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writes:My bf started his own business 2 weeks ago. His goal is to earn enough so we can buy a house together and live comfortably. I once said to myself I’m not going to be marrying/moving in with a guy unless we have our own house. It has been hard for me to follow what I have said to myself since I really want to live with my bf. Should I patiently wait for the house (which will probably be in the winter 2007)? Or should I just say what the heck and rent a place with him for now? I’m scare if we started renting, it will take us even longer to get a house. At the same time, I’m afraid my bf’s business will not take off as he says it will. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 If you want to be with him, does it really matter. As long as there's a roof over your head, and love under it, it shouldn't matter. You guys won't even need a house until it's time to start a family. Just be loving to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2007): Hi there Hun,We all have conditions at times but what the heck we break them too....Renting a flat with him for a year is not a bad idea before you committ to buying a property, living together is totally different than seeing each other evenings and weekends...You will learn so much more about one another including bad habits,Good luck hope this helps
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