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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get over my guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Please can somebody help me get over my guilt. I once betrayed my best mate, I slept with his ex girlfriend and she had our child, why I dont know. What came over me I guess I was feeling low and she was there offering herself to me and I took what was on offer, cant believe ... (63 words)

I never stopped loving her, in fact I am STILL in love...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - in love after a recent breakup..... Recently (feb '07) my partner ended our relationship because I became emotionally detached and this hurt her very much. Unfortunately I was dealing with a traumatic issue that came up and I was having a difficult time. I never stopped ... (94 words)

Why do I always want to push her away when we get close emotionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Can anyone give me advice? I am in a relationship wit a girl that i love a lot, but I start to feel scared when me and my girlfriend get close emotionally. It was like this 4 months ago and I ended up cheating on her. I want me and my girlfriend to be together but som... (138 words)

Do I try to forgive and forget and believe that he is telling me the whole truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We were only together for a month when he moved back home (hours away) for work last summer. We decided to try to make it work because we both really felt that we had an amazing conection. At first things were really ... (1391 words)

Is it appropriate for a 17 year old female to date a 14 year old male?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya I'm a 17 year old girl (I'll be 18 in September and going to college) and I wanna know if it's inappropriate to date a fellow who's 14?... (29 words)

OMG... could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with a guy last sunday. he used a condom but i do not remember much because i was drunk.. When i woke up friday i was very dizzy and i felt like i was going to throw up, that lasted a couple days. At school I could barely concentrate because i was so tired, however i ... (125 words)

How can I help her? What can I do to make her feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i will really appreciate any unbiased help with this. Me and who is now my ex, met in 2004 in autralia when we were backpacking. in a few weeks we were having a live in relatioship. and we haven't looked back. i moved to canada, here homeland, to stay with her. She ... (255 words)

How can I perk his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i just started going out with this guy but he doesn't act like a boyfriend how can i get him to be more affectionate and talk to me more?... (30 words)

Does my mum favour my brother over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I am 14 year old. My mum and dad split up 5 years ago but recently my brother who is 13 went to live with him and left our family. He didn't speak to us and when he did, he was calling us, sending messages along with his dad's family. He has he a wife and 3 other children ... (154 words)

Do you think he's falling in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

- I've been seeing this man for nearly 3 months now and we enjoy each other's company and the sex is great.. just recently he's been saying that he misses me when I'm not around and he also says he has a great affection towards me and that he cares about me, does that mean he's ... (60 words)

How can I get back with my ex? I've been a right prat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my ex have split 4 months ago due to certain incidents, I was a rite dick to be fair. We had a brief moment where things were going well. I've changed so much since we split and I realized how much she means to me, we have a baby together i want her back but dont know ... (105 words)

My boyfriend and I are "on a break." Does that mean we're over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - heya. Me and my boyfriend are on *a break* or *cooling things* for a while. I'm confused to what it all means... are we over? thank you lots xx... (33 words)

Married and I was his 'first' everything! Now porn has made problems in our marriage! What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am glad i found this site and hope for some helpful advice. I cant talk to friends or family because I FEEL like an idiot! I have been married for 11 years to a man i thought and everyone else thought was terrific, till Jan of this year, when i found out differently. Married ... (522 words)

I feel my friend is using me to get closer to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this realy close boy mate, and I made friends with this girl and I feel like she is using me to get closer to him and she keeps on excluding me when we all talk together and she is trying to take over my place as being realy close to him how do I get rid of her?... (60 words)

He always says he'll come round but never does. Am I wasting my time here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote in last week about a man who lives near me who I really like. We went out one night had a really nice time, a real laugh but nothing happened between us. He didnt ask me out again but every time I saw him he would come over and chat to me and we really hit it off. On ... (175 words)

My lover wants me to leave my bf! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a relationship with a guy for 7 yrs, and I just started having an affair. Now my lover wants me to leave the guy Ive been with. Can you please help?... (33 words)

She goes out with her friends 5 times a week! How much is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age - How much is too much? (Dancing and friends) I recently started dating this woman that has the qualities I'm looking for. Dependability, honesty, no game playing but there is one issue I think might be a growing problem in the future. She goes out with her friends 3 to... (259 words)

Im so confused! Do I try to get back with my ex fiance or go for this new guy who's 47!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and was with my boyfriend for 3 years, we even got engaged. I was having trouble coming to terms with my mums death and he thought sex was more important than my feelings. We then went on a break for a week and he moved into his mums. Then 5 days later he called to tell ... (121 words)

What is the difference between LOVE and SEX?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - hello i am asking all of you to explain to me the definition between LOVE and SEX and how they feel? thank you... (26 words)

I sex talk with a guy online and it's really spiced up things with my hubby! Is this considered cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have the instant messenger thing and I have all my friends on there. I’ve made some new ones and there’s this one guy that w/in the past month or so we have been talking on a regular schedule. Im married and he’s married and we both talk about how wonderful our partners are ... (199 words)

He came on hard and fast and the minute I responded...he backed away! What's up with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I began seeing this guy on November 1st. We really hit it off. He wanted an exclusive relationship, he said the word "love" first, he went overboard at Christmas and Valentine's so on.... So then one night I told him how I felt. Nothing scarey like, "I think we're soul ... (193 words)

He wants sex all the time...I want talking and emotional stuff! Is he using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi please help me i really do not know what to do. There is a man i am really in love with but I think he's using me. Every time I see him all he wants is 20 minutes of talking and the rest of the day having sex. I mean sex is great with him but I want more, and he has told... (105 words)

He wants a 3some but-I'm worried he'll like the other girl better! Any thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

- My bf wants a 3some. and to be honest im not to bothered by this as i wouldnt mind one myself. we do have a slight disagreement though. i want another lad and he wants another lass. i wouldnt mind that but im really scared that he'll shag one of my girl mate in the 3sum and ... (78 words)

Is he cool toward me because of his depression or..does he no longer wants me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so, I've posted a few questions previously about confusion regarding my boyfriend. I'm still confused. Well, we had a lot of tension for a while until things cooled and we decided to move back in with our own parents. We did this because he is depressed and wanted to go... (484 words)

He forgets to reply to my texts! Should I let him contact me or shall I keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Need some help please. I like this guy (actually im in love with him). He has asked me out many times. But we havent actually met up. Why does he keep asking me and not meeting me? There have been times where there has been genuine reason why he cant meet me. But he is moving... (396 words)

We talk well in person but not so great online! This upsets me..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

- Hmm, i think i might just be paranoid but what do i do? My boyfriend of 2 n alf months doesnt text me half as much anymore, and he never really talks on msn, Hes ok on the fone and in person but its just on msn and through texts etc. When we do talk through these methods hes ... (91 words)

My gf left me because 'we don't talk enough!' Is there any way i can win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend just left me because she said we dont talk enough. I dont think that is the real reason and i still love her so much. Is there any way i can win her back?... (42 words)

She talks about other guys all the time and I'm jealous! Does this mean she doesn't want to date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl i like who I'm hoping likes me as well. The problem is that she frequently tells me about how cute other boys are that she's met and in spite of myself i find myself feeling jealous. I haven't yet asked her out cos i first want to know whether she has any ... (101 words)

I flirt with this great girl. Should I get together with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Just a quick question. There's this really fit girl, I have a laugh with all the time. She's popular so she finds me uncool but I over complement her about her looks and personality, she over blushes when I do so and ends up laughing. Her friends even say she should get ... (75 words)

He has a laptop so I can't check and see what he does online! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - my b/f has a lap top so therefore i dont really see what he does on it because he may leave it at home or at work etc etc..but i get curious as to if he goes to porn sites or looking up pictures of pretty women or if he is e-mailing someone he shouldnt be. Of course i think if ... (139 words)

My ex bf gives me nasty looks and I don't know why he's doing that! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever I see my ex, he either gives me weird, nasty looks or whispers to his mates about me. I dont understand why he is doing it, we split up nearly 2 years ago because he left me for someone else, so it should be me that has a problem with him! But I did get close to one... (133 words)

The thought of spit and stuff when we kiss makes me want to vomit! How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really love my boyfriend but i find it really hard to kiss him , like a prolonged kiss with tongues. Its the thought of all the spit and stuff being passed around, it makes me want to vomit. I have no problems doing anything else with him, not even full intercourse, its just ... (73 words)

I want to be happy and confident again! How do I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have been feeling quite down, normally i'm happy all of the time always making people laugh and being positive but these past few months i've felt my confidence has really gone. Before i felt as if i could talk to anybody and not feel uncomfortable, b... (187 words)

How do you know when your in love with someone? What are the signs etc?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i think i'm in love with my best friend, we are really really close, my question is really how do you know when your in love with someone, what are the signs etc. I know i'm only 16 but when u've been friends with the lad virtually all your life i'm sure its possible to be ... (190 words)

I'm 19 and all I think of is sex, sex, sex!! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am 19 years old and i have a problem. im seriously interested in sex and i think of sex and sex and sex only. how can i get relieved as im being attracted to every1 and i think i have to maintain a relationship.any suggestions?... (47 words)

My boyfriend slept with my best friend, how could they do this to me, Im so hurt!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend for close to four years. We lived together and planned on marrying. A month ago I went on a trip for a week, when I returned my bf and I talked and decided that we both needed some time to make sure we still wanted the same things. He never moved out ... (188 words)

We have split and hes making it really hard to sell our jointly owned house! Would getting a solictor be too aggressive ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age - I finished with my partner of five years, two months ago, mainly because he was physically and verbally abusive. He is a serious control freak and hates the idea that it's me who has finally finished. He's seeing a psychologist for his anger and agression, but for me, I have no ... (145 words)

My mum brought home her new boyfriend and it turns out he was my one night stand! Should I tell her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey im in a massive mess right now and would really appreciate any advice people can give me ok Im 19 and about three months ago I met an older guy in a club. He started hitting on me and i did fancy him back but thought he was too old. he then said he was 31 which i believ... (251 words)

I ended up having sex with the wrong number guy! All I wanted was a friend should I stay in contact ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ilive with my boyfriend,but the relationship is a mess.My love for him is fading day by day,he makes no effort to express his love.I met this guy who mistakenly called my mobile and we clicked straight away,what amazed me is that he got the same problems and has lived with his ... (93 words)

Its my first house party next week, but Im worried as I dont know what to wear or how to dance!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 and never been 2 a house party or night club or anything. but im going 2 my mates house party next week and im nervous cos: what do i wear? how do i dance cos i have never danced before!?!... (46 words)

My girlfriend said she would never get back with me, so why does she still contact me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend said she would never get back with me!! I wrote an email, i love you but we have to move on now. take care. So why does she still phone me????? Seems that when she is lonely and things go wrong in her life she comes to me Please answer. Thanks... (63 words)

I Finally left my alcoholic Husband! Hes been begging me to go back saying he will change, What should I do!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I did it! I left my bitter alcoholic husband this past weekend. It's only been 2 days and he's already calling me constantly begging for forgiveness and saying that he'll do what ever it takes to get me and the kids back. I want to believe him, but as I told him, it's going ... (180 words)

Im in love with someone, How can I get them to notice me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with Someone But i just dont know how to make them know im here and notice me Its like I dont exist What do i do to get them to see me ?... (42 words)

My wife has just lost her dad, I really want to support and help her through this but she wont let me in, what can I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, hope many of you can help here.Me and my wife are ahppily married and have been for sometime we normally are very open with each other and can tell each other anything but since last Thursday shes been finding life very hard. She lost her dad to a liver disease which he ... (416 words)

Dating four months so how do I know if he's ready for the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) age 41-50 - OK I asked for advice on here before and it's all worked out in the past.....another dilema! Me and my b/f have been seeeing each other for 4 months now, we are both in our 20's and both live at home with our parents. We never get any time alone to ourselfs, as someone else ... (150 words)

I have 4 kids--should I stay with hubby for their sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband doesnt take me seriously. I mean im bored the point is we have four children he works days and i work nights but only untill 10 oclock. We have only been married for three and half years hense my two eldest children are from a previous relationship. He doesnt... (313 words)

Im depressed all the time, I think my relationship could be the problem, what can I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel really depressed at the moment i just cant seem to snap out of it.ive not woked for a while and that is getting me down tho i should be starting a new job in a few weeks. my relationship is not going well as i feel my boyf of just over year isn't interested he's never ... (155 words)

Shes my first girlfriend and I think shes too good for me! Im worried that Im going to do something stupid and lose her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys!! I am 20years old and have just got my first girlfriend, she was my friend before for about four years. Four years ago when we first met she told me she liked me but at the time i was arrogant n thort i could do better because i had other girls telling me they ... (452 words)

I touched something inside her.... is she still a virgin ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey.. i have a girlfriend and were still together like more than 2 years and shes worried because i put entered my finger in her thing..and it was about 3.5 inches..and i felt something its hard to explain what but it was a little deep and i hardly touched it and pulled m... (109 words)

Anyway know how I can get a healthy glow without streaking or turning orange!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

- I'm extremely pale, I don't tan at all, and especially now I'm probably at my palest. A couple of people have being somethings at school.. such as that I shouldn't stand next to a wall (white walls in our school) because I would blend in, and random people just pointing... (160 words)

One of my employees has been smoking dope in his car at break time, do I confront him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age - HI I am a manager and suspect one of my staff has been smoking dope in his car at breaks, do I confront him to see his reaction, if so what do I say,I don't know what to do? What does it do to people I really have no Idea?... (53 words)

Is he just getting with me on the rebound ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend may be getting back together. he broke up with his girlfriend just over a week ago and we have been getting closer ever since, he was with his ex girlfriend for over a year, she fancies someone else and he fancies me, i am just scared incase i am getting ... (72 words)

How long should I expect the break to last while she gets her business sorted out!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I posted a few weeks ago about my girlfriend who wants a break to concentrate on her business because its failing. She said she loved me and it wasn't a permanent break and that she'd contact me, she just needed to sort her business. It's been four weeks now, whic... (137 words)

Why cant I have 2 wives if both women love me!?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - why i cant have 2 wifes if both woman loves me and i love them , and who made that law for us and what is the sense of it? as we all know that woman get another kind of feelings and therefor man and woman fall in love and make a new life and they are the basic of human history ... (153 words)

Does anyone know of Nostradamus? Do you have faith in all that he predicted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know of Nostradamus? Do you have faith in all that he predicted? Do you have faith in this and that he predicted WWIII? If so and you read through his premonitions do you feel scared as i do. With War in the air at our time? do you feel that he was right in the ... (155 words)

She has lack of interest in being intimate as she feels unattractive, this causes rows and now our relationship is in danger!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - As of recently my girlfriend and i have had a problem with being intimate (lack of sex , no prolonged kissing etc..) , when we talk about it , she says its the fact that she has no sexual desire whatsoever , because she says she doesnt feel sexy because she is overweight ,and ... (143 words)

When I have sex I feel nothing! Nothing at all, whats the point to it ? How can I turn this around ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

- I need some advice about sex. I'm just feeling so weird about it at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years and he's amazing: he gives me loads of attention and wants to please me every time. However, I just don't get it. Mentally and physically, I feel nothing when I ... (225 words)

When my nipples are touched I feel really wierd! Could this be due to something that happend when I was younger ?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

- I know this may sound wierd but please dont laugh. Whenever I touch my nipples i feel overwhelmingly depressed or sad and I feel like every thing is wrong and I often feel a bit sick. Do you think this feeling could be from something that happened to me when I was younger? Or ... (62 words)

Why do I want to run the other way, when I find out a guy likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

- whenever I like a guy and I find out he likes me to I want to run a mile! I dont like the thought of other people knowing my feelings. what does this mean and how can I get around it? Because im fed up of being alone and i really want to get over my insecurities and have a ... (66 words)

Husband thinks an old bf is seeing me and now I worry, he'll stray on me! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband we don't talk to each other, because of the email he found in my cellphone from ex-boyfriend telling me how much he love me. My husband he thinks that I still see the guy somewhere.I don't know what to say to him to make him believe that a broke up while a... (93 words)

He's almost 40 and his family is threatening to disown him if we date again! Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I have recently started getting close again after being apart for 14 months. We were together for 7 years and we have a two year old son. His family have never liked me nor have they even really bothered getting to know me and our relationship did have its ups... (156 words)

Torn between 2 men! Is chemistry more important than a stable relationship and a good future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all! i'm sorry this is quite a long question and any answers i get will not influence the chioce i've already made but i would really like everyones opinion on "chemistry" Heres the thing, about a year and a half ago i met this guy (he was a courier delivering to th... (487 words)

My husband is not willing to change things to make his future more secure. Why is he this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married now for eleven years. It's not a bad marriage, but we have our problems like everybody else. My husband has always worked in factories as an unskilled labourer. He is concerned that this may not be a long-term job option for him, as many employers favour ... (254 words)

Relationship is fizzling and I don't know why! How can we save this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - our relationship is on the rocks, it feels as though its just fizzling out. nothing major has happened to cause this, its just happening over time. is there anything we can do to save it??? ... (35 words)

Men don't notice me! So tell me honestly, guys...what does a man look for in a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there im after some male advice really. What does a man look for in a woman? Its probably a common question but I would love some answers. I go out alot and im fairly outgoing. But when I go out with my friends its as though im invisible men just dont notice me, my ... (189 words)

He left me and our little daughter! I'm a mess..how do I cope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my partner has just left me after 4 years together we have a 2 year old daughter as well.. i just cant seem to cope im lonly i love him so much and i would do any thing to have him back he rang the other nite saying he regrets it and wants to come back then he took me out ... (107 words)

She wants to move on and I'm finding it hard to accept..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have just broken up with my girlfriend after 3 and a half years together. Recently we have been fighting over really stupid little things and are both to stubborn to say sorry and so let things get out of control.I feel that a major part of our problem has been that we ... (311 words)

Are these good or bad ways to flirt ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) age 30-35 - OK so i like this girl and asked her out. I dont really know how to flirt... but i do all this childishj stuff to her.. Like when she is gone ill take her bag and books and she will act silly and try to take them back and one day my friends wanted me to ask her out and they ... (93 words)

This girl is spreading lies about me because I said no to dating her! What can I do ?

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27 March 2007 (M) age 30-35 - OK,Well i have recently asked a girl out. And another girl likes me and i said no to her and she is making up lies that make mad but i dont want to seem like if someone talkes about me ill snap on them what can i do this girl said i went out with her when i didnt... (62 words)

Things arent has romantic as they were, Will he fall back in love with me ?

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27 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this strange relationship with a 34 year old man who lives in NYC(I am 22 and I live in Mexico), we see each other at least each month. At first it was all romantic, but he turned now to be distant, he is not dating with any other guys, and he stopped having hook ups, he ... (140 words)

She says I'm smothering her and needs time apart! Will time heal this relationship ?

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27 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My relationship of 18 months has been fading for several months. I am as committed as I was in the beginning but she says that I am smothering her and needs time apart. There has been a tremendous lack of intimacy and she is unable to explain why? She requested a break to sort ... (114 words)

Am I getting my wires crossed and making the situation confusing ?

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27 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A few weeks ago I was talking to my boyfriend about how stressful it is still living at home and about how my job is pretty much the same ( I work with my downed syndrome brother, which I mostly do the job to help my mom because she's been through a lot ). But its not that I ... (343 words)

Is his searching for a job all over the place, in other states, his way of escaping commitment ?

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27 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for the last year and a half, when we first starting seeing each other he was still married, although he was working away from home, since then he and his wife are getting a divorce. We get along well most of the time, and for the most part I am ... (154 words)

Should I go to the prom ? Dont really want to, and dont want my crush to go with anyone else!

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27 March 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hey, all. I have a small dilemma and I can use any advice that you might have for me. Prom is getting closer and the thing is, I decided taht I wasn't going to go because it isn't something that I'm really into. However, there is this guy that I like and he keeps telling me ... (175 words)

Why do people mis-use each other ?

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27 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello I am after all only a human I dont quite understand why people miss-use each other ?? Why do people treat each other like things ? I really need to know if that is normal?... (46 words)

Does he think we are boyfriend/girlfriend or what? I am too shy to ask him.

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27 March 2007 (F) - Ive recently been seeing this boy for over a week now. hes still not ask the question, " will you go out with me" but the other night i said to him .. " how long have we been seeing each other for" and he replied " over a week but seems like we have been GOING OUT for longer "... (79 words)

How can we make penetration easier?

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27 March 2007 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend tryed to have sex the other night. but he couldnt get his penis in me, he found it sore because i was to tight. but i am not a virgin, its been 4 months since i had sex with someone else and it wasnt as difficult , how come ?, and also he isnt a virgin... (82 words)

He seems a very sexual person, how can I be sure that's not all he's after?

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27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i just turned 19 years old and im dating a guy that i met over the internet who is 36 years old. there are a few problems here he thinks im 20 but also he is a very sexual person which is ok with me but how do i make sure that's not all he wants. he's also talking about moving ... (81 words)

I want to so bad but how about if he doesn't feel the same back? Should I tell him?

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27 March 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Well I met this boy online. He's 17 and I'm 14. When I talk to him I get butterflies. And he's told me constantly how beautiful I am and how he loves me. I love him so much too. But we always just flirt. He doesn't know that I reallllyyy do love him. And I have this feeling he ... (98 words)

She won't let me go home to see my parents unless she's with me!

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27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I am a 21 and a lesbian. I am in one of the most unhealty realationships possible I think. My girlfriend won't as much as let me go home to see my parents unless she is there with me and I am not allowed out for drink with out her cause she can't trust me.... (57 words)

How can I ask her out again so she GOES this time?

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27 March 2007 (?) - i asked this girl out 3months ago. we didn't know each other so she said she doesn't feel the same and just wants to be friends. well suprisingly after i asked her she continued to talk to me on msn a lot. We are planning to go out in group of friends just 4 of us. but lots ... (178 words)

How can I get her to talk to me and be honest with me about what she is feeling?

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27 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf of 6 years and I have been havin a lot of problems and have split up twice now this year. We have 3 young kids together. We split up for around 2 weeks in Jan, during this time we spoke about all our problems and said that we both loved each other and would give it an... (434 words)

How can I find my TRUE feelings for each and decide what one I want to date?

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27 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i (me aged 19) dont know how to say this but... i've a boyfriend (for this "fred" aged 24) and we were/are happy but i have'en felt as close to "fred" since i met someone at work (for this "tom" aged 35) and we are going out still but i have not felt not as close to "fred" ... (130 words)

I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me?

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27 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya every one I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me? I have told my mum and dad that he is 22 but a hate lying to them and also I dont even no if I love him yet because I'm scared to fall in love again because me ex cheated and it h... (98 words)