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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Need some help please.I like this guy (actually im in love with him). He has asked me out many times. But we havent actually met up. Why does he keep asking me and not meeting me? There have been times where there has been genuine reason why he cant meet me. But he is moving in about 2 weeks to different city. We are very good friends. I dont want to lose him. Do you think he feels something for me, and is scared to tell me? Or does he know how i feel and doesnt want to hurt me by not meeting me? But then, why does he ask me out, time after time? I know he aint a player, i know he aint seeing anyone else. We both aint been in relationship before, so maybe thats why. I have no idea.Despite him moving, he will come home at every few weekends, i think, i havent spoken to him about. in fact i havent spoken to him in a while. We used to speak all the time, and recently its started to get less, but there are reasons for this. I had exams and he was busy with interviews. and recently he has been busy with his family. but he has texted me, asking to meet me, we just aint spoken on the fone.How would i know if he feels anything for me? Im not asking him to tell me he loves me. I think if i met him, i would know something.we were supposed to meet today. we arranged time and place. i hadnt heard from him for few days, so i texted him asking if we still meeting, he didnt reply. (i know he doesnt reply purposly- i know he does it, when he cant or not gona meet me). There have been times tho he has texted me back saying he cant meet. I know you probably thinking, that he is not worth it, but i feel he is. Everyone has there faults, and thats his. apart from that, there is nothing bad to say about him. How do i play it from now? DO i let him contact me or shall i contact him?im very confused, and really need your help.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 Hi
You seem to be making alot of excuses as to why he has done this or that, maybe they are genuine, but if some guy kept putting off meeting me, then I think I would of given up long ago.
The reason maybe because he is moving and feels it will be more difficult if he was to get to know you better. I think though you need to be a little bit realistic that you haven't actually met this guy and he's moving to another area. I think you should just be friends with this guy and try to put him out of your mind and have some fun with your friends. I'm sure if he needs you he'll call.
Hope all works out.
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