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writes:i feel really depressed at the moment i just cant seem to snap out of it.ive not woked for a while and that is getting me down tho i should be starting a new job in a few weeks. my relationship is not going well as i feel my boyf of just over year isn't interested he's never told me he loves me, i only see him about twice a week and we hardly ever go out or do anything together he'd rather watch tv! and im not enjoying sex anymore though it was really good when we first met i told him this recently and we've barely spoken since, i dont know if i shoud be the 1 who makes the 1st move he must know im unhappy. i have a young child and that keeps me going, but ive been drinking alot recently as it's the only thing that makes me feel better.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (28 March 2007):
 Oh well done you!
I'm glad you spoke to him and now maybe you don't feel so alone.
Good luck in the new job, this is certainly a turning point and things can only get better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice, me and my boyf have had a talk and i feel a bit better were going to make more effort and make some changes so hopefully things will improve, i got the job and i will start that in a couple of weeks so maybe things are looking up!
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reader, Reebe +, writes (27 March 2007):
Oh dear you seem to be a bit stuck in a rut right now. Firstly you don't seem that bothered about your boyfriend and to be honest he's not doing much for your self asteem. I think you should think about finishing things with him you need someone in your life that is going to help you through the tough times not someone who makes you feel worse. Talk to him and ask him if he's happy with things between you and how he see's your relationship going. His answers to these questions should help you make up your mind.
You should cut right back on your drinking it's a depressent and will only make you feel worse after a couple of glasses.
Make an appoitment with your doctor although he may recommend anti depressants I would ask him to refer you to some sort of self asteem therapy, this can be a huge help in just a few sessions and can really work, and is sometimes a better solution than pills.
Hopefully you will get this job, and if not then don't lose heart the right job is out there for you.
Finally remember your child your the most important person in their life, that reason on it's own will make you smile!
Good Luck let me know how you get on.
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