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anonymous
writes:I wrote in last week about a man who lives near me who I really like. We went out one night had a really nice time, a real laugh but nothing happened between us. He didnt ask me out again but every time I saw him he would come over and chat to me and we really hit it off. On sunday afternoon he said he had some work to do but if he finished he would give me a knock and we could watch a dvd together.I waited in but he never came round. I saw him on monday and he never mentioned it but chatted outside to me and my friend whilst messing with his bike for about 2 hours. He mentioned me making a brew for him sometime so i asked him if he was doing anything that night to come round. He said he would come round in 30 mins to one hour. I waited again and he never showed. Do I give up on this man, is he not interested? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007): Reading both your posts, I have to say I think you are wasting your time.
How can you say you "know" he's really attracted to you if he doesn't seek you out? Fine way he's got of showing his attraction, don't you think?
If these two were interested they wouldn't say they'd call or visit later and then not do it - they'd be sending emails or phoning to ask when they could see you next!
Give 'em up and find guys who will appreciate you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): Oh my! We must be interested in the same man! I went out with this wonderful man twice and when I see him he always says will do this or that but it never happens! The other thing is he'll say call me and I will .. only for him to tell me he'll call me back later .. which he doesn't! When we run into each other the sparks really fly! I know he is attracted to me. I'm sorry I don't have any answers for either one of us. Hopefully someone will.
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