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30-35,
*ubbloo24
writes:I'm at the end of my tether.My best friend and her boyfriend invite me over to her house.Then all they do is kiss, pull and do things infront of me that make me feel REALLY uncomfortable.They don't have any other friends becoz when they are asked to go to place with them, they always say that they need to be with each other when they see each other every day with out fail.I asked her to come and see me one afternoon and she said " oh I'd want to see *Paul*" This really angered me becoz I hadn't seen her in ages and then she picks him over me :(They only invite me over to feel like they have a friend.What should I do?
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 A lot of friendships fail because of this, men hey! lol.
Find some more friends who have time for you.
When they invite you round just tell them that theres no point when all they do is ignore you and make you feel uncomfortable.
She might not realise she is doing this!
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Stop going over. If they loev each other so much they can enjoy there own company. Find new friends spend time with them because threes a crowd especially when the third wheel doesnt want to be there
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reader, DV1  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Stop going over. It's time to find a new circle of friends. If you have a hobby, go somewhere where there are people that share your hobby. If they ever break up, tell her that it was her loss.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (29 May 2007):
 It is not too unusual for young couples to act like this. I remember there was a pair who put on a daily display of affection for the entire 6th form common room...needless to say they split up after school ended (...lack of an audience no doubt). If they make you feel uncomfortable then walk out or tell them to take a cold shower. I don't think this is a great friendship really - I am always suspicious of girls/ women who drop all their girlfriends at the first sight of a man (...oh how I suffered that syndrome in my teens and 20's as my fickle friends would come and go according to their boyfriend schedule). You seem like a nice girl so don't take it personally - you are entering a time in your life when you will meet a wider social circle through college, work etc and you will come to realise that not every couple behaves this way!
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