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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't care if he's the right guy, I want to have sex! Is this wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey the thing is, im 16 and ive been kissin n doin everyfink else wif this guy i know now for bout 6 months n wen wer together we get on really well but i know hes a player and when hes not with me he messes me about(not txtin bk n things) but im now at the stage i jst wanna ... (144 words)

Just broke up with him and I'm in so much pain...please healp me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - please help me, i have jst broken up with my boyfriend and in lots of pain any advice?... (18 words)

Should I take our daughter and leave my angry man with the short fuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help! I am a my wits end. My fiance of 8 1/2 years seems so different now. He always seems to be angry and has a short fuse whenever our daughter or I make mistakes but he doesn't seem to be like that with his daughters who visit on weekends. I am considering leaving ... (78 words)

I'm eating more to get a more curvier look! Is this like an eating disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! im not worried about this but just curious. im 16 and have had a boyfriend for the last month and a half. whenever we hug he always feels my hips and my curvy bits (not my boobs) and stuff. now recently i have heard from a lot of people that men like curvy girls and ... (132 words)

I dreamed my bf was stroking another girl's hair! What does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i had a dream about my bf last night. (we have been together for 2 and a half months and are both 16). the dream was of him stroking this girl from my schools, hair. she is very popular and would never take any interest in my bf (no offence to him). anyway, she wa... (97 words)

We broke up a year ago and now we're having sex frequently. Does he love me or is he leading me on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my Boyfriend over a year ago, he was my first serious boyfriend and we were together for just over a year, two weeks after we broke up he started seeing somebody else, they were together up until new year and have recently broke up, during that time i saw him on ... (140 words)

I broke up with my bf! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

- Okay, I almost don't want to write this, coz I really want to believe that I have done the right thing and not second-guess my decision. But I do need someone's advice.. I just broke up with my boyfriend. I was, well, am 4 yrs older than him(I'm 25). And we go to the same uni... (645 words)

What jealousy like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi what are the reasons to getting jealous of your ex-boyfriend?? any ideas?? what is jealousy like?... (20 words)

I really like him and want to know..what is going on in his head? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really, really ,really like this guy. Weve talked a few times and he told my friend i was cute and that he would like to have a girlfriend like me. I really dont know what is going on in his head but i would like to know. So, i neeeeeeed some REAL advice. Dont tell me to just ... (89 words)

I want to have sex but not sure if he wants it..what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am going to ask you a question my boyfriend and i have been going out for a couple of months and i am wanting to have sex with but i dont know if he wants to what should i do ... (52 words)

I'm a male virgin and I need to know...how to stop masturbating to porn!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6461 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How can i stop masterbating, im a male virgin, i watch porn all the time because it makes me feel relaxed. but i really want to stop, its controlling my life, i keep gatting hard ons everywhere. how can i stop????? ... (43 words)

Never had a gf because I'm obsessed with the perfect woman and I lack confidence! Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im a 17 year old male. I am an average build man, not fat, not thin, (13stone). Iv'e neva had a girlfriend because of the following reasons:- a) Im far too shy to approach a girl and speak to her. b) Im obsessed with the perfect woman, you know, the ones you se... (125 words)

She says she loves me but doesn't want to see me for a week! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend says she loves and cares for me but our relationship doesn't feel good now she doesn't want to see me for a week. please help i don't know what to do.... (33 words)

His friend is a coke addict who gets into trouble. Is it wrong for me to not want him to hang out with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong for me to NOT want my boyfriend to go hang out with coke addict friend for a night? My boyfriend has done coke before, but hasn't for awhile. I'm afraid if he goes and hangs out with him, he'll do it and his friend has a habit of getting into trouble, I don't want ... (70 words)

He's been sleeping on the couch now for a year, he says because of his accident but I don't know what to think...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! My fiance and I have been living together for 8 1/2 years. We have 1 child together, I also have two other children as does he. Anyhow about a year and a half ago he was in a serious 4-wheeler accident and since then he no longer sleeps or anything else (for that matter) ... (92 words)

How can I make her orgasm easily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - It seems like my girlfriend cannot orgasm at all. During sex or when i give her oral sex her legs shake she says it is "too much" and "too sensitive" after a while. Because of this, we have to stop. We have had sex and oral sex at least a hundred times, but I feel bad because I ... (113 words)

His mates have put a bet on with him as to whether I'll have sex with him or not!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6460 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

- Im 15, 16 in december. My boyfriend is nearly 17. We really like each other and i dont think i have ever felt like this with a guy before. We are very open with each other and are both virgins.I was thinking about losing my virginity to him once we have been together abit ... (192 words)

Please help me, I need to get in shape for the summer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am fat and can not lose weight, i have lost a bit and when ever i sit down my stomach is full of flabs and ive been dieting for nearly 3 years and still haven't lost anything, excercising sit-ups u name it i tried them, but i stilll havent lost anyfing, the wor... (122 words)

Why would she do this, I can't make sense of it all... can you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all any advice on this would be great! (Sorry for it being so long) My fiance and have been engaged for almost 2 years now. We had planned to get married 7-7-07, she liked the idea of the 3 7s . Everything between us I thought was going great. I was very happy and I th... (1073 words)

I slept with him in order to make him like me, now it's even worse than before!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya im 16 and female .. i really liked this boy and he didnt really like me so i thought i would sleep with him in order to make him like me...a day after he didnt talk to me.... we havent spoken for weeks..we spoke more before we had sex...what does he want?? x... (54 words)

She still wants to be friends but still wants to be single... how do I cope with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my x girlfriend says she still has feelings for me but wants to be single i told her i couldnt be her friend ave invited her to mine on tue should i tell her that i want her back at the risk of her saying no she still wants to be single but she still loves me she s driving me ... (62 words)

We're much better off now but I still act as if we're living on a shoe string budget. How can I stop feeling like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

- Hi. I'll try to make this breif :) My fiancee and I live together, and thus we share the finances. He recently got a new job and a promotion to Case Manager, which means he makes 14$ an hour. He works 30-40 hours overtime also, and so is bringing home a lot of cash. Up until ... (189 words)

I want more than just friendship with her, how can I tell her this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I think im in love with my best friend. We've been friends sice probably infants school and are now both in year 11 at school. I'm 16 shes 15. I first startd having feelings for her back in juniors but it was more of justr wanting to be with her all the time as i was abit too ... (346 words)

Am I being selfish wanting to wait or is she trying to control my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and this is my 2nd real relationship the last one lasted 5 years before we sort of moved apart (they were a lot older then me). i was in love and we had a great time, we were committed but i always enjoyed freedom to spend with other friends and for my other ... (314 words)

My ex and I share the same friends and now he's with someone else. Should I ask my friends about her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

9 March 2007 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend dumped me just before christmas after two and a half years. It was horrendous, but I got on with it and feel better about things now. We were long distance, but met through his best friend, who is married to my best friend. We were a very cosy fourso... (337 words)

Can you give me some tips to get over this girl once and for all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - AA Scenario: i was been going out with this girl for 2 years. 6 months ago she went on holiday and had a bit of a holiday romance wiv anutha guy. i was devastated, but eventually got over it and got back together with her. in january i introduced her to my parents for the ... (197 words)

This is the first time I've been in a relationship. How can I make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend who is older than i and this is my first time in a relationship. i need some tips on how to make the relationship work i also need to know how a girl feels when she is in love ... (44 words)

How can i let a friend whose just admitted their feelings towards me down gently without hurting them or ruining our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i let a friend whose just admitted their feelings towards me down gently without hurting them or ruining our friendship?... (22 words)

When do you know you can trust them again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a partner who has been caught out by me lying. Several times I have snooped because i thought there was something going on. I am confident that he has never cheated on me, but he cant seem to let go of the girls before me. Now that he has broken the trust, i dont know ... (76 words)

Was he cheating and lying to me or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F) - i may have found out my b/f lied through him giving me information. He is able to take a day off in the middle of the business week and work saturdays.. He told me today if he is going to do that, he needs to be pretty much dressed as if he is going to work b/c when he calls in ... (253 words)

Why do people hurt partners, cheat, or just disappear?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do people hurt partners, cheat, or just disappear?... (9 words)

We've been living together 20 years but no sex, was tempted with a friend, would it be so wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age - I have been living with my partner for over 20 years. We were married for the first 6 years. We get on very well (but there is no sexual relationship - just do not fancy him in that way!) Was almost tempted some while ago with a new friend who I am quite attracted to. Would it... (63 words)

I asked him out and he turned me down!!!! Now I don't know what to do re our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

- Hey guys am in a bit of a slump right now... I meet this really really amazing guy a few mounths back and we got on really well but he was goin out with my best mate... they split up around 4 months ago and he kept coming on to me just after and i really liked him so i di... (242 words)

Should I tell him how I feel or just ignore it and get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is like a brother to me and everyone says how cute we look together, but we've always treated it as a joke and kept on playing around. But lately iv'e been really getting attached to him and i have a huge crush on him. I really like him and i though, and i don't ... (82 words)

He's cheated on me before, how do I know he won't do it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfreind two years we met while still at school, i love him with all my heart and want to be with him forever. he's cheated on me before how do i know he won't do it again?... (41 words)

I orgasm very quickly. Is there a way to prolong this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I orgasm very quickly during sex. Is there any way to help this??... (13 words)

I cheated on my gf with another guy and I dont know how to tell her!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I think im addicted to anal sex, and even worse with men! Recently i was wastching some porn and they were having anal sex. I asked my gf if she wanted to try it, she eventually said yes. That night we tried it, lube and everything, all it made her do was scream and be in pai... (146 words)

He wants to break up with me to think things over, Does he not love me or does he want to date other girls ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have a problem which has recently reli been getting me down. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and he is now saying that he is contemplating breaking up with me, because he needs time to think about things. But i knw im only young but ive had many boyfrien... (197 words)

Should I take the plunge with my friend ? the Sexual tension is mounting, but would this ruin it ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - A dear friend of mine have this unspoken thing for oneanother. I dont want to ruin our friendship but i have had a serious crush on her for a long time now and its apparent she does too. So much so our friendship is boarderline awkward as a result of the mounting sexual ... (68 words)

I have a tape recording of my husband having sex with the girl next door. Can I clear the noise up for clarity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I got a tape recording of my husband and the girl next door doing it, I show it him and he said he dose not no what it is there is a lot of white nosie in it I just want to know it there is anything I can do to clean it up there it a lot more on it if I could just hear it,... (67 words)

My husband doesn't support my business, nor does he does anything at home either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband does not support me. I am starting a business for our family to be self-sufficient and he does not want to have anything to do with it. He does not want to talk about it with me or comment. He just does not seem to care. This really frustrates me and makes me ... (114 words)

Shes avoiding me and I dont know why, should I try and talk to her again !?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, There's this girl that I've liked for a while, but never had the guts to talk to her...until recently. She's a shy girl just like I thought, and I'm a pretty shy guy too =/ Nonetheless, I atleast got her name and got to know her a bit better, even though she didn'... (190 words)

I cheated on my guy of 4years, I dont want to leave him, but I want to be with the other guy too!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i cheated on my bf of four years recently with a man that ive been in love w/ for almost 10 years. me and the other man had gone out off and on for a long time then we lost touch and got back together. he has a gf too. i don't feel guilty either. what do i do i don't wa... (78 words)

How do I get to know the guy I like better??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and i don't have any experience with guys, except friendships. since i'm quiet, i don't really talk to people except when i have to. I also feel worthless and overweight. However, my family and friends say that i'm mature, responsible, respectful, trustworthy, intellig... (87 words)

Im 17 have a 12month old and am 5 Months pregnant, I love my fiance, but cant get over my childhood sweetheart!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 17 i have a 12 month old daughter and im 5 months pregnant im engaged to a wonderful man but im still in love with my childhood sweetheart of 2 years we split up because i moved but we still keep in touch and i love still love him. i also love my fiance of 2 years. im ... (77 words)

Should I follow my heart or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Today i almost got killed when i was at work. the only thing that i could think of was my ex girlfriend. we broke up 5 weeks ago and ive been thinking about trying to get back together with her before this happened. and now i dont know if i should follow my heart and try to ... (67 words)

My GF is judging me and bringing up my past, it really hurts,she says she will stop but doesnt! What do I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend keeps bringing up things I have done in the past, and it hurts me to be judged... Am I doing the right thing? I had a very long relationship when I was really young and when I came out of it, i fooled around a lot, with more than my fair share of women. ... (196 words)

How do you break up with someone without hurting them ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you break up with someone, after being in love, without destroying them? They still feel it for you as strong as ever, and you still love and care about them, and don't want to hurt them...? TaMuch... (49 words)

I love my gf, but my ex who helped me through so much is back on the scene, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I had decided to move in together in September this year, when I move to go to university. We've been together for 7 months, and by September it will be Over a year. Both of us have had doubts but we came to the conclusion that we love each other and its th... (290 words)

Is he the right guy for me? He seems to show some interest, but not sure exactly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - I wonder if somone can advise me: I have recently started some dance classes. At the beginning the thought of getting into a relationship with the teacher there did not cross my mind. However I am now getting distint vibes that he likes me - he has been making a lo... (246 words)

I dont want to get rejected, can you tell by eye contact if she likes you!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

9 March 2007 (?) - i really like this girl. sometimes i feel like asking her out, but i'm not sure if she likes me. i dont wanna get rejected! i want to go somewhere with, she will bring her mate along. but dunno how to ask. we barely talk in school but talk fine on msn. are there any hints i can ... (73 words)