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writes:I'm 43, divorced and have 1 child. I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce for 1yr 9mths. I love him 100% and want to be with him forever. He dumped me last week saying he thought we were just plodding along but he did love me and thinks I deserve better than him. Will he change his mind and come back to me-if not-how am I going to live without him. Its a physical pain, i cant eat, sleep or function properly. Everything reminds me of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): Im glad tour getting by hun, This kind of breakup can get you down at all sorts of different times one min your ok next min your going out of your mind. so if you feel really bad at any time just write me i check in everyday ok, you sound pleased to have lost a little weight though now go and do some retail therapy to show of the gorgeous new you take care love x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for taking the time to reply to my question. He hasnt been in touch and i doubt he will now. I feel hurt and betrayed by him but am slowly getting back to normal. At least I have lost some weight!!! Every day is a new day and after dragging myself out of bed - i get by. Cheers. Jx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): Sweetheart my heart goes out to you, i cant tell you he is going to come back, I can say that maybe he is feeling insecure because of the divorce he may feel he is not good enough for you or even scared and confussed at the same time, not really knowing how he is feeling inside about himself would make it hard to no what he wants. I understand how you are feeling as ive been there the sick feeling not sleeping and of course both of those things happening to you, you wont be able to function. I do understand how you feel. You must take care of yourself as low as i got it was really hard but i new i had to do it for not only myself but for my children slowly try and eat a little and nap when you can it wont go away overnight and you will have to pull yourself out of bed, but which ever way it all turns out you will be stronger for it, i do hope you feel better soon, i also hope you have some good friends you can confide in that will be there for you. I wish you all the best
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reader, DV1  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 What he's saying is that you weren't keeping him emotionally satisfied. If you two have been seeing each other for a while, he was probably hoping that you would mention the desire for a greater commitment... Try telling him how you feel.
Good luck :)
DV1
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2007): hi, i am going through the same, i have been living with my partner 5 years.We still have the same house but he is never here, and when he is he is asking me to move out.I Can't seem to function properly either. i have lost weight and seem in a daze. I sleep, but waking is painful.I Know i will get over this and so will you. These men aren't the be all and end all. what gives them the right decide our fate?mine still loved me a week ago, so he said.men seem to have different feelings to us. you can live without him just as i can live without my selfish, womanising, patronising, ex partner.there is light
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