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I discovered that my mother masturbates, what should I do?

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Question - (29 May 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female Nauru age 41-50, *aelebina writes:

i discovered that my mother masturbates herself , what should i do?

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A male reader, chrissa United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

masturbating is very common in both men and women OK its nnot the sort of thing you want to discover your parents doing although, you may/may not do it yourself its your mums personal preference you shouldn't let it bother your relationship with your mother and its probably best not to bring the situation up with her, i suppose it depends on the relationship you have with your mother and how you discovered it, i mean did she tell u or did u walk in on her during pleasure whatever the situation its nothing to worry bout.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008):

Keep the information to yourself. If your Mom feels the need to masturbate that is her own personal business.

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (15 November 2007):

SamuraiRick agony auntFind out about her technique, since you inhertited her same phyisiology it might be useful for you. Get over it and celebrate your mom For being in touch with her self.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

The only thing you need to do is to stop worrying about it. Good on your mother for taking care of her own needs. You should be proud that your mother is enlightened enough to play with herself when she feels the need.

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntI can see why you feel uncomfortable about this, no guy/girl wants to see there parent pleasuring themselves.

You dont need to do anything though. What you mother was doing is completely normal and although we dont want to think or see it she is just releasing sexual tension.

Try to give you mum privacy so that you dont have to see this and she doesnt have to feel like you might walk in and see her!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (29 May 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntDon't do anything. Sure, the situation is a little awkward for you - nobody likes to know about their parent's sex lives... but, your Mom has some sexual tension that she needs to release too! It's perfectly normal and natural for women to pleasure themselves.

As for you, I wouldn't bring it up because these topics can be embarrassing. It's your Mother's private business, and please keep it private for her!

I know it must feel weird for you, sweetness. Sorry!!

xxIndia

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A female reader, jomana Egypt +, writes (29 May 2007):

jomana agony aunti don't think you have anything to do except try to give her more privacy so you don't see her doing anything you don't want to see

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A male reader, leonard j.Douglas Philippines +, writes (29 May 2007):

My mother Masturbates. Give the praise and the glory to God she's the kind of woman I would love to know. I'm going on 80 years young, and so do I. Don't bother your mother unless you help her find Someone to share the rest of her life with,if thet is what she would like to do. Even us married folks love sex for one. And sometimes it's the only game in town.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (29 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntDon't worry about it.

DV1

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntWhat can you do. Your mother is an Adult she can do what she likes. What did you expect yourself to do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2007):

You do NOTHING! There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating. Whether you are single or married. Just keep your feelings to yourself. Masturbating is not a crime! It is something personal, and eventually, we all do it!

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