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41-50,
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writes:Hi there im after some male advice really. What does a man look for in a woman? Its probably a common question but I would love some answers. I go out alot and im fairly outgoing. But when I go out with my friends its as though im invisible men just dont notice me, my friends are very outgoing and flirty where as im just me I dont act flirty because I dont want to appear desperate. But lately im starting to think is there something wrong with me. Yes I admit I am a little over weight but I make sure I dress to emphasise my curves and hide the fat, im certainly not vain and im fairly attractive but I do lack confidence and im wondering if i am giving off these vibes. My friends tell me to flirt with my eyes but if I do this I always attract the wrong kind of man, im not looking for just a one nighter no more I want a bit more.Any tipsThanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): You may be looking in the wrong places or looking just a bit too hard. It does happen. Try relaxing, having a laugh. If a bloke see a woman laugh then he can be turned on like that. My bloke loves my smile and laugh. So next time you are out, have a great time and stop looking too hard. They will come to you and forget about the weight thing, they don't see that as a problem.
Take care
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?
A bar is not exactly ideal if you're looking for more than a brief moment of pleasure.
Maybe you should take a course on a subject you like (cooking, painting, Italian, anything) and there you could meet people and talk to them and get to know them.
I think that most people are not put off by a little overweight if you are a nice person. I know that I've liked guys that were definitely chubby just because they had a good sense of humor, or because they were really nice to me.
If you lack confidence in yourself and it's only because of your weight, I think you should try to do something that will make you happier about your body. Go for yoga, swimming, biking or take a walk. These are exercises that don't make you very tired because you can set the pace by yourself, and it will make you feel more comfortable in your skin.
Be happy and take care.
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reader, home_land  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 hello
i think you cant win a real love from a real man with tips
and i think that the time will come for you to meet the one who is searching for some one spical ,and that is you the way you are.
dont change your self and keep your nature ,
good luck
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