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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am hurt at how quickly he wanted to end this..was I just an interlude to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

- Thank you in advance to any replies. I have been friends with a man for well over a year and gradually we have gotten closer. He had a girl living with him but it was my understanding they were separated. We went out to dinner and a show last weekend. He came on really ... (158 words)

Is this normal behaviour for a girl??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - So i've been dating this girl for four months. Everything is great and i think i'm falling in love with her. It's very complicated because she was dating my friend before we ended up getting together, and we also work together. So i kinda jumped into the relationship kind of ... (331 words)

I feel like I dont have what it takes to make any guy happy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is i am a 40 year old and just recently i was dating a guy who was 12 years older then me! He is a driver for a local company and I dont know if i looked at this relationship diffrently then he did! I met him at my job and we became kinda close but at that time I ... (234 words)

He has totally gone off sex! I've tried lingerie and everything but no results! What should I do now?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello. i have been with my partner for 7 months. i have two boys from previous relationship. we have been living together for 4 months. after the first month he totally went off sex. we do it about once a month and its over in seconds. he is not passionate towards me at all and ... (174 words)

He says he can't see himself spending the rest of his life with me so we broke up. But now he says he loves me and I love him too! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend I were together for a year, it was true love. About 2 weeks ago he told me he could see himself spending the rest of his life with me, but he needs to be single first. We've been broken up for 2 weeks, talk everyday, are still intimate, and most importantly, still ... (125 words)

What will people say about our age difference? I'm really worried. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm again in a bit of confusion, same guy, i'm 14 he's 18, but he's 'straight-edge' so he's anti-drug, anti-drink, and (although it may sound sad) anti-premarital sex. i'm still star struck for him and he feels the same way but, again, its the age difference that worries us, ... (59 words)

Am I making myself too vulnerable??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Getting back with ex after I broke it off. I took 5 months to reflect and have come to the conclusion I want her back. She had tried to get back for the first 3 months of the time off, but then cooled off, though still sent text messages and seemed interested. I made the... (448 words)

Am I obsessive??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My friends think I have a mild form of Obsessive Compulisive Disorder (OCD) but i dont think i do so i thought i would see what you guys think. when i leave my house, i will constantly check that i have got everything i need (phone, keys, makeup etc). i make sure im ready at... (310 words)

I miss her so much, she occupies my every waking thought!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for about a year. I've been to see her 3 times for 2 weeks at a time and she came to see me once for a month. Then recently I got back from staying with her for 3 months so despite our long distance relationship we've managed to ... (379 words)

How can I show my friend I havent changed??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

- My male friend, who hates change, doesn't like my boyfriend. He has been always like this not liking if someone walks with my friend, him and I. It was always the three of us for about a year and then suddenly my boyfriend came and he hates it. can i talk to him about it and ... (69 words)

I don't love my wife and I am having an affair but do I stay for my children?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Do I stay for the children? I have been through 7 months of hell. I am married and have been for 5 years. I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. Problem is that i dont love my wife. I am in love with another married woman who is 7 years older than me. We had a brief affair and... (384 words)

Who do I choose...my bf or his step-brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy -- I have a bf and hes great and I love him loads BUT his step-brother fancies me and I like him as well but He wants me to choose between him or my bf. I dont know who to choose!! when i turn his step bro down , he crys about it an feel guilty -- HELP!!... (59 words)

I think she has some issues in her past and needs a therapist? What do you all think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age - I dated this gal for about a month. at the time I really overlooked some odd things about her. No I'm not a glutton for punishment. Oddly enough I liked her but was cautious. She was a withdrawn person - not great social skills. Near the end of our first date she “projected” on ... (403 words)

Not sure if I love my husband anymore because he takes me for granted! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not sure that I love my husband anymore. He is a good provider and works hard but I feel like he takes me for granted! I want to be treated as a person and not just as a mother and unpaid housekeeper. I have tried to talk to him and things change for a little while but ... (92 words)

Trying to get pregnant but it's not working! He does smoke weed..would that affect this process?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had sex so many time with my boyfriend and hes always cummed in me but im not pregant and we r trying and it doesnt work... WHy does that happen??? By the way he does smoke WEED!... (40 words)

She left me and I've accepted it but I still think of her often. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I spilt with my partner of 17 years and it has been about seven months since we split. She has not made any contact with me since.S he intiaited the spilt and later I found out that she was seeing someone else within a couple of weeks. I took things pretty badly and have been ... (87 words)

Soon to be married and I need to decide...my fiancee or this other man? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Has it changed everything forever? I'm very confused. 6 months away from my wedding and I know someone who has turned my world upside down. He has highlighted problems that have existed in my relationship that were always there but have never been looked at or dealt with ... (150 words)

I need a man desperately!! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Helppppppppppppppppppppppppppp.... im 35 and be 36 this coming december. i have my 2 kids from the past and i taking care of them alone, and i need a boy friend to be my fiancee to be married with and to be my husband not only for the time being...... i need it ... (54 words)

My parents disapprove of my older gf! How can she and I quit seeing each other secretly and tell my folks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 19 year old guy who's fallen in love with a 30 year old woman who's divorced with a one year old son. My parents have met her once and doesn't agree for me to have a relationship with her. Recently she told me that she loves me back and now we are having a secret ... (82 words)

He sends me messages but doesn't seem to want to take it further. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

- This boy has been sending me a message like 3 times a month for almost 6 months but never looking willing to meet, we only met in some friend's parties like 4 times in about 1 year and they told me he had an intererest in me but he never showed it to me and failed to meet me 2 ... (202 words)

Married to an abused woman for 21 years and now our sex life is gone! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age - i have been married for 21 years to an abused woman. Our sex live is non going. now that her 3 children are over the age of 18 it has got a lot worse even after all the promises, i feel (selfishy) that life would get better (after promises) but in fact it's just getting worst... (56 words)

She's going through a lot and won't tell me her feelings! How do I cope with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, me and my gf have been goin out for quite a while now and have been best mates for years. Although we've known each other all our lives i thought i could go through everything with her. But she lost her cousin a few days back, she died of cancer which was left un noticed ... (465 words)

Need to advise my friend about her LD relationship. What can I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hey! i really need someones advice. My best friend lives in Chester, England nd she rly likes a guy who lives in Scotland. She is absolutley mad about him and i truly believe that he likes her back. I dont think she'll be happy till shes going out with him but the distance... (75 words)

He wants to be with me but doesn't want to hurt his new gf! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend split up a month ago, recently we have been meeting up with our friends and just hanging out. 2 weeks ofter we broke up he got together with one of his mates (they have been together 2 weeks now) last week, i was round my friend *andys house, and my ex came ... (201 words)

I am 14 and he's 18! What do you all think of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 14...he's 18...we both feel the same way...what do you think?... (11 words)

He's 5 years older,so does the age gap really matter as my friend thinks it does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a teenage girl in a bit of a predicament. In the last few days I have learnt a friend of mine has developed a fancy towards me. I never really considered him before, as he is five years my senior, but now find I find I share the same feelings towards him. Is the age ... (74 words)

The spark is gone and now I am seeing other men! How do I not hurt my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 19 in a relationship but the spark has gone we don't have sex anymore and I am seeing other men but I don't want to hurt my other half like this... (33 words)

My ex was in an accident and I'm very upset! I am so confused all the old feelings are coming back. Are these feelings of love or just shock?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with S for almost 2 years and we are really happy together. Before we got together i had another guy in my life, I. We were together for about 5 months and when it ended it was messy,confusing. We remained close friends and he's never had another girl. I really loved ... (139 words)

When is the right time to make out with my gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i make out with my girlfriend? i dont know how to and how will i know when the time is right?... (23 words)

I'm not feeling any movement in this pregnancy...is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there i am 18 weeks pregnant, this is my second child but third pregancey. i am not feeling my baby move yet, is this normal? ... (27 words)

How do I remove this yearning I have for an ex-girlfriend? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

- Hi, I am just hoping that someone can offer me some advice on how to remove the yearning I have for an ex-girlfriend. We were with each other for 10 years but broke up a year and a half ago after the relationship went a bit sour after too many arguments. We decided it would be... (498 words)

She seems apprehensive--do you think things can progress if I dont put pressure on her by telling her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i am a lone parent of three teenagers, i have fallen head over heels for another lone parent, she has one child , we have been seeing each other now for two months, she says she cares for me a lot , but doesnt feel the same way towards me as i do towards her, i think it may be ... (218 words)

My Mum doesn't want me to see this boy I date...how can I talk to her about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, right there's this boy and we both like each other, we see each other at school and that and we get on really well, i've known him for about 10 months now, and we've been out with each other, but we kept splitting up and going back out. And now we want to go back out, but ... (120 words)

I feel so ugly compared to everyone else around me! How do I deal with these fellings?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why, but I feel so ugly compared to everyone else around me. I don't want to feel like this because it just makes me feel so depressed and my confidence feels so low. I'm not trying to seek attention, I just want to know how I can stop myself feeling this way. I ... (74 words)

I dont remember too much about having sex, even though I was drunk did he take advantage of me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - One night I went out with my guy friend to hang with him and his stepsister. We ended up drinking a lot. I was drunk after 3 drinks and in a strange state due to the allergy medication I had taken earlier in the day, and he was drunk due to the fact that he had been drinking ... (363 words)

How would I go about approaching her without her thinking im creepy or stalking her!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello to all the great people at dearcupid. I have asked a question on here before, dec 06 "This is the last chance I''ll ever have at love with someone I adore immensly!" question. PLEASE may you Read this for backround. All the business with the person involved has blown ... (440 words)

Do men have equal rights to be able to say no when a woman they don't fancy comes on to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Do men have an equal right to not allow women to let her touch the guys body parts when he doesn't really want her to or dislikes it? In case, someone forces herself on to you, what would be a proper reaction? I feel like i have been programmed to believe that as a guy i ought ... (84 words)

After 3 children I'm not as tight as I used to be. How can I correct this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, am 26yrs old. i got married at 18. I have 3 kids. i am happy with my life. but after my delivery my husband feels that I am not as tight as I used to be. What's the reason? Can anybody advice me? Is there any way to correct this, i want to satisfy my husband. Please ... (65 words)

Does the regular whitish discharge also stop along with the menstrual cycle during pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - does the regular whitish discharge also stop along with the menstrual cycle during pregnancy????... (14 words)

Why can't I get into my mail on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a crappy question but how come I can't get in to my mail on here? ... (19 words)

We dated for 2 years, he said he loves me but isnt in love with me, is there any hope sticking around ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were together for almost 2 years. Towards the last few months of our relationship we were always fighting. After a talk he told me that he loves me but his just not in love with me anymore so now where just friends we still go out on the weekends and he ... (82 words)

Its not perfect but Im happy with the relationship, but out of the blue shes texting me telling me shes bad and feeling guilty towards my kindness, whats going on ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my gf had a relationship for 1+ years..for me,i wouldnt say it was a great relationship but i do feel happy with it..then suddenly out of blue, she told me through text message that she was feeling guilty towards my kindness to her and that she had been a bad girl to ... (121 words)

My ex told me he cant get married as he still loves me! Im totally in love with my bf and now im all confused and so lost!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F) - Someone please Help me.. I really need replies that arnt the obviouse ones, but the really helpful ones... My ex and I have a child together who is now 4.. He and I split up after she was 1.. I am now with my significant other.. We have been together for almost three ye... (374 words)

Do his actions mean that he likes me or is he just flirtatious with all women ??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

- Guys please tell me what you think. I work with three men and eight women and one of the men I seem to have a really good working relationship with. He laughs and banters with all the women in a friendly way but when we are on our own he touches my arm, run his finger down my ... (210 words)

Been with the same guy for 15 years, I love him, but I also love someone else!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - what do i do i have been with the same man for 15 years i do love him, but i am in love with another man i don't know what to do.they are both great men i don't see how i could choose between them.i have a 14 year old boy with the man i been with for 15 years.but i am having ... (83 words)

My girlfriend and I get on great.... until she drinks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - HELP!! I have had this girlfriend for about six months now and everything is great except for when she drinks. She will always acuse me of not trusting her and when i try to defend myself and tell her i do trust her she will ask me if I'm breaking up with her. I'm confused what ... (59 words)

If feel as if I'm not accepted by society and it's affecting my confidence, now I'm getting married and wonder if I'll be able to handle the relationships that come along with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Hello, i live in India and am 25 yrs of age. We live in more of a socialist environment. From the time i was growing, i found some of the customs and popular beliefs to be difficult to accept. And i generally avoided taking active interest in such social gatherings. I would ... (405 words)

How can I get over the fact that my bf likes breast implants!!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm completely turned off by my boyfriend because he likes Anna Nicole Smith's breast implants! I sent him pictures as a joke because I found them absolutely horrific, and when he wouldn't comment on them I asked him why. He finally told me he can find something sexually ... (239 words)

Is there any way I can find out... if this guy I like is gay like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright. I'm a closeted 16 year old male and I've never been in a relationship with a guy or girl. I've often dreamed of having a secret gay relationship, and there is a cute guy in my class who I am 90% sure is gay (if not gay, then ultra-metrosexual), and my gaydar accuracy ... (280 words)

Sex for the first time and we used a condom..can I still get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time.. It was the first time for both of us. We used protection and the condom didn't break or anything like that. I'm scared I can get pregnant from this time. ... (40 words)

I am pregnant and due any day now. I dont know who the father is-what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am pregnant and due any day now. i dont know who the dad is because i slept with one guy while on my period and then 10 days later i was with my ex-boyfriend. i told my ex it was his and he is so excited and taking responsibility. my ex has dark hair and dark eyes and the one ... (85 words)

In the US, what is involved in getting a divorce and how much does it cost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

- Can anyone tell me what is involved in getting a divorce in the united states? How much does it cost? I really dont' know what to do as my husband and I have agreed to get divorced, but don't know the first thing about what to do. Thank you.... (54 words)

My bf's mom and older sister hate me for getting pregnant w/ my guy!! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

3 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 6 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend's mom and older sister really hate me. They are angry at my boyfriend for getting me pregnant. ... (27 words)

He likes two people at the same time and it's making me feel so insecure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - He likes two people at the same time? or he's just waiting for a good chance to break up with her. The person I speak of is quite far away from me. We have known each other for quite a while. He had a girlfriend that lived about 6 hours train ride from him when we met. But... (288 words)

I want a family with him but the trust factor is really hurting me inside.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's a brief summary. I still love my daughter's father despite he cheated on me twice with his son's best friend's mom (whom I thought was a friend)and a girl who turned 18 years old and he's 38 turning 39. God said to forgive however, it's really hard because he's hur... (386 words)

He told me in an argument that he made plans to have sex with another girl but he just couldn't go through with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

3 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend about three years now, the other night we got into a heated argument about how it is heard for him being a 20 year old guy and staying faithful and trying to resist temptation... well this lead to him to confess that one night h... (131 words)