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female
age
36-40,
*halkie
writes:hi I am a 21 and a lesbian. I am in one of the most unhealty realationships possible I think. My girlfriend won't as much as let me go home to see my parents unless she is there with me and I am not allowed out for drink with out her cause she can't trust me.
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reader, chalkie +, writes (4 April 2007):
chalkie is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey guys thanks for year help things are going great we had a long chat sorted it all out thanks again; to the people who took the time to reply
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 I got your email so I'll reply here for you. It seems to me that she feel very insecure about herself and about your relationship. She was terrified you might fancy your ex again and this was why she flipped. It's up to YOU to let her know she has nothing to worry about. Reassure her and tell her exactly how you feel about her but let her know too that she needs to be able to trust you. Ask her... "have I ever cheated on you in the past?" Comfort her, hug her and tell her she has absolutely nothing to worry about. When you are out on your own, call her, tell her you are crazy about her and you're looking forward to seeing her again. Once you build up that reassurance and confidence in her again then I'm sure she'll become less possessive.
Eve
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reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (27 March 2007):
 You need to gain her trust have you ever cheated on her with another woman or man? If not then you need to talk to her about this and say you cant put up with it anymore.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (27 March 2007):
Why is she like this? Have you cheated on her in the past? How long have you both been together? You need to sit down first and foremost with her and reassure her big time! Next you need to set boundaries within your relationship. Let her know she's stifling you being so possessive with you and it's making you dislike her. I'm sure if you both sit down together and try and get to the root of why she feels this way then you're well on your way to being able to solve things.
Eve
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