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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has a very strong interest in pornography etc and for me it turns me off... is this due to the difference in our ages???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 39 years of age and my partner is 20... I have never had problems with sex before but the difference in our attitudes is stressing me out. He has a very strong interest in pornography etc and for me it turns me off... is this due to the difference in our ages???... (54 words)

How do you become a more dynamic, interesting person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What makes a person exciting/interesting, one that someone wants to have around and stay around? I get the impression that I don't maintain people's interest. I don't consider myself a boring person at all. I enjoy most activities, I'm always up for a laugh and a good time. ... (100 words)

What attracts you to a man? What do you look for in a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Ladys What attracts you to a man? What do you look for in a man? Thanks... (23 words)

So why is he talking to me? Why now? Is it because he can actually see the sadness in my face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I just kicked out my bf 2 months ago. I’m 20 and we’ve been together since I was 13. You can do the math. We definitely did not end it well. We were at each other’s throats. We always had an open relationship. Meaning that we lived together and he went out with other ... (425 words)

People viewed us as a couple, things were good, he backed off and now doesnt know what he wants!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been seeing this guy for a while (at least 6 months) and we were un-officially a couple according to our close friends. we only had eyes for each other and he told a close friend of mine that he was crazy about me that i was the most caring person he knew etc.. then h... (255 words)

I accidently called out someone else's name while in bed with my BF, he now wont talk to me!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I Called out someone else's name when making love to my boyfriend. I've recently been dating a guy whose 11 years my junior - I'm 36 and he's 25. Despite the age-gap we get on really well, but I believe that he does have insecurity issues as well as anger issues which he in... (211 words)

Im due to meet my fiance's family, Im American breed, they are British, I want to make a good impression, whats the expected etiquette?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm meeting my fiance's family for the first time. They're British and live in London and we'll staying at their house for a week. I know this could sound silly, but I was born and raised in America in a family where "proper" etiquette wasn't practiced (I mean we were brought ... (131 words)

How can I build back up my trust to him when living so far apart!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do i get back communication with my man? We have been together 5 yrs up until a week ago. We are a long distance relationship but had always planned for him to move to where i'm located. Last week in anger i told him he i was setting him free because we had a fight. The ... (227 words)

Its hard to concieve as I have PCO's and he has a low sperm count, I dont feel like a woman, please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there I'm 25, married and i have been trying for a baby for 2 and a half years. I have PCOS and my husband has low sperm count yet we haven't given up hope of conceiving naturally. I get so down every month when my monthly starts as i keep getting my hopes up. I just do ... (142 words)

The love of my life just asked me out for another guy! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The love of my life just asked me out for another guy what should I do?... (16 words)

Suddenly his feelings have changed, and he doesnt think its a good idea to see each other! What the hell!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - We were dating for 14 months and it seemed perfect in everyway, about 4 weeks ago he told me his feelings had changed. Is that normal? He had always told me he loved me and he would always be here for me. Still four weeks later I feel as though my whole world has stoped. We ... (174 words)

He has a problem with trust, from past relationships and because of this says we are not in sync and might not have a future!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf and I have been dating almost 6 months and last night he told me that because of our difference in values, he couldn't guarantee our relationship in the future. I've been married twice and I have a teenager at home. Knowing this, I vowed to myself to ensure open lines ... (279 words)

Do I love him, or Love being with someone ? His controlling ways confuse me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

- Well i've been with my b/f for 15 months now, and like all relationships we have our good points and bad. I realise no relationship is perfect but at times he makes me want to pull my own hair out, he knows exactly how to make me rage. Recently we have had a big issue with his ... (440 words)

Due to past baggage, I am pulling away from this great guy! How do I stop doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 18, and have had two boyfriends... I'm with my third, but we've decided not to label anything because of my fear of commitment! My first boyfriend broke my heart badly, I was very young (15), and he was much older. I realize it's silly, but ever since then, I haven't ... (187 words)

I know I was used by him but why do I still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F) - So me and this boy had a thing for about three months. We kept it a secret because we both had reputations, his being literally to good for anyone. And mine was slightly non - existant. Except now it has all come out, and my reputation is a whore. He is getting credit for wh... (185 words)

If I'm pregnant from the sex two nights ago, could I miss my upcoming period, or is it too early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband an I had sex two nights ago and he ejaculated inside me. I'm due for my period in a week. If I'm pregnant from the sex two nights ago, could I miss my upcoming period, or is it too early?... (42 words)

Will this date ever happen and should I ring him or wait for him to call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy im into asked me out( in fact i love him). this would the first time we've properly met if it goes ahead. he has asked me out on many occassions, but something has always got in the way and either of us cancelling. we have met but that has only been because we had to ... (529 words)

He lied and I have to ask how can I continue in a relationship where the trust is gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out my boyfriend of 1 year lied to me about something big (I dont want to mention what), he doesnt consider it a big deal but its not the first time he's lied and my trust in him is totally gone. Im struggling to get back those feeling I had for him before, I ... (128 words)

Is he ignoring me now, because he didn't get what 'he wanted'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have liked this man hes been a friend for a while we went out drinking and i brought him home just to get to know him better because we are always in a group never one on one anyway we got on kisseed but didnt have sex because i said i want to get to know hom better he ... (149 words)

I can't shake the fear that some other girl will take my bf! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my "friend" developed feelings for my boyfriend and would do anything to spend time alone with him at a party she had i found them jus sitting in the kitchen talking (fair enuff) then in the living room, and when i walked in she walked out, he wouldnt tell me what was... (163 words)

Three boys I really like. How do I know which one is true love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well...i think im in love but with wat boy?.i think about 3 different boys on several occations and i love them all but how do i know which one i lovelove?? xxxx... (32 words)

My friend doesn't talk to me now and I feel awkward approaching her. How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (?) - someone explain and help me with this. i have a very close female friend. she tells me everythin. recently she told me she dumped her 1year boyfriend. so the next day i went to her house to see if she's ok. and i saw him there with her. so that was suprising considering how ... (215 words)

I feel awful but sometimes I don't like my bf's 9 year old daughter! How do I get rid of these feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriends kid and my feelings! Heartbroken23, posted 21 hours ago I wonder can anybody help me out there. I am 26 years of age and my boyfriend is 33. We have been going out for 2 and a half years. He has a 9 year old daughter with an ex. The ex is pretty much ok, she d... (624 words)

He said he deleted his profile on the dating site...should I trust that he did this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

- In my question from yesterday about how my boyfriend had a profile on a dating website, I asked him if he would delete it for me and he said that he did indeed delete it after he realized his profile was searchable and he received a message from some girl. Should I trust him ... (89 words)

Im concerend over my friend getting back with her ex, Im happy for her but worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my mate might be getting back with her boyfriend, they split up because she didnt want to hold him back because she wasnt ready for sex but she told me she loved him. When she split she also told me that he slapped her once but it was by accident and i belive her i just want to ... (92 words)

Its really getting to my that My friend really dislikes my boyfriend!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately I have been feeling kind of confused because I recently found out that my best friend does not like my boyfriend at all. She has seen me get verbally and physically abused in my last relationship and knows I deserve better. My boyfriend is everything a woman could ... (303 words)

Any ideas has to how I can get to see more of him without making it obvious ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

21 March 2007 (F) - Hey everyone. I'm going out with boy who I've liked for 2 years, we started going out just 2 days ago (Monday). I really like him, and we've hugged a few times. However, I stay in a classroom at breaktime and lunch, and he's not allowed in. I think he wants me to go down ... (136 words)

I saw my ex to see if all feelings had faded, I told my current guy this and hes flipped out!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i met my ex boyfriend to see if there were any feelings still there. there werent, id told my current boyfriend and now he has totally went weird with me and cant understand its him i want to be with. any advice?... (43 words)

How do you know your ready for sex and how can I be better prepared ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im still a virgin and me and my bf plan to have sex i just dont know if im ready or not and not sure if it will hurt as much as people say it does i would feel so much better if i knew alot more like how do you know if your ready? and does your first time rely hurt? im ... (92 words)

I keep breaking up with my Fiance, I just end up not feeling happy, but I do love him, Please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6451 days ago

21 March 2007 (F) - I don't know if I should break up with my fiance or not. I keep breaking up with him because I just feel unhappy a lot, but more so when he is gone (he's been on a 2month vacaction). So, I'm wondering if I'm just sad and miss him. He thinks I keep finding excuses to break up ... (236 words)

Why cant a guy just be straight with you when they want to break up!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - when a guy wants to breakup with you why can't they just tell you straight instead of ignoring your texts and calls?... (22 words)

Id like to try oral sex with him, but its a surprise, any tips on making it a success ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he is the only guy I have fooled around and had sex with. I have never given him oral sex because I didnt really like the idea, yet lately I have been thinking about it and I've decided I would like to give it a try. We have only ... (157 words)

Do men really think about their ex girlfriends when having sex ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Do men fantasize about their ex girlfriends when they are having sex? I've been with my boyfriend for a year and it's going great. He slept with 2 people before me and it never used to bother me until I met them both. I'm a curvy size 14, who's quite average looking, nothing ... (125 words)

I wish she still felt as excited about us as I still do, Is it worth hanging in there ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6451 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I think its come to decision time for this relationship. I am in a long distance relationship (4 months) with a woman i care about very much. We started off quickly and fell for each other and for a couple of months it was amazing. She told me she loved me, she asked me to move ... (618 words)

Not sure if he remembers hes still got old x rated photos of his ex, but its bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i found some xxxx rated photos of my partner and his ex girlfriend i told him and he deleted them but he has 2 more copies that i know of i did ask him and he said he didnt have anymore it was such a long time ago the photos but i still feel upset and i know that he has more ... (114 words)

We broke up, but seeing her so upset, makes me wonder if it is worth giving it another go !?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with GF yesterday and don't know if it was the right choice. We had been together 18 mo and living together for 12 of that, things have been rocky off and on mostly about friends that she doesn't trust and doesn't want me to be friends with. I also felt a bit trapped ... (245 words)

Can anyone give any insight to this.... Please read this long post

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I wrote this quite lengthy letter to an advice column and I have not heard back about it yet. This particular Doc Love had written an article on the phrase "Let's just be friends" and explained that the love usually wasn't there in those cases and thus people shouldn't waste ... (1468 words)

Should I carry on letting him place these demands on me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need some quick advice. My boyfriend is currently making some demands of me that I'm not really sure I should have agreed to. The problems themselves are not really important but my problem comes in here. The things that my boyfriend has asked of me, are the same th... (141 words)

He said we shouldnt be getting married as I obviously dont trust him!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - IS He Just Getting Cold Feet Im getting married in a few weeks but have had a argument with my partner the weekend because he recieved a text message from a girl at work. Nothing sexually just asking for a copy of a cd. he cheated on me 4 years ago and 2years ago i thoug... (134 words)

My boyfriend threatens to take away our baby!! I want to leave as he is violent!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im just need some help my boyfriend keeps putting hes hands up to me. We have a 5month old baby together. I tell him I dont want to be with him anymore, but he then takes the baby and says i will never see him again and I dont no what to do please help??... (57 words)

He had a fit of rage and hit me and hurt me, then acted like normal... I cant forget and dont know what to do!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am engaged with "O" for 3 years already. The topic of having the wedding has been off and on between the two of us. It just seems like 3 years is a long time (though I am willing to wait and respect his opinions too). It's been recent that I bought up the this up to hi... (417 words)

Should I just not bother with this guy !?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im am seeing this boy at first i did not really like him but sfter spending nearly the whole of 3 weeks with him i really like him, he treats me well to but he used to go out with my friend and i used to go out with his freind, he aked made plans with me one night then changed ... (190 words)

I cant forget her, it hurts too much, How can I get past this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know what to do, me and my ex gf we just broke-up for almost two years but why i cannt forget her, please help me what to do...shes still in my mind and all the memorise we had is always fresh... please try to help me what to do... (52 words)

Why do men behave in this way, say they want more than sex, but seldom do!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got a close friend to me; she was due to meet a guy on Saturday who had claimed to love her for 3 years and said he even wanted to marry her and take her on holidays. However, she rang me at 1 Sunday morning (I was still up), saying that he didn't turn up, not even ... (130 words)

I told him I had been with someone else when I hadn't! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - a couple of weeks ago my boyfriend took me home and drove off an left me there.i was so angry that i told him that i had been with someone else when i havent.i dont even remember that night because i was so angry.but hes saying i said these things.wot do i do now???????... (54 words)

Im 6 months pregnant, all we do is fight, Is there any point to carrying on ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im a bit confused at the moment. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half. im 6 months pregnant with his baby. the problem is that we keep on fighting, and its gotten so bad that there is a lot of name calling and blaming each other. We have had to move into ... (198 words)

He dumped me because I whinged about his drinking, I want to give it another go, should I talk to him!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend of nearly 2yrs dumped me over a week ago,because he thought it was the easiest way for me to stop nagging him about his constant drinking binges.Last time i saw him a couple of days ago,he looked very sory 4 himself,because his drinking got him into trouble,and he ... (131 words)

Any tips to so that I can make him feel good without having sex ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have fun just making out, close to second base but not quite. Does anyone have any make out tips for me? Just stuff that leave him wanting more, or jsut feeling good or whatever. I am pretty sensitive so i get a buz out of him touching me anywhere, but its ... (86 words)

We broke up and are back together but he wasnt upset in the slightest, surely he cant love me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend very much and he says he loves me too but we had an argument and broke up on saturday. he didnt seem bothered at all and i was crying my eyes out. we have since made up but he told me that he didnt cry at all when we split and he even went to another girls ... (127 words)

Not sure how to squirt!!?

This question has 79 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question its a little embressing but my boyfriend and i are really into each other and things in the bedroom are really good but he wants me to sqiurt if you know what i mean but i just cant figure out how to any advice from anyone?... (50 words)

What can be done to increase sexual stamina ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (M) - I have an embarrassing problem , I'm sure many other guys have as well. When I have sex with my girlfriend I can only last 2-3 minutes, and I have sex with her all the time and thought my time would increase, because I"m getting used to it. It can happen during foreplay as ... (129 words)

I want her to take an HIV test as shes had a few sexual partners, she says I should just trust her!! Its wrecking us please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi...I came across this site during a desperate attempt to resolve my relationship which is falling apart as I type. I'm a 24 1/2 year old male who has had his first serious girl friend ever. I was a virgin before meeting her, and fell in love with her. I gave myself to h... (249 words)

Is he losing interest??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F) - My b/f does not kiss me as much. He kisses me quick like goodbye in the morning or if i am laying next to him and kiss him but he does not kiss me like in the beginning--french kissing, loong kisses. Even before we are about to be intimate--sometimes he goes straight for oral... (160 words)

Caught between me and her ex...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6455 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone... my ex broke up with this guy of 11 months and shes got feelings for me and him at the same level but is undecided.. what should be done?... (31 words)

Worried that my sister overheard an 'indiscretion'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my 12 year old sister might have overheard a little indiscretion of mine... how awkward. What should i do? I'm not sure she was in the house; i had thought she was out but then there she was in her room quietly watching tv. I feel slightly sick to my stomach.... (53 words)

How many previous partners are acceptable at 23??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I just got engaged to my girlfriend and have always avoided the topic of her past because of the fear of her having had a lot of exes. Somehow, recently we got talking in that line and she told me how much she liked oral sex and that she had had sex with 9 people starting... (125 words)

How do I apologise for my drunken phone calls??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

21 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I need advice on apologizing for stupid drunken calls when i was all blacked out and was saying obscene and disrespectful things to my girlfriend... ... (25 words)

Should I tell him to leave her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

21 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have my best friend who likes me and I like him... he's goin out with somebody (just a pity thing) and lately we've been "together". For example on IM he'll tell me that he likes me, then at school you can tell to but his "girlfriend" hates it. I dunno what to do... sh... (86 words)

Is a framed picture too 'sappy'??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

21 March 2007 (F) - IS a pic of me and my b/f in a frame too sappy to give a guy for an anniversary??..its a wooden frame engraved with our names and a nice saying. I got a practical gift as well. ... (38 words)