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writes: OK,Well i have recently asked a girl out. And another girl likes me and i said no to her and she is making up lies that make mad but i dont want to seem like if someone talkes about me ill snap on them what can i do this girl said i went out with her when i didnt Reply to this Question
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (28 March 2007):
 Dear Bigryan0301,
Your at that age where you will have problems like that people talk stuff about you all the time and it hurts, but just explain to her that she needs to stop talking stuff about you and if she dont then you will start saying things about her. but honestly it may seem really bad that she is saying that went out with you but thats really nothing compared to what she could of said, but just ingore her as long as you know the truth then dont worrie about it! but just talk to her and tell her how you feel....good luck
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 Stick up for yourself, tell her nicely to stop what she is saying. If that doesn't work then tell her she may not like rumours to be spread about her, but if she carries on you may have to start fighting back, and spreading some.
She is just a woman (girl) scorned, and is being a bit pathetic.
It seems you made the right decision not to date her.
Good luck X
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reader, Midge +, writes (27 March 2007):
 There are a few ways of dealing with it. You could ignore them and eventually she will get the picture that you are not interested and not fazed by what she is saying and doing, and she will eventually stop.
Alternatively, you can confront her say that you have heard some stories that are troubling you. Dont say to her that "you said" this and that. Just say that you have heard some stories and you just wanted to get to the bottom of them. She may deny them, but at least you have now told her that you know of these stories and not happy about it. The stories should stop. She is just hurt and wants to get back at you for saying no. Its childish but it happens all too often!
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