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writes:I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 in we have ben to gether for at least 6 months and last night he told me we have been together too long and i ask him so what's that suppose to mean he said nothing. But before last night he told me we are going be together forever. He always says he loves me so much and i tell him it too. An i really do love him i cant even sleep at night whit out thinkin about him. And he always tellin me that i dont love him but i do. An when i do tell him he ask me for real like his so surprise i said that. See i dont live by him no more and i left my old school he go to cause my mother past in he so upset that i dont stay by him nomore,he said he really miss me but he cant stand the feeling whit out seeing me thats why i kinda think he just dont want to take it anymore and wants us just to move on but the other side of him telling me he still wants to be whit me. I want to be whit him forever i love him so much i just want to cry in hug him and kiss him for ever. ...But last night when he told me we been together too long i told him what? do you want to break up whit me and he said count on 3 we both goin to do it i said im not you do it by your self but i didnt tell him that i really didnt want him to break up wit me so he made me real mad so i said something i really didnt mean, i said after u break up whit me i dont want to hear about you no more, see you are nothing so he got quiet on da phone and didnt want to talk no more. i told him i really didnt mean what i said and he said he dont care no more. i ask him do he still care about me he said no i said so u goin to leave me too he said yes. but Ive already broke his heart and he forgave me for cheating on him but i dont try to, I really really love him and want him to know that in i want to spend the rest of my life whit him, i love him as much as i love my mom and god put together and i dont want him to leave me like my mother i really need him and i know he still loves me but dont want to cause he think im going to keep breaking his heart .can you please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): hiya i thiink you should tell him how u feel
dont let him go that easy i let the love ov my life goo and now he has moove on and got a new gf just tell him u never ment 2 hert him say i reely do love u and i dont want 6 months ov ower love 2 go 2 wast tray c him more often xxx
hope it werks out well 4 u chik xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2007): Well me and my friend Ariona was on the phone wit him togetha,but she told me to call her rite baCk. Cause she was gonna ask him som question so i waited like 20min then call her back then we started arguing on the phone cause she kept sayin shes goina call me back. y we was on the phone whit him then when i call back the second time i said before she had clecked ova i told her that i was gonna tell him how i feel she said alrigth so she cleck over so we all three was on the phone so i said "no Aroina you say it for me". So she said "Robert Sheri still love you" BUT he said he dont want know gurlfriend rite now i said "Im not trying to hook back up wit u im just telling you how i feel" then he said it again he dont want know gurlfriend rite now. Then i just said well im about to tell u how i feel i said i love you Robert Y u hurt my fellling i said u said you love me in how u just gon leave me like that thin i got even mader in said "4get it" then my friend comded me down on da. Phone in he giggled in my friend told him thats not funny in he said "im not laughin". So he hung up on us cause she told me to call her back again then me in her started talkin then she told me when i wasnt on the phone that he said he dont love me like he use to.Then before we really staretd talkin he had sex wit anotha gurl..in i really was hurtbroken then i try to call him back in ask him y he couldnt tell me that in i try to talk to him.But he said "i dont want to talk to you in hung up in my face" in i anit call him sence in he havent called me.But that was last weekend.so what u think this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): thank you i hope it works
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): My darling you both sound so confussed, your both young and everyone makes mistakes in life, we dont go out to do it to hurt others sometimes the mistakes we make are because we are hurting inside ourselves. But unfortunatly we cant always take them back, But if we go through life looking back at the bad stuff in life and not forgiving ourselves then we cant understand another persons hurt, your fella is hurt you no that sweatheart and everything is all upside down, but you are also hurting that is so very clear from what you have said. you have by the sound of things gone through so much but to me you sound very strong. and when we have hurt someone we love we hurt ourselves its all part of growing up, have you thought about writing him a letter telling how you feel and how you feel for him, maybe its worth a try eh! We all say things we dont mean in the heat of the moment then 2 seconds later wish we had never said it. just remember you are a strong young woman who by what you say have a lot of faith you keep hold of that faith and i do hope you sort things out and feel better soon
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): Do you think he still loves me and i still have a chance.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 babe maybe he has bin thinkin bout u cheatin on him.. i know what pain you are goin thru after a break up, but he has made up his mind, n i think he maybe sufferin heartbreak not onlik frm losin u but also from the way u spoke to him, you are both better off without each other, find someone you love and arnt goin to cheat on um. hope i helped x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): you think he will still call me after all that? Are sould i call him i want to try not to call him cause if i do in try to talk to him he isnt goina want to talk to me i know him to good he not goin want to here it.But i know he love me please tell me what should i do.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (29 May 2007):
 You made a mistake, and you're learning consequences firsthand. It was your choice. All you can do is keep asking his forgiveness, and trying to prove it to him until he's convinced.
DV1
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