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writes:I was with a guy on and off for three years, it was always ending because he was very jealous and controlling. It ended for good three months ago, partly because he was no longer interested in having a relationship with me because of our up and down history. During this time I got to know his friends and one of his friends began paying attention to me over the last two months. We seem to click and he has even invited me to do things with his family. He said that it is more than a fling. He has not however told my ex that we are seeing each other, as he knows that this will probably be the end of their friendship, and they have known each other for years. Although I think that we could have a good relationship together and we are still in the stage of getting to know each other I don't want to stay in this situation forever and told him that he will eventually have to decide whether he wants to risk his friend getting mad if he wants something good with me. I want what's best for him, I don't want him to lose any of his friends over this, but I care for him. Should I get out now, give him an ultimatum, or hang in there?
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Neither of you are doing anything wrong here.
Things didnt work out for you, but it could work out with his friend.
If he is a good and worthwhile friend then he will be happy that his mate is happy with you.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 There's that whole friends rule. If he breaks it off, they're no longer friends, and it's ok to date him.
DV1
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reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Tell the truth babe, he wasnt interested and someone else is and it just happens to be his friend, he should have held on if he has feelings for you xXx
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