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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal for the blood to be that light and that red? It looks like the type of blood that comes out when you have a cut!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, sorry if this is gross. I'm almost 21 years old and I've had my period for about 8 years now and it's been fairly regular. I was on the pill for a couple of years and stopped taking it about 2 months ago. I'm on a period right now but I went 6 weeks without one. This period ... (116 words)

How do you rebuild TRUST once it has been broken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you rebuild trust once it has been broken?... (10 words)

My girlfriend has had a lot more experience than I have in the whole relationship field and its just making me a bit wary of what she might think of me, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hello....im just a bit concerned...my girlfriend has had a lot more experience than i have in the whole relationship field and its just making me a bit wary of what she might think of me....is it normal to feel like this ...thank you... (43 words)

His mum hates me and my dad dislikes him. This is really putting a strain on our relationship, what can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 3 years. i was there when his ex gave birth to his daughter and when he went to court to get access and he was there when my mum ran off and my dad nearly killed himself. He's just had to move back home with his parents so we ... (113 words)

I really like this guy but one minute he's nice to me the next minute he's really horrible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, i met this guy a few months ago and we get on really well, we have slept together (it was a drunken mistake) and it doesnt bother either of us that its just casual, no string sex, but one minute hes all over me and the next hes bein quite horrible, he has really wierd mood ... (66 words)

I really like this girl. How can I catch her attention when I'm around my friends all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (?) - how do i get her attention or act kinda cool? there's this girl i really like, well at lunch i'm always in my group of friends, i joke all the time so everyone's always laughin at my jokes etc. i see her lurkin near us with her friends etc. she's really shy and i cant ta... (80 words)

He just wants to be friends but I would so love to go out with him, can someone help me here...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I love this boy a lot since about the 8th grade (last year) and I can't seem to get over him, I'm really hoping I can get some advice so please help me someone. I really do still love him a lot but he just wants us to be really good friends and he told me he likes me a ... (134 words)

Will he eventually stray if i can't put out? I feel he should even though it would break my heart.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

- help! im a virgin and seeing my bf of nearly 1 yr, hes not a virgin by a long shot. anyway, ive tried to have sex and im terrified, its hurts he cant even put his finger in, as i just tense up, its come to the stage now where i feel i cant even be intimate with him anymore as ... (154 words)

I am falling in love with a guy who takes drugs, I would never go down that line myself but now I've found out he's a dealer too, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 24 and have recently become involved with a man that uses drugs (cocaine and others) on a regular basis. At first I thought it didn't really have to affect me as we were just dating. I am confident enough in myself not to go down that road and have never been tempted by ... (301 words)

I want to go the full way with my boyfriend but if I do I'm scared he'll cheat on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

- i really wanna go the full way with my bf but im worried that once we do it he will go an cheat on me as all the other guys ive been with have. he says he loves me and we have been waiting and he said he wait more. my body and hearts says express my love physically but my brain ... (74 words)

What do i do, finish with my boyfriend and forget everything and move on, or remain depressed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - iv been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months and he has already proposed. weve not been getting on very well and were always arguing. but my ex boyfriend keeps coming round and telling me he still loves me and wants me back and that hes sorry for the past as i was raped by 3 ... (123 words)

I am not prepared to throw eleven years of my life away. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - can anyone help my husband left me two weeks ago saying he didnt no what he wonts anymore and when i asked he said he didnt wont to come home i have tryed every thing i can am not prapered to throw eleven years of my life away help... (49 words)

We hug all the time but have only kissed once, we've been together 2 and a half months. Do I have a guy who respects me here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have a bf that i have been with for about 2 and a half months. we hug all the time and have only kissed once! do you think he wants to do more, example, get off with me, do sexual things etc? cos he doesnt try anything like that. he doesnt touch me in private places or ... (146 words)

I want to repay her by making her cum, any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been goin out with ma girl now for 10 months n i love her loads. she's ace..shes not like any other girl...shes the real thing u know. She has made me orgasm bout 3 times now as we have been experimenting a bit. She has had it rough in the past and doesnt want to loose ... (146 words)

How can I stop ejaculating so quickly? I want to last longer but can only last 2 minutes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I cum early. how can i stop enjacultion wen i have sex, i only last 2 mins so i have to fake it alot, but it hurts sumtimes, i cnt carry on like this. i need help ... (42 words)

I want to give him the gift of my virginity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend now for 10 months. i love him so so much. we spend most days together. we cant get enough of each other. He's sweet, caring, funny, and responcable. He's almost 16 and im 14.He works on saturdays so we normally go to one another's house ... (322 words)

I believe he truly cares for me but still my life feels like it revolves around his and waiting for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F) - My relationship has undergone lots of ups and downs and if I am honest, I have never been able to figure out if it has moments of control/abuse within it. I have suffered from anxiety and agoraphobia for a number of years but with determination, I have driven myself to gain con... (415 words)

Should I be letting her past affect me like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have trouble with my gf past but the thing is she is a virgin and im just trouble by the fact that she has kiss 13 guys and give oral sex to 2 of her 3 past boyfriends but to me thats enough and it troubles me and especially the guys she has kiss the first day or second day ... (197 words)

Is it at all possible to be in love with two people at once?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to be in love with two people at once? Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months, and are very happy. He's not the most romantic or thoughtful of people, but I love him to pieces, and I know that he loves me and needs me. However, I've since had a crush ... (98 words)

I think I'm too small and I'm worried she might want to do stuff!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello im 13 and i think i am too small i am about 3 inch when not erect and about 4-5 wen erect i am seeing someone who i have been with 2 mnths and im worried she is going to want to start doing stuf but im scared i will put her off me if she knows my size wat can i do please ... (68 words)

How can I help my friend when she gets angry like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how do u deal with ur best firned who is extremely upset a lot of the time and is getting angry and flipping out at people when they annoy her very easily. Especially when they are doing it to you even though they have said they don't mean to they can't help it. Obviously its ... (68 words)

She broke up with me after 2 and a half years because she was confused but she cries every time she talks to me, now I'm the one who's confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating this girl for just over 2.5 yrs and she broke up with me out of the blue. She says she needs time to think about it yet she talks to me everyday and wants to. Her friends also say not to talk to me. She said she was confused and needed to get things figured out ... (95 words)

I had a dream about my boyfriends friends (x and y) shagging in a plastic bag in my cupboard! Anyone know what the heck this means???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is soo weird. I had a dream about my boyfriends friends (x and y) shagging in a plastic bag in my cupboard! i hate them and they hate me but i keep dreaming of them like every night! and is starting to disturb me! anyone know what this means?!?... (51 words)

How can I exercise in a way that is fun for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and i have recently been becoming quite chubby. i think it is because i like snacking, when ever i'm bored then i will just go into the kitchen and have a biscuit or a slice of cake or some toast or something, i have tried givin this up but i can't help it i have t... (205 words)

We were together until the ex said she was pregnant so we broke up and she moved in. Turns out she's not but he doesn't want anything serious now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6461 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I started to see my new room mate one weekend, but his ex found a way to get him back using the "I'm pregnant" excuse. She ended up moving in and we put our relationship on hold. A couple weeks later, we find out she's not pregnant, they break up again and she moved out. ... (195 words)

He has a history of cheating and I can't help but think that history is repeating itself here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperately need some impartial relationship advice!! I suspected that my fella was cheating on me when I saw his credit card bills and the amounts of money that he had been spending on his pre pay mobile phone every month (This was definetly not for contacting me or... (171 words)

Does anyone think I am being paranoid or looking into things too much or am I being reasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and have always had problems with his ex. At the start of our relationship he did the dirty on me and I found out that he was sleeping with his ex, we split up (Not the best start I know). We got back together some time after and as h... (199 words)

Would a man ever look twice at someone 10 years younger?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I don't know where else to turn, or ask for an outsider's opinion. I have a crush on a man 10 years my elder. I'm not too fussed about age, but it seems ridiculous. Would a man ever look twice at someone 10 years younger? We get on well together, both in person and ... (119 words)

I have been married for 8 years and want out!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 8 years and am so sick of his moods. My husband has turned into a miserable old man, constantly moaning about how rubbish his life is, I'm sure he's going through the male menopause. I really think it's time to get out, I don't want to spend the rest ... (166 words)

We broke up and I can't get her out of my head and find it so difficult to move on.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm really hurting at the moment, i split from my ex 4 months ago and well i tried 2 move on and forget about her but i just cant, i still love her but she got with someone else a week or 2 after we split up, shes still with this person and its killing me inside! ... (155 words)

I like this guy and so does my friend. We share all our secrets but I just don't know how to tell her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, got a kinda problem on my hands at the moment, well i like this guy, so does my best friend, she does not know that i like him yet, i want too tell her becasue we share all our secrets, i just dont know how she will take it, i have tried not to like this guy but it is ... (135 words)

What were these dreams about and why did I have them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! im 16 and i had a really disturbing dream last night. it was a sexual one and in my dream i was in a room and i was naked. my grandpa was in the room aswell and i was getting turned on and was moving closer to him. then i sat right next to him and was stroking him and that... (156 words)

I feel that experiencing an erection while touching girls, whom i am not supposed to get attracted to morally is a crime of some sort... Any views on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I feel that experiencing an erection while touching girls, whom i am not supposed to get attracted to morally is a crime of some sort and if i do i would be caught and deemed as one with a spoiled character. Is this true? ... (46 words)

What does my dream mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i went out with this boy that i had an absolutely huge crush on last year! im still not completly over him but im with someone else now :) i had a dream last night about him though that he came on msn and i was just about to talk to him on msn messanger but then i woke ... (72 words)

I fancy this girl, how do I know if she feels the same way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (?) - i fancy this girl, how do i know if she likes me? i talk on msn with her, i always start the conversation first. shall i not talk to her a few days and see if she tries talkin? it's way too difficult to talk at school because she is surrounded by mates and is really shy! i... (123 words)

I asked her to get engaged but family members didn't approve so we dropped the whole idea. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I was quite close to getting engaged to a girl i liked but it didn't go well with our family members and we had to drop the whole idea. But as i was looking forward to it with quite curiosity and positivity, i am now in a state of intense feelings about the whole thing. Same ... (71 words)

I can't get the thought of sleeping with her out of my mind... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I feel like a married woman in my family (Extended) is attracted to me. I keep thinking about laying down with her even when i am not at her place. Also she lives in a joint family with my cousin (his husband) and 6 other people including my uncle-aunt. I get good respect by ... (100 words)

Should I be worried that my feces had blood on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

- I went to the toilet and when i did a (NUMBER 2) some blood came out about the same size as my fingernail. it only happened once so can this happen? ... (31 words)

Did he really mean it when he text me to say I love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

- I've recently had feelings for a boy at my school who I've been friends with for 2-3 years. He text me on Friday saying 'i love u' but i wasnt sure if he was joking or not because on Fridays he does football with his mates, so I text my friend and asked her but she said footie ... (166 words)

I did it because I was scared what he would think of her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F) - I know this may be long but please help me ..i am begging for some advice here. I am not looking to have people say "oh you're not a bad person" unless they truly mean it. I seriously do have a heart of gold so why did i mess up?! I mean i feel like a HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE ... (372 words)

How do you know when to let go??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been together 8 years now and are now engaged for the second time. Between the two engagements we broke up, but remained still "close" friends. Now we are planning our wedding and we can't stop fighting; little things are make it or break it fights for me. ... (294 words)

He says he likes me but doesn't want a relationship!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male best friend and we have been friends for 4 years. Recently, we have told each other that we have mutual feelings about one another but ever since then he doesn't show that he feels that way. He tells me things that he has never told anyone and says that he ... (266 words)

How can I find somebody who is not 'money motivated'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I find Someone who is not money motivated?... (10 words)

How do I let her roomate down gently??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I like to condsider myself a nice guy; but I have kind of a personal dilemma on my mind. I have really grown fond of a lady friend of mine, and would love to ask her out on a date; but her roommate (a good friend of her's and a friend of mine) has provided an unwanted ... (141 words)

He's dated numerous other girls and slept with my sister but I can't stop loving him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well my boyfriend and I decided to break up and just stay friends. He says he needs to find himself. And he confessed to me about all his secrets that he had sex with my sister many times and so many other girls and it's not even that! It's the fact that he's been dating them ... (140 words)

How do I balance my needs with my partners to keep things going??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I feel doubtful about a relationship when i don't get enough consideration for my needs by the people concerned. And happens quite so many times. People just find themselves busy with their own things when i want their attention for something. How do i find the balance so as to ... (54 words)

Now I am more positive, people are suspicious of me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I wish to thank "DEARCUPID.ORG" and the agony aunts for being of so much help to me to become a more positive person. However, with the new things i have discovered, i constantly find myself to be looked at with some kind of suspicion by others, may it be some women or some ... (81 words)

She has broken up with me because I am not a Christian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been together with my girlfriend of 4 years. We have been very happy together these 4 years. My girlfriend is a very staunch christian. While i am not. Right now, my girlfriend has initiated a breakup with me..Out of nowhere.. The reason given to me was because of th... (75 words)

How do I deal with him wanting more and 'casual time'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I work through him falling out of love with his wife and turning our friendship into something more? We have been friends for 1.5 years. He has been miserable with his marriage (he has no kids with her but she has kids from a previous relationship). He recently told me ... (280 words)

Did he leave his cell in his truck to make me feel more important or to hide something from me???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

11 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend ALWAYS has is cellphone with him...a few days ago he cheated on me, i found out by looking thru his phone when he was asleep because i had a severe gut feeling...and confronted him, he admitted it and were trying to work things out (thanks for everyones help on ... (93 words)

I'm assured she likes me but terrified to ask her out in case I fall flat on my face and ruin everything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl, and I think she really likes me. I am in a few classes with her, and I talk to her whenever I can in those classes. She always laughs and smiles whenever she is around me, and my best friend says she looks at me when I get out of my seat to get ... (132 words)

How do I get out of this hell while avoiding a big mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

11 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, please can someone help as I am going crazy! Been seeing a girl for almost 3 years. We've recently bought a house togther and I am so confused as I don't think I love her anymore. I'm scared to let it go on any further but scared to stop it due to all the legal issues ... (76 words)