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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 24 and have been married 2 weeks. My husband (28) has just taken a lover who is 64!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 24, and have just got married to my new husband who's 28. Recently he went on a business trip for a few days, or so it seemed, until a good friend (female) had told me she'd seen him with his lover. I thought that was bad enough - seeing as we've only been marrie... (235 words)

How do I remove a question from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (?)

- I need to remove a question i asked as it has my name on. I very much regret writing it and if my boyfriend types my nickname into google it comes up. It would be over or make my life bery difficult. I have tried to remove myself but have failed. Please help... (56 words)

When we're together it's wonderful then he stops contacting me for weeks/months at a time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes, will make as brief as possible! Met a guy on a dating website in 2005, hit it off and arranged to meet up few weeks later although that never happened (I had other plans arranged). Kept in touch via text and emails, then he went off abroad to do conserva... (479 words)

His room mate seems to be making up excuses now about me moving in saying it's a bad idea.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been planning to move in with my boyfriend for months, and his apartment mate was fine with it at first, but he seems to be making up excuses for why its a bad idea and being extremly difficult. His main complaint is that I don't let him act like king of the castle because ... (161 words)

How do you get over the fact your boyfriend or husband looks at other women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do u get over the fact ur boyfriend or husband looks at other women ??? i cant deal with it to the point i dont want to have sex any more . i feel used and cheap and always thought my ex thought of other women ( eg todays page 3 girl (ie topless girls in the news paper) why ... (77 words)

He's started talking to me for no reason... do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need ur opinion.today i had midterm exams and the guy sitting behind me is 1 year older..he has never talked to me as he is in grade 12 and im in 11th. but yesturday he asked me what did the teacher have up on the board... then today he asks me what exam i have..so i told him ... (180 words)

I feel like I can't exist without him, I'm so confused about men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - we have been seeing each other for since last june he was the best looking , most laid back , kind happy person ive ever meet and i truly love him /... until xmas every thing was fine (i was paying for everything as he didnt have a job that was my only problem) then i got ... (410 words)

I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now but still never had an orgasm.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been going out with my bf for nearly 2 and a half years and in the time we have been having sex, i have never had an orgasim. what should i do about it? ... (38 words)

We get on great and are very comfy together, I love him and want to make it official, how can I tell him without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy for over a year and things recently have got very comfy with us, which is great. I love it a lot but, it was always a casual thing and it hasnt became official. I know he enjoys my company, as I do his and we always have a laugh together and we dont ... (108 words)

I already have 2 children from a previous relationship but my partner wants to have kids and I'm not sure I want any more.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, My girlfriend is 23 years old. I am 31 with 2 children and seperated. We disagree quite often on things and not so long ago the issue of more kids came up. The problem is she definitely wants some in the future, and Im not so sure I do. I do however Love her ... (109 words)

I have started missing my ex again and thinking that we have got what it takes to work things out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have started missing my ex again and thinking that we have got what it takes to work things out. I think it would be a waste to not work it out. Bascially I still love him, and he is not showing any signs of anything, apart from he is angry at me. How can I go about ... (136 words)

Why do I feel so annoyed and angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - My husband has got a drinking mate who he sees occasionally. At Christmas I mentioned to him to see if him and his wife wanted to go to for a meal as a foursome as we hadn't done so for ages. The mate thought it would be a good idea and then nothing more was said and then the ... (637 words)

Is my husband cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is my husband cheating? I say yes but I want you to confirm or give me a better explanation My cell phone bill included a list of calls I confronted my husband because the person text messaged claiming saying I love you he said that he doesnt know the number the te... (120 words)

I really love this guy but two days ago was the first time he's ever hit me and left me a mark.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old female that has been with a man for almost three years.In the past year we had made a family. I am so confused because i feel like he is losing interest in me and I feel like he don't love me. He's always telling me he needs space: like hang out by his self ... (101 words)

My dream girl just left me and I'm dying without her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - (sorry for the long text..) My dream girl just left me..and I'm dying without her I've been madly in love with this girl for my past 5 years (i'm 20 now), all throughout high-school..one year ago, we got together. I was never happier in my life..she really was my perfect dr... (581 words)

I left my husband 5 days ago, if we sleep together is that giving in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just seperated from my husband 5 days ago, and it's no secret that he wants me back but I know I'm not ready for that yet. I left him not just because he's an alcoholic, but because he's an alcoholic who has hurt me over and over again mentally and physically for the past ... (212 words)

Any advice about my pregnant girlfriend who is thinking of getting rid of MY baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girl friend who I plan to marry very soon in a year or so is pregnant. She is secretly thinking or planning to get an abortion because she is worried about me and my plans or us. I love her and she loves me. This would be her second child. She is to go to college in ... (151 words)

What are your dating deal breakers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, What are your dating deal breakers? Each question goes like this: Would keep dating someone that ___ ___ ____ _____? Is that enough or does their have to be more issues? Assume that this person here your very attracted too in many ways, still........... (568 words)

Should I talk to him about the email I saw or leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i found this from my boyfriends bebo mailbox... Subject RE: hey Sent 276 days ago eres a dilema!!! a guy has a gf, he chats 2 3otha galz dey lyk him, he finks of dem as m8s!!! 1 day he accidently let slip dat he lyks dem. now dey wnt him!!! wat shal he do? u gt... (162 words)

I really really like him but he's 20 and I'm only 16.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey... ok ive got a problem im 16 and theres this guy whose 20 and we really like each other... he's one of my mates pals but we havent met coz of the distance but since yestaday we both realised that we have been what each other are looking for and that we both have liked each ... (144 words)

How do I tell my new gf about my fetish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I am currently dealing with a problem in my relationship. Well Ive been seing this one gurl for quite some time now and i must say Im very in love with her and shes the one. But one thing thats kind of difficult to do is tell her a fetish I really enjoy and want to do ... (238 words)

Why is it that I find it difficult to trust people..especially my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that i Find it difficult to trust people?? and wnt to question everything my girlfriend does ... (19 words)

He's with another girl but i need to know-- how do I get him to like me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! Im Elly. I've got a bit of a problem because there's this boy that I really like and he really likes me because hes told me but now he will not admit it! And the reason how I know he likes me is because i've done stuff with him! He frigged me and i got with him. But the ... (130 words)

Is it normal to chase a girl for 2 years that you've only been with for one month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - hello Is it normal to run behind a girl for 2 years that you had a relationship with for only one month? Why does it feel like I have to? I've got no control over my feelings. Is this romance or madness? thank you... (47 words)

After he turns 18, does that mean that everything below the waist is illegal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is turning 18 in a month, and I am 10 months his minor. We both live in North Carolina. The age of consent in North Carolina is 16, but he said that it's still could be illegal for everything below the waist? That seems confusing. If I consent to it, is it still ... (65 words)

I have never worn underwear. How can I do this without feeling uncomfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - please answer me asap ok. i'm a 18 years old boy and i've some sensetive problems. my problem is that I don't wear underwear and I have never wore it except when I was a child so now i feel that I want to wear but I can't because when I wear it I can't control my sexual thing. ... (115 words)

Do I wait it out or give up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Do I wait it out or give up?? I have fallen very seriously for a close friend of mine... but he has a girlfriend of 2 1/2 years (I've only known him about 6 months). I know he likes me; we spend A LOT of time together, he constantly texts me, and we almost kissed one night...... (95 words)

I want to masturbate with the penis head exposed to see how it goes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, well recently i had built up my courage to go see my doctor about my foreskin that couldnt retreact easily. After consulting him, i can fully pull back the foreskin and expose the head of the penis when my penis is in its smallest condition. For 15 years i had never seen ... (244 words)

I'm sure his ex will think he cheated on her with me but that's NOT the case!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw my boyfriend for the first time in a while yesturday and we were going to keep it a secret us seeing each other as he has just come out of a relationship. his ex girlfriend has moved on already and has got a new boyfriend, when he came to mine to see me someone saw us and ... (144 words)

Im 16 and atttracted to girls and boys, what does this mean ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

- Hi. Im a 16 year old boy. Im attracted to men as well as women. When i maturbate i think about men, but then sometimes i automatically think about women. I seem to look at women sexually as well as men. What does this mean? I'd be grateful for any replies. Thanks.... (52 words)

I want to try for another baby but Im scared, and also worried that it would be betraying my sons memory!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello some of you may remember me as I have posted a few questions before. Me and my boyfriend have been through a rough year, to the point where I thought I didn’t love him anymore. Well after a lot of talks we decided to be together as we are very much in love despite of ... (163 words)

Whats the best way to help a girl with a broken heart ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - whats the best way to help a gurl with a broken heart?... (12 words)

I miscarried a while ago, then fell pregnant with twins, one miscarried, and the second wouldnt have made it, me and my husband are in so much pain, please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

- Hey its been a while but I need your help again please Agony aunts. About a year ago I got pregnant and didn't know what to do as I already had 2 small children, I decided to carry on with the pregnancy but at 12 weeks I miscarried having to actually give birth (agony). I ... (177 words)

Is it better for a guy to reach orgasm quickly or to take a while?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a question about sex! Is it better for a guy to reach orgasm quickly or to take a while? Could someone please explain that to me? thanx... (33 words)

Shes got cold feet, she said she loves me and wants me but not right now!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been having girl troubles for about the past month and she's playing the whole "I love you and I want to be with you... someday... just not now." act. We have been together for about 1 year and lived together for about 3 months. Everything went swimmingly and very were mor... (562 words)

Is it a big thing for a girl to lose her virginity!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it a big thing for a girl to be broken in? and another quick question is that my girlfriend has told me about a fling in her past when she told me I became jealous its because she is more experience then me, when she told I think I even started losing a trust in her n ... (135 words)

This guy at work keeps coming in my office and sitting there staring at me! How can I get him to stop ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy where I work who will constantly walk by my office and stare at me. He will also come into my office and just sit in the chair across from me so I will divert my attention to him for a moment and try to make small talk, but after the conversation is over he'll ... (118 words)

I dont think Im what she wants in the long term, I cant change into what she wants me to be, How do I end it ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 10 months, previously I had been in a long term relationship [7 years] and she had been in a few shorter relationships [1-2 years]. We seem really happy together and have spoken about marriage, most of the time we get on ... (412 words)

I love him immensely but he told me he loves someone else, what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my relationship is going no where ??? please help I'm 24yrs old and in love with a guy who is 23 for the last 3yrs. Now the relationship is going a bit wayward as he gets angry with me all the time,curses me. He tells me that he has relationship with other guys as well. he... (82 words)

The sex is great but how will I know if I have had an orgasm ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, what does an orgazam feels like? I am very pleased with the sex with my boyfriend and I enjoy it so much, and sometimes I feel that I am coming or that I am very close...but how will I KNOW that this is an orgazam? Is it just a great pleasure or some kind of explo... (92 words)

Shes dating someone else, but I think she likes me and is with him for the sake of it, should I ask her out ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

- Ok so i will try to make this as short and brief as i can. I have known this girl for quite a while now about 4 months and i really like her but we got off at a really stupid start. Before i got to know her i had told some friends that i liked her, and ofcoarse people like to ... (676 words)

Is an orgasm THAT important???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it a big thing for a girl to get her first proper orgasm????... (14 words)

We have been together for 5 years, But I still cant orgasm!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - When I have sex with my boyfriend I do not orgasm, infact I have never had an orgasm.I feel as though I get realy close but then it passes and then i just have an overly sensative feeling and this is uncomfortable. Its not just intercourse its when he performs oral on me ... (104 words)

Met a guy off the internet, was it just all about the sex for him ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met up with a guy of the net about 3 weeks ago. The chemistry between us was crazy and we ended up kissing on the first meeting. Second meeting we ended up having a one night stand, except I left in the middle of the nite because he didnt want to get caught by his flatmate ... (146 words)

We are married but have been living apart for 4 years, and no sex for 3 years, does he still love me!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused. I love my husband but I'm not sure if he loves me anymore. He prefers we live apart because he says at the moment we can't afford to live together. we have a child together but I have be like a single parent. I want a divorce but I'm scared that I rushing in... (187 words)

Im in love with a married women, Ive always proffessed to being straight, How can I come out and admit Im gay ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a female and for the last 6 months i have been in a secret relationship with a married women. I love her and she loves me, but as someone who has always been straight how can i possibly come out and admit my love... (48 words)

He said he only slept with her because he was high! Is that really a valid reason ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend slept with someone else! And now our relationship is over. I asked him why he did it and he said because he was high - Look, i know that alcohol and drugs can make you lose your inhibitions and judgement, but is this really a valid explanation???? I thank you all ... (58 words)

I found him with a prostitute! 12 Months on I still cant forgive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, what do i do, i have been married for 16 years, together for 20, we have a 10 year daughter and 1 year old son, when our son was 2 months i found out my husband had visited a prostitute for oral sex whilst i was pregnant. eventually it came out that he had been looking ... (371 words)

How do I accept the difference between men and women ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have fallen in to this vicious circle that prevents me from relating with women. I generally judge them first and most of the times, i realize that i could not trust them. As i cannot trust them, i keep judging them to the extent of demeaning them to be worthless. I can trust ... (104 words)

Im so stupid for loving him, he will never see me in that way, How can I get over this!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im so dummb! Ive loved this guy named Ramon for about 1 year.. i see him everyday at school... I always turn the other way when he commes near me.. i always stay silent when he talks to me sometimes i stalk him cause i cant help myself im so dumb because nothing can ev... (157 words)

Im paranoid when Im not with my bf, I miss him all the time and worry so much when were not together!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

- Hi everyone Im with a great guy and have been for 9 months Recently he moved closer to me which is great. At frist i guess i had trouble with us getting more complacent as we wernt being so into one another when we met up as we were seeing more of each other Before that we j... (313 words)

Im a recent victim of a racist attack, I'm scared and traumatised, should I see a proffesional ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in a country where racism is supposed to be a thing of the past but is still an issue. I have recently been a victim of a racist attack and it has left me traumatised and scared to go any where. Should i see a professional therapist?... (49 words)

My long distance boyfriend never calls when he says he will, We love each other so why is this ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend's bad calling habbits anymore! We're in a long distance relationship and a few weeks ago he moved out of his roomates place and back home with his parents. His cell phone has been dead for the past month and he's not home very much ... (322 words)

The pregnancy test showed two lines really faintly! Im 9 days late, could I be pregnant!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had unprotected sex two weeks ago, I am nauseous, I smell everything, by breast are a little bigger but not sore. My period is 9 days late. I took pregnancy test a very very faint line makes me question if it is really there, but when I held it to the light I could not see ... (83 words)

What can I do to speed up the process of getting back with my ex!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! Right as I thought I was getting over my ex, he came back into my life. At first he started saying don't do anything with any other guys, then he said do what feels right. He says he is confused and not sure what to think about me and him. I am in love with him still, b... (144 words)

Ive not missed a period yet, but could I still be pregnant from the first guy despite having a period ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex on march 2. i had my period the following week. then . on march 18 i had sex with a different guy. i've been feeling kinda sick here lately yet i have not missed my period yet. is it possible if i do miss my period that i could be pregnant from the first guy even tho ... (65 words)

Hes fab and hes keen to take me on some dates, but hes bisexual, what if he gets bored of me and wants a guy!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I met this wonderfull guy he is funny,adorable,gorgeous,beautiful and so sincere but he is bisexual and I have fallen in love with him and I told him that I loved him and he was blown away but this. We are good friends and he said he wants to take me on a few dates to get ... (155 words)

I am crazy on this guy but he always pulls the "just friends" card!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have this guy friend. He's smart, funny, cute, unbelievably witty, and I'm crazy about him. Problem: I've made it plainly clear I like him in telling him twice, but he always pulls the "just friends" card. He started playing hot and cold days before our last dance and ... (89 words)

I have 3 guys in my life... how do I handle this dilemma?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, im 15 and i THINK im in love with my friend and he tells me he loves me back (seems fine, whats the problem you may think) well there is a trio of us best friends, me the guy im in love with which i will refere to as guy 1 and our other friend who i will refere to as guy ... (187 words)

Why are 11-13 year old kids talking of dating and sexual contact???

This question has 54 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - hello It might be I am wrong or I came from mars but it is so tragic to see 11 to 13 years old kids are dating and talking about sexual contact? Where are the families? Why don't they look after their kids? thank you... (49 words)

My ex is upset, my friend is upset, how do I fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So, me and my ex were texting each other...things were going great...we were joking around and then he said, "hey, well my sister told me that she found out that I fingered you." And then I freaked out because his sister is my friend...and now everything is going to crap. My ex ... (108 words)

is there evidence of couples getting together after a long struggle of distance and silly problems...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met an amazing guy last year and we were dating for a month before he went to Fiji for 6 months. This was originally planned before we even met, and I wanted a relationship from him, but he insisted it wasn't a good idea because he was going to the University of Edinburgh to ... (492 words)