. Subsequently her Libido is low and we have sex at tops x1 per week. We use to live together and she's moved out as she feels it will help our relationship. i think she feels she has way too much certainty in our relationship (which means things get boring with too much certainty) and not enough uncertainty (which is the variety and spontaneity). i'm currently looking at ways of adding variety to our relationship. not just in the bed room but in our relationship in general.i accept responsibility for the lack of passion and romance. I've been working on my business and subsequently have made immense sacrifices as well as being financially restricted. but there must be small inexpensive ways of adding variety.so if you have any advise on adding some spontaneity and variety, it would greatly appreciate it. thank youhave a great day. J
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): surprise her with a picnic or something? maybe a little cold this time of year, so how about a camp in picnic?if not living together this is one may be a little harder, but leave little notes around telling her how great she is and how much you love her. just do it and don't bring it up in conversation unless she did.
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