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writes:ok so I'm dating this guy who was dating someone else at the time he figured out I liked him. About a month later he leaves his girlfriend and on the same day asks me out... saying he didn't think he would have asked so soon but... anyway he hugs pretty much every girl he knows and trust me he knows alot of em! but he always asking for stuff but he treats me with respect and says he loves me and he difends me and cheers me up when I'm sad... until one night when my great grandmother died. He knew she died yet he broke up with me. saying stuff like its not becuase I don't love you! well i hang up and 5 minutes later my mother comes downstairs to tell me he called and told her what he did calling himself an a**hole and an idiot. So I call him and find out he's crying and he just punched a hole in his wall and dented his truck caling himself an idiot. He also called my cell 15 times. He said his reason was "It's just I'm going to college and I won't be around much so I want you to have someone to be there for you." still crying and asking me to take him back. now i was over at his house and someone called and he was talking really quiet on his cell to whoever it was saying stuff like " I really want to talk but i have... a guest... over." And he has all kinds of girls numbers in his cell... no i didn't check! He was going through his phonebook to find my moms number so I could call her and I saw them all. But at the same time he makes comments like: ur graduation present from me should be a... diamond ring! or straight out saying i wanna marry you when your old enough. yeh i forgot to say i'm a sophmore in highschool... anyway... to top all this off there's this guy on my team and he's kindof a mentor and I have now had 2 dreams about him kissing me and I find myself trying to talk to him anychance i can and enjoying his company and laughing and joking with him and he's laughing and joking back and I had people on my team tell me that he probably likes me becuase he acted like that towards the last girlfriend he like. I'm so confused. I mean I tried to seperate them in my head and find out which one I felt something towards and which one I could actually have a future with and I thought it was the first guy he's kind-of a dork but so am i so it works. but then the second dream came of my team mate. Erh!! Help me I'M SO CONFUSED!! who do I pick and what do I do?
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reader, DV1 +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Slow down, you're going to be ok. It sounds like he's someone who just needs a lot of attention. You're going to be ok, I promise. Leave him be for a while, and don't let all of his drama get you down. Try going on a simple date with your teammate, and see what happens.
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