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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I called my ex and we talked like old friends. It's been 10 days since I called him and he hasn't called back. Should I call again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man back in the fall online. We dated for a couple of month's. He broke up right before Christmas saying he needed space. I know it sounds strange, but we were very much in love. We were getting ready to meet each other's families and had made plans for the future. ... (240 words)

Should I text my ex to ask him how he is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, This time last year I got together with my ex boyfriend. We split up last July, after quite a short relationship, but we had known each other for a year before that. When we split up in July, on my doing, I was very angry with him because of what he said and did,... (301 words)

I find it difficult that he cheated on me, even although I've taken him back again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl of 16 and have just found out my boyfriend cheated on me a week before christmas after a day of knowing the girl, my boyfriend has just turned 17 and shes 21. He textd me on christmas day dumping me then went away with her, but I didn't know he cheated on me till 3 ... (158 words)

Is there any way I can open her up sexually so she is not so shy about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 21 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years now. She is only my second sexual partner and the only one I have truly loved. My first was a relationship with a 28 year old married woman when I was 18 that started over the internet. This woman drove ... (329 words)

I don't want to go out in case I bump into my ex and look like 'Billy no mates!'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! My ex broke things off with me recently. My friends have all moved away, and whilst I am starting to make some new ones they have all settled down and can't really afford to go out so I find myself going out by myself mainly, which I hate but I can't be a hermit. There ... (242 words)

If I go to the doctor, will she keep this confidential?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I happened to get a cap stuck "up there" (vagina) and I want to go to the gynecologist to get it out, but i don't want my mom to know. If I go in alone, and ask her not to tell my mom. Is there a law that she has to follow to make it confidential?... (59 words)

What is wrong with me? Why can I not have a decent relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, I'm beginning to think somethings wrong with me, so far in my 25 years of life I've had one boyfriend who used to hit me, and have slept with 3 other guys who end up being mates with me after a few weeks . I mean what is wrong with me, I go out but I don't go out lik... (138 words)

He had to leave me in his house for an hour to go to work, he locked his door and almost physically threw me out of his bedroom!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I slept over at my boyfriend’s house last night and decided to spend the day with him but he had business call and had to leave for an hour. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and lately there have been some problems with me trusting him. A... (119 words)

I love him but I don't want to freak him out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really think this guy likes me, but I found out from a friend that he said he didn't. I feel like I'm in love with him, but I don't want to freak him out. How do I tell him I like him, and if he doesn't like me, should I tell him?... (53 words)

What should I do should I tell him it's over for good or what? Please Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this might be a little confusing but I need your help so here goes... I was telling my friend that I wanted to get this high school dudes cell #. Once I told that to my friend my boyfriend (which was sitting in front of me) started telling his friend that they wer... (251 words)

I did the stupidest thing, I set my friend up with the boy I love... :o(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just done the stupidest thing. I set my best mate up with the boy I love :( what can I do to tell her I like him?? xx... (30 words)

What do I do? Please take the time to read my story...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I just lost my girlfriend and can't get over her what can i do to forget her? This was our situation okay i met her when I was 12, we had sex when we were only 13, had our first child when we were both 15 and our second when we were 19. She was my first and I was hers, we first ... (1707 words)

This might sound stupid but how can you tell if a guy is flirting with you without making his self too obvious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound stupid but how can you tell if a guy is flirting with you without making his self too obvious?... (22 words)

Should I mix business with pleasure or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a bit of a dilemma, theres a guy I took a shine to at work, problem is he's a client at the animal clinic I work at, I want to stay professional but at the same time don't want to miss out as I work wierd hours so it's difficult to find a man. He made a comment the ... (107 words)

Does he like me or does he not? What's he playing at?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused! This boy I really like said he loved me whilst we were having sex... but at the time my best mate was in love with him... they fell out and me and him got on really well but as soon as they became mates again he went cold and didnt talk to me. I get really ... (99 words)

Any tips on what to do on a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going out with my girlfriend soon and I don't know what to do. Should I kiss her or should we just hug? Should we hold hands? ... (31 words)

If he likes me as much as he says he does, why doesn't he ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need a a bit of boy help. There is this boy who I like and he has told me that he feels the same way but when he says "I really want to see you" we never do. Is he playing with me? And also if he does like me as much as he says he does why hasn't he asked me ... (68 words)

Is it normal for a guy to be shaky during foreplay or when he is horny and stablise when he is sexually satisfied.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, would anyone give me light here? Is it normal for a guy to be shaky during foreplay or when he is horny and stablise when he is sexually satisfied. my boyfriend does it and i just wanna know if its normal and why. THANX.}}}}}}... (46 words)

Is it a red flag when he's not willing or ready to spend more time together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age - Is it a red flag when he's not willing or ready to spend more time together? After 8 months, and a wonderful relationship, I'm baffled by my boyfriend's resistance to spend more than 4 nights a week together. We live around 30 minutes apart, and always spend time at my house ... (319 words)

I haven't heard from him, do you think he's angry with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, A few days ago, my crush (whom I have been deeply in love with for the past two years...no, not just puppy love...I felt for him like I've never felt for anyone else in my entire life) was basically forced against his will to move to a town down by the coast (hi... (318 words)

How can I begin to tell my girlfriend what I've done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel terrible, so, so terrible. Last night for some stupid reason, I made out with a mutual friend of mine and my girlfriend. We didn't take it to the sex level, more like a behind the bleachers make out. Not that that changes anything or how I feel. I'm so torn up right... (262 words)

Do you think he'll ever be more than just my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. This site is great, keep up the good work :) I have been best friends with my male friend for a year and a half and over the past few months we've been getting closer. We speak pretty much every day about anything and everything, we make each other laugh and ... (206 words)

Do you think he's took cold feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age - I have been seeing a man for 8 months who I met on the internet. He lives 250 miles away from me and we've been communting to each others places in turns about every 3 weeks. We decided we wanted to live together and I was going to move up to be with him, putting my house up ... (176 words)

Why can I not seem to get a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - no matter how hard i try i cnt getta boyfriend! i hav had boyfriends before and i felt alot happier but they didnt last very long! my friend sed i am not ugly it is because i am abit moody how can i make myself more happy! i am always laughin and smilin @ skl but ppl dnt seem... (72 words)

What would YOU do in my position????

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age - I had a funny feeling at lunch time earlier in the week and went home at lunch to see what was going on there. My boyfriend is not working as he quit his job and he is "off the chain" as they say.... I found him and two other people, a friend of his and his friends girl, ge... (232 words)

I live with a wife that is abusing me, just few hours ago she told me that I am usless... I should leave right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age - I live with a wife that is abusing me, just few hours ago she told me that I am usless............ I should leave right? not so easy, I have a five year old daughter, who I had to leave a highflying career (and I mean it) just to look after her and her mother. The ... (159 words)

I have heard of a hair inhibitor cream. Do they work and if so where could I get my hands on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

16 March 2007 (F) - Okay, in our relationship we love to touch and love and sometimes I wish I didnt have hair in places that I do. I have heard of a hair inhibitor cream. Do they work and if so where could I get my hands on it?... (46 words)

I love him but sometimes I wonder if there is someone else out there for me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. We've had our problems but we always seem to work them out and at the end of the day we can't stay mad at each other. He's my first boyfriend ever and we became pretty serious very fast. He has told me that I am the one he h... (273 words)

If there really IS a God, why does he allow so much suffering?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you believe in God? And if so why does he allow all the pain in the world. I’ve been brought up to believe in God and never doubt my belief. My family are not religious in the sense of going to church, my mother has always believed in God and let my brother and I ma... (312 words)

I am having an affair with a married woman from work. Is anyone else in a situation similar and if so, how do you deal with the guilt?

This question has 113 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age - I have been having an affair for 4 years with a married woman at work, We meet up about once every 4 weeks. We are very careful but each time I feel guilty but can't stop as the physical side is good. I'd really like to know if anyone else is in a similar position and how... (69 words)

My Cousin by marriage likes me and wants to be more than my friend but we are related what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My Cousin by marriage likes me and wants to be more than my friend but we are related what should I do?... (22 words)

He still keeps in contact with his ex's parents and they've been in our house!!!! I am not comfortable with this at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and we moved in together last month. He has been keeping contact with his ex's parents. (He was with her for 4 years). They want the two of them to get back together and since he and I have been together, have invited him over ... (463 words)

I want more commitment from him but he wants to stay as we are.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age - I am 55 and been divorced for almost 10 years. 8 months ago I met the man I want to spend my life with. He is the same age. His wife died almost 5 years ago, and he has grown up children, as I have. We have become soul mates and really clicked from the first moment we met. Our ... (122 words)

He asked me would I ever have an abortion and I thought that really strange...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago after I got together with this guy while in South Africa for a few months (didn't have sex with him), we were laying in bed just kissing, making out and talking about lots of different things, deep things (his father who died- both our fathers were very good ... (125 words)

Is he taking the piss out of me or am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi This is a bit confusing and long but the basics I need answered as I'm going mad. I recently met a bloke who I really like and tells me and other people how much he really likes me. Lovely very considerate. Asks me out for drinks/meals meet pals. Then the bad side - h... (293 words)

How do I know he's not just stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - The problem is that my boyfriend has a child from a previous relationship. At first when he told me I was fine with it. He is a loving man who is devoted to me but lately he has been spending time elsewhere and his excuses don't make sense. He's known me for 6 months and the ... (82 words)

What do I do? My friend is in love with my daughter!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age - My english is not very good, but my question is what to do when my friend is in love with my daughter? He lives in my house and said it to me. He says that he will be whit meditation it out of his system will have. But he is deeply hurting me, I love him but there is something ... (154 words)

Do I keep my guilt to myself or do I confess all?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been going through a bit of as rocky patch and I was unsure whether I wanted to continue the relationship. Went out last week and got far too drunk and woke up the next morning in bed with a male colleague. I was (ashamedly) so ... (178 words)

Do you think I might still be pregnant????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The last time I had sex was the beginning of January on the 7th a week before that I had my period, then after January 7th 2007 I didn't have my period till yesterday.. I have taken a first response test about a month ago and it came out negative, but my breasts hurt, I'm ... (83 words)

How can I get my mother to trust me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and have now been with my boyfriend for over 1 year and my mother still won't allow me to stop over night at his house, how can I get her to trust me? ... (40 words)

My friend was sexually abused by her uncle and I don't know what advice to give her, please help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine has been sexually molested and she doesn't know what to do... She is afraid that it might wreck her family since it was her uncle that did it... please help me... I dont know what I should tell her...?... (44 words)

Is a man-women relationship always about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Is a man-women relationship always about sex? If not, why at every other time I try to get to know a girl closely do they pressurize me to enter into something sexual? ... (34 words)

How can I let him see that having a baby of OUR own is important to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner has 2 girls from a pervious marriage but I never had any children and I am 40 of age. His children came to live with us a year ago and it's I who look after them because he works away a lot. We love each other very much and enjoy an excellent love life. Now I want to ... (140 words)

I feel my mom considers me a showpiece to be displayed amongst people in society!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I hate it when I am considered as a showpiece to be displayed amongst people in society by my mom. She keeps bugging me on the kind of clothes I wear or whether I look perfect or not. Apart from using me as an object of gratification in this manner, I don't really think my ... (107 words)

He wants to go away and travel for 8 weeks, should I agree and let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Opinions needed from young people. I dated a guy long distance whilst he was at uni - he cheated kissing other girls at clubs (thats as far as he told me it went). So we split up in his third year. He graduated and came home so we decided to give it a go but knowing he woul... (212 words)

I really like him but I'm worried he only wants sex! How do I find out if he's genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

- I met a guy just over a month ago and on the first day I met him, he asked me for my number. Two days later asked me out on a date to the movies (nothing really hapepend tho, we just held hands). Then the following week he asked me out to dinner with him annd his mates and ... (261 words)

I'm really worried about my friend, he's addicted to chat rooms and frequently meets up with men online. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all im really stuck . my best mate in the world is gay , he told me 2 years ago and im happy for him as i love him loads ( as a mate ) any hes been down lately and last year i went away to live in america alot of problems here where iam . anyway i came back and we got ... (206 words)

If I just say "no' to a girl who likes me, would that be too spiteful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - If a girl fancies you and comes onto you and you don't like/fancy her, can you just say NO!! or would she say i'm spiteful? I find it hard to say no. Thanks for any help.... (42 words)

Wondering about child custody issues. What is the law with children that are born out of wedlock?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Ive been searching the net for single woman rights. Does anyone know the law with children that are born out of wedlock? I am 6 months pregnant, my boyfriend has just left me, and although I think he is prepared to pay maintenance, does he have any custody rights? We are ... (110 words)

He wants me, then he doesn't! How can I deal with his indecisiveness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, this is the second time that I am writing this same post, and I've decided to make it short. Heres the story, my ex broke up with me last year and left me absolutely in the gutters, I cried, I suffered, i tried to move on but failed, I became ill, but eventually I became ... (493 words)

Married but want my friend to be more!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid..... I have been married for almost four years. I met a nice man about a month before the wedding, and we are great friends.... but i want there to be more. It is destroying my marriage because i cant talk to my husband about it, and it is destroying my friendsh... (84 words)

When will our relationship get back on track??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6460 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I'm having time out at the moment (his close friend passed away before xmas). When will our relationship get back on track? I saw him for the first time in 8 weeks this week....... (37 words)

Got drunk and kissed mymates ex...what do I do??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a horrible horrible person. I got drunk one night and kissed my best friends ex boyfriend. Nothing else really happened but even though she broke it off with him she is still really cut up about it. They went out for 5 years. He wants to keep it quite but I think I should ... (100 words)

Is your husband a space filler??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I wish to ask ladies, as to how many of you really consider their husband to be a valuable person in their life, rather than being a space filler? ... (31 words)

Is there an easy way to lose weight??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 16 years of age...i'm 5'5 and i weigh 160...is this normal? and could you tell me a easy way to lose weight without pills and diets and stuff like that?... (32 words)

Why am I doubting my sexuality??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Why am I doubting my sexuality? Within the last month or so, I have been unable to live a normal life without having this constant doubt about my sexuality. I don't really understand it or even if it's something to be concerned with? I keep rethinking my past to see if there... (145 words)

How can I tell my dad I'm engaged to my fiancee without giving him a heart attck?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, here's the deal. I am from the middle east and have been dating a guy from hispanic descent. We want to get married; however, my dad is very strict. How can I tell my dad I'm engaged to my fiancee without giving him a heart attck?! Please help!!! ... (53 words)

I used to think I was straight but now I'm thinking... could I be bi-sexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to think I was straight all my life but I am not sure any more. I wonder what it would be like to french kiss a women and have sex with her. I know that I like men for sure but could I be bi? ... (48 words)

He keeps messaging me and threatening to kill himself if I don't go back with him. What do I do here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years, he keeps messaging me and saying he wants me back and i should give him another chance but i don't want to, I do love him but i was just so unhappy and things just weren't going right i tried to tell him ... (77 words)

I really like this guy and have the chance of my first serious relationship but I also have the chance to go into the military and don't know what to choose!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I've gotten myself into a bit of a situation. I've just met this great guy through a mutual friend, and we get along really well. I've never had a boyfriend before, I mean I've dated and stuff but I've never actually gotten past the first few dates. But it's different ... (165 words)

Any tips on how to ask this girl I like so much, out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

16 March 2007 (M) age 30-35 - OK heres the story.... I like this short blonde girl at my school..she is an animal freak like me *no we are not nerds...* But I like her so much it's not even funny and I have not had a true girlfriend before and I'm afraid to ask her out but my best friends are backing me up ... (90 words)

Should I trust him or do you think he and his wife are back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid: I've been seeing this gentleman for 1 and 1/2 years now. At first he pursued me day and night. After about 10 months down the relationship, he tells me that he and his first wife are now friends. He says that the kids think that they are geeting back together, b... (147 words)

I have a very negative self image and can't bear to look at myself in a mirror.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 18, at uni and fed up! I've only had one boyfriend (being single at the moment) and he constantly pressured me for sex, which at the time I was not prepared to give him. I have a very negative self-image (can't bear to catch sight of myself in the mirror!) as I am a bit... (127 words)

I'm sure he's paid the girl downstairs money for oral sex, do you think I should leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 3 years paid 3 prostitutes but said he never did anything. He ended up giving them money too by drugs thinking he would get sex. I had to coerce this out of him, now I'm pretty sure he has paid the girl downstairs money for oral sex but he won't admit that ... (75 words)

Any tips for getting over someone quickly and easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6460 days ago

16 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't get a guy out of my head. I've known him for about 6 months now and we've been good friends... I've liked him since I met him but he's already gone out with 2 of my friends. Lately he told me he really liked me. obviously I was happy, but after that he didn't say ... (169 words)