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writes:Ive dated a girl for 3 yrs. Ive caught her in lies. At functions or a few parties she used to ignore me and talk to others, that was in the beginning. My big question, she went on a college recruiting trip for a company, when she flew up to meet the recruiter she was going to be working with it was a man. When she was up there with him she called me 3 hrs later than she said she would and when she did call told me she had to go to his room at night to go over work. this was 1 year ago, but after asking her recently about it she said she was in on bed and he in the other going over work. this still bothers me, do i have a right to be still upset about it..??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cag Lee "Apollo" Adarma  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Bubba,your girl told you she was going- she didn't want you getting the wrong end of the stick if you called the hotel and didn;t find her there. Then she tells you that she was in a bed and he was in a SEPERATE bed. So what?if this leads to 1 year later her saying they actually bumped uglies maybe its something you should address with her now. The fact that its upsetting you means that either your insecure with YOURSELF or the relationship. This is something you should really be sure about before talking to her about it. But you should talk to her about it- before something sparks unconciously and it leads to an unneeded end or arguement. Be calm cool and collected and be honest about your feelings. Then take her to see Oceans Thirteen and be her love.The Capt
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reader, DV1 +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Sure you do. A married woman should NOT be sharing a bedroom with a colleauge from work, regardless of how many beds are in the room. When she says that she's going to his room to go over work, that's her nice way of telling you that they're having sex, and don't wait up. Drop her like a bad habit.
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