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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I be a less bullying parent to my eldest daughter??

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17 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I be a less bullying parent to my eldest daughter?? I'm 33 and I have a terrible relationship with my daughter. I suffer from severe PMT and currently have post natal depression since I had my baby last year. Since I got out of hospital last year with the baby th... (264 words)

We love each other but we argue alot and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey!! im really stuck and could do with some advice. i love my boyfriend (of a year), but recently we've been arguing alot. i havent seen him or about two weeks (cos im at uni) and when i said to him the other day that i had too much work to de and i couldnt see him..he got ... (169 words)

Why is he acting so close to me all the time when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

- There's this boy, we are together when ever we can , we text each other constantly and we talk on msn for like 10 hours a day. However he has a girlfriend and they hardly ever talk. Some people have said he is doing it to make me jealous or something and some people say he ... (72 words)

I have been married for nearly 2 years now and my husband and I are having a lot of problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for nearly 2 years now and my husband and I are having a lot of problems. He keeps saying that I should behave like a wife and when I ask him what I am doing wrong he doesn't tell me and there are so many other issues too whereby he makes me feel as though e... (81 words)

What does this "Guy" want from me? Why did he put me here????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M) - I've had it with this guy I do the right things in life, and all I see is the people who do wrong and not live God like get everything they want. I mean what does this guy want from me, if he doesn't like me then why would he put me on this earth and make me struggle for all ... (113 words)

I'm not happy in my marriage and don't know whether to stay or leave...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married almost 5 years but we have been together for 10, we have a child together. Lately I am just not happy with anything in our reletionship he tries really hard, but he just talks to me and I roll my eyes, I never want to have sex with him, and I don't know if ... (80 words)

I just want to say THANKS to AskEve and Cheese! You were right, he WAS a jerk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. I know this isn't a question, but I just wanted to say, thanks to AskEve and Cheese. I took your advice about the friend I 'practise' with. He turned out to be a real jerk when I told him I didn't want to do it anymore, so I wanna say thanks for the heads up before it w... (71 words)

I found a girl's phone number in his pocket, do you think he's cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend came home at 5 oclock in the morning. I found a girl's phone number in his pocket. Do you think he's been cheating on me?... (28 words)

She recently told me a dirty secret and my love for her is reduced to 30 per cent now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear reader, please I urgently need your help. There is this girl I've been dating for 18 months , but recently she told me q dirty secret of her to me.(she said she slept with a male politician in close to our college). I didn'r react violently, but asked her to tell me why s... (110 words)

I feel as if I don't mean anything to him any more... Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey... well Im only 14 but i feel that myn and my boyfriends relationship is a lot more than a teenage fling.. we go to the same school and we see each other every morning because we are in the same form. We are in some classes together as well.. we have been together... (373 words)

How do I know he's interested? It's been a while since I've been in the dating game...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can any one give me tips on what I should be looking for if a guys interested? (client/profession) been a while since I've been in the dating game. Thanks in advance!!... (31 words)

I am scared I will never be number one in his life...

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17 March 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend fight all the time we can't agree on any thing. But I love him so much. When I am around him I feel something I have never felt before and when he looks in to my eyes i know he is true but I am scared I will never be never be number one in his life and I ... (125 words)

He doesn't know what he wants in the future, one minute he wants to travel, then he wants kids then changes his mind...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with a lovely guy for 3 years. we even spent a year trravelling in Asia together. We get on really well but I don't know if he will ever commit to me? I don't even want to get married I just want to know that he thinks we have a future? one minute he is ... (166 words)

Recently I've been wanting my boyfriend to physically and emotionally abuse me and I don't understand why???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help, lately I have found myself falling out of love with my boyfriend, although he is the greatest guy in the world and I dont understand why. But the worrying thing is that I have recently wanted him to physically and emotionally abuse me, and try to provoke him in any ... (100 words)

He said he is bored in the relationship, how can I make the relationship more interesting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months now. The beginning was amazing, but after 6 months we knew so much about each other that nothing was new or exciting. I love him with all my heart and he loves me too. But he's continued to tell me he's bored. He thinks ... (163 words)

I've met someone who is very caring but feel too guilty to break up with my lad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been wit my bfriend for 2 years, we have a baby together but I hardly see him and he is bit of lad and not very caring, but can be sometimes, he never wants to do nothing part from pub. I've recently met someone else who is alot more mature and caring, I really like him ... (72 words)

She has difficulty with intimacy due to sexual experiences in her past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age - My girlfriend of 8 months has a lot of difficulty with intimacy with men, due to the fact that she has had bad sexual experiences in the past. She is bisexual and finds it easier to relate to women, but at the same time she tells me she loves me with all her heart. I just don't ... (130 words)

How can I stop liking this married guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! I'm hoping for some advice on the following problem. Basically I'm 22 and work as a receptionist at the front of house of a big office block. There is a guy who is the boss of one of the companies which works in our offices who is in his 40's called Steve. Since the ... (190 words)

I am a girl and I orgasm really quickly, do boys like that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

- Am I normal? I'm a virgin and I'm not rushing into sex with my boyfriend any time soon but we have taken it for hand jobs and fingering and when he fingers me he only does it for a little while and I orgasm straight away, is it normal to orgasm in such a short time? Sometime... (82 words)

He says our relationship is moving too fast, should I back off or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

- Thanks in advance to any who answer here. I have been seeing this guy for a momth or so. He recently told me that he comes with too much baggage as his mother is dying of cancer...he feels stressed and he does not want to lead me on and does not feel that the situation is fair ... (148 words)

I don't know if anything could ever happen between us because of the age gap, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 14 and have liked a boy now for nearly a year. I feel more for him than I've ever felt for anyone before. He goes to my youth club and I only see him once a week :(the problem is he's 19 although he acts alot younger than he is) and I don't think he's ever been in a ... (272 words)

I have such strong feelings for my girlfriend and would be devastated if she left me, the feeling overwhelms me sometimes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if this is a problem or not but, does anyone else feel like this.....? I'm in love with my girlfriend so much, we have been going out for a year and a half and I find myself thinking about her when we're apart. If she ever left I would be devastated, that thought ... (238 words)

What colour should healthy sperm be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Just wondering if anyone knows what colour cum is supposed to be. Since I've always known my cum has always been a creamy white colour, but recently I've noticed sometimes my cum can have a more yellowy colour to it..is this normal? I was thinking it might have something to do ... (89 words)

How can I last longer and not cum too quickly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi hopefully someone will be able to help me I have two problems..the first of my problems is that I find that I cum too quickly. Whenever I masturbate I can do it generally within two minutes, which is fine by me when I'm in a rush however when I'm with my partner I would ... (165 words)

I switched her contraceptive pill with sugar pills and now she's pregnant and crying all the time, I feel so guilty now, should I come clean and tell her what I did?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - [Moderator Note: If you don't have anything helpful to suggest then don't waste your time replying] Hi, I did something stupid, please don't judge. Right well, I've been with my girlfriend Vanessa for about 4 years now. I'm 32, she's 25. Everything's been going good, exc... (303 words)

I know it can work if she gives me one more chance but how can I gain her trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I did the stupidest thing a guy could do.. over a year ago I cheated on my girlfriend. It was just a kiss.. and I told her about it. Yesterday she broke up with me because she said she's tired of worrying about me doing it again. I was so.. childish back then. I was an idiot. ... (107 words)

I like this boy, he's just split from his girlfriend but I just can't tell him I like him!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so theres this guy I really really like. we are in the same year and I think I'm in love with him. I am only young but I'd honestly take a bullet for him! but heres the thing - we are from completely different worlds. He is mister popular, and although I am mates with the ... (222 words)

Do you think he will ever get over this and will he ever trust me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend now for about six months now, but on xmas eve last year I kissed another lad who I work with. I like this other lad a lot but love my boyfriend and would never cheat on him again and since xmas eve our relationship has come on leaps and bounds. I ... (204 words)

Please help me how do I keep my friends when he's turning them against me and how do I stop him controlling my life??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me how do I keep my friends when he's turning them against me and how do I stop him controlling my life?? Can any one shine some light my way? I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because iwas unhappy with the way the relationship was going. i would g... (833 words)

My fiance wants a threesome. He's had one before, I've never done it, but I'm curious.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (?) age 36-40 - My fiance wants a threesome. He's had one before, I've never done it, but I'm curious. If I said yes I think it's gonna mess up our relationship. I really do love him. What should I do? Does this mean he's not satisfied with me? Isn't it like cheating?... (49 words)

I always tend to pull away as I don't want to be hurt again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I'm really having some toruble with my love life at the moment. I seem to always flirt with guys and when I know they like me I pull away and don't want to get to know them. I can't stop myself from doing this and it is really getting me down because I do wan... (269 words)

I have just got married but don't know for sure if the baby is his?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years and and we just got married March 7th and I'm 6 months pregnant with a girl which he already has 2 boys, but I cheated on him once around the same time I got pregnant but that guy said he didn't go in me, I know this ... (84 words)

My friend says my tutor has a soft spot for me, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a university student and I really like one of my tutors. He was nice to me when in first year and his classes were a laugh. Then in second year, he was really nasty to me slating my work in class and not replying when I emailed him questions to do with parts of the module ... (109 words)

Just met him via online dating. He doesn't email often due to his work. Should I wait around or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, I met a nice man on a dating site he first sent me a request to chat through the site since i was not a member i gave him my personal e-mail to write to me he sent me an e-mail asking if i would agree to know him I sent him an e-mail saying yes but got no re... (329 words)

How can I help her get over this fear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok im 17 and have been wioth my gf for 2 yrs we started sleeping together not long into our realationship but didn't havce sex. We've ben having sex fore about a yr now but she will never be totally naked with me. She says shes ashamed of what shes looks like(her breasts)i ... (260 words)

I think I'm in love with this girl and need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I think im in love with this girl- I aint told anyone, its my first emotion of this kind- I need advice...... (22 words)

What should I do and what do you think will happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for around 6 months and i've known him for year and ahalf. He literally is my world. Last night he was drinking with his friend, although I don't like him to do so, I said okay cause its st.pats basically and his friend has had r... (313 words)

I really like him and I know he likes me but I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry to be long, but some background info may help. it was about 6 months ago, I met this guy at work. I was only working there for two weeks and we got on straight away. On the penultimate day, he asked me to accompany him on some business, I did. We talked a lot on our jou... (482 words)

Does she just like me as a friend or am I reading her all wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Bah. Im 16, male, in the UK. And, i'm anything but confident. I must be one of the only guys in my year who hasn't had a girlfriend yet and it drives me insane. There is one girl, who I like, a lot a lot and I have for quite a while now. A couple of years back appare... (305 words)

I'll tell you what I think then you tell me what YOU think!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Well you know my other questions I asked. To add to that. My guy that only shaves once a week and gets the gray out of his goatee came home from work one day and stated he needed to dye it and shave. I didn't think much of it till he got up for work and made sure he got it done ... (512 words)

I don't know what to do for the best here, stay together or break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to go back out with him but I'm afraid that we are just going to keep breaking up. we've been going off and on for about 2 years and I've asked you several questions before and the answers really helped! Anyway should I just go back out with him even though we might br... (176 words)

Why do I always take it to heart when something bad happens to someone?

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17 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Why do I take it to my heart when something bad has happened to someone, like say a broken relationship due to sex or some other problem. I feel as if it is also going to happen to me some day and I have to think about it beforehand. So majority of my efforts are channelled at ... (74 words)

Does he have an alterior motive in wanting to help me out here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hello everyone, help me to clear out everything for me... one time my boyfriend and I talked about recent problems in our life then he told me that he wanted to marry me but cannot go on with his plans for he's afraid I might had a regrets at the future for I'm a physical ... (210 words)

I seem to feel quite inadequate and insecure and jealous, because I feel I have missed out in my younger days, how can I stop feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey, just wanted to know I'm 20 years old and have just got my 1st girlfriend, my girfriends has 2 other guys 1 for 2 months and one for 2 weeks, both cheated on her, the 2 week relationship was more of a physical relationship which bothered me slightly, shes also had a fling ... (274 words)

Anyone have any tips for toning up upper arms and thighs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i was wondering if anyone had some tips on how to get rid of arm flab and to lose some weight from the thighs also. I'm trying to slim down, i'm not overweight or anything, i eat healthy and excercise daily but generally i only tend to lose weight from my stomach. Does ... (72 words)

How can I tell him to wash more without embarrassing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating a very nice bloke around 3 months ago, however lately I have started avoiding him as I cannot tell him what is bothering me and he is finding it very difficult as he doesnt think he has done anything wrong. I have found out that he will not use soap or shower ... (158 words)

He fingered me and I noticed I was bleeding afterwards. What's wrong with me????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got fingered by my boyfriend, we have had sex a few time before but this time when I got home I found blood and we didnt have sex. I can't go to the doctors because I'm not allowed to be doing this. I'm really scared and would love it if someone could tell me whats ... (62 words)

Do you think she fancies me? If so, how can I get closer to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

- I live on my own and I really fancy my female neighbour. She moved next door about a year ago and we have spoken a few times. She has in the past offered to do things for me, like she noticed my motobike was for sale and she said she would take an advert of it to work and put ... (162 words)

I am 4 years older than her and are only friends but would like to be more.... but don't know if it's wise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m in a bit of a jam. I’ve been friends with a girl now for a couple of months and we get along real fine, she’s quickly become one of my best friends, but she’s 4 years younger than me and we’ve run into some issues involving our friendship. We both like each other v... (292 words)

I'm scared he won't like me when we meet because I have a big nose and am really conscious of it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy really likes me and I like him a bit but we haven't met and I am scared he isn't gunna like me when we do. He first met about a week ago when my mate had web cam on to her boyfriend and he was there and when I went my mate's boyfriend said that he thought I was fit, I ... (174 words)

He seems to get close to me then backs off, thing is I really like him and only want to be with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well there's this kid _ _ _ _. and he asked me out on his birthday after me and my best friend started talking to him. We were talking to him for -10 days when he started to "like" me. We knew he liked me but he never said it. Then he asked me out on Sept 21 also his ... (413 words)

We're very good friends, went to a movie and kissed twice before me going home. Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry its a bit lengthy but I wanted to provide some background info... I'm currently a freshman in college about an hour and a half away from home and she's a junior in high school back home. I've been good friends with this girl for a while now and even though we both h... (371 words)

He seems protective of me. Does he really like me or is it because I'm like a sister to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so, i need help. i have a really over protective brother and it just so happens his best friend since like first grade has amazing blue eyes and i really like him. i have had dreams of marrying this kid and he sleeps over frequently. we havent done anything too sexual just ... (191 words)

I don't think he likes me, but I like him! How do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do i tell a guy i have liked him for a really long time when i dont think he likes me?... (22 words)

I am happy with him, but not with our sex life? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years now.And our relationship is absolutly amazing except for one thing, we hardly ever have sex. If I'm lucky its 2-3 a week. I know it's been a while and i could kink the sex life a little but he doesnt seem to be interested into ... (101 words)

Will she ever truly love me or should I forget her and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Please be patient this is long and is also asking more than one question... My girlfriend and I broke up from a long distance relationship about 2.5 months ago because of a misunderstanding. She didn't believe I loved her. And for about 2 and 1/4 months we talked every onc... (954 words)

He told me not to call, email, or talk to him in any way until he's ready. What shoudl I do about this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. In the beginning, it was absolutely wonderful. We met online and talked for about 4 months before meeting. We live about an hour apart, and things were still great when we met, in fact things got even better. But after ... (240 words)

I let worrisome things about this relationship get the best of me! Why do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently in my longest relationship (of all of 4 1/2 months) and its long distance. I guess you could say I'm somewhat obsessed with my boyfriend. I think about him constantly and when he does things like not call for a day or two or dosn't call me back when he says he ... (267 words)

Want to ask her out but I'm shy and afraid. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Friends and Readers I am a single 15 year old guy I go to church and school and I am very active in the community service I visit retierment homes and volenter at homeless centers I am what you would call an outcast and I am extremly shy when around... (206 words)

So worried she'll fall in love with someone else. Do I just sit, wait and hope she comes back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

17 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok my girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. in beginning of october my vey close friend died in a car accident, later that month she says she want to take a break. that whole month she kept telling me to make her love her..like i knew what it would take? and she said she ... (337 words)

He said he can't do this with me anymore and I don't know what to do now....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

17 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some adviceee so badly! ... ok well, me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years, we share the same friends, go to the same places and same uni, but because we're opposites we are always arguing, I understand that every realtionship has its flaws... this... (326 words)