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writes: i asked this girl out 3months ago. we didn't know each other so she said she doesn't feel the same and just wants to be friends.well suprisingly after i asked her she continued to talk to me on msn a lot. We are planning to go out in group of friends just 4 of us. but lots of things came up which may of been excuses.if she says another excuse i've decided to kind of get bit angry and tell her why she keep lyin and doesn't tell me flat on if she dont wanna go?later on if they or she asks me what happened i'm gonna tell her that i love her so much it's drivin me crazy over her and the thought of not goin out when i'm lookin forward to it so badly is drivin me crazy.or is there anyway to ask her out again? i really want to tell her by end of this week! i'm 16. thanks,
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): i dont want to sound mean but im a girl of a similiar age and have been too embarrassed to meet a lad out before, with friends or not.Have you ever thought how the girl feels? she may really like you but be too nervous to meet up. You need to take it easy on this girl, if you say or do too much she may become worried about what is happening or think it isnt right, or going to fast! You don't want to scare her off do you?
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 You can't make any one do anything they don't want to. This girl is being sensible, ahe doesn't really know you or any of the others that are going to meet up.
Your getting slightly carried away and maybe your coming on too strong?
You need to slow down and try being friends and build up slowly to meeting up. You obviously like this girl but don't pressure her, don't talk about this subject for a while and see if she mentions it. You never really know someone until you meet them but she needs to be sure about you until she'll want to do that and thats something that can't be rushed!
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reader, angel0101 +, writes (27 March 2007):
i think sweetie you are young and impressionable, this girl probably isnt the love of you life although you may feel like it, its a hard lesson to learn in life but just because someone is friendly it doesnt mean they are the perfect person for you, she knows you like her because you asked her out so she uses this to make her self feel good, if you get angry at her and are nasty then she is definately going to run in the opposite direction and telling her you are in love with her and saying things like that in front of others will only make the situation uncomfortable, it will create problems for you and the girl will most likely never talk toyou again, i know it is hard but try and just be friends with her, afterall her excuses may be genuine, wouldnt you rather have her as a friend than as nothing at all? there is light at the end of the tunnel and things will get better for you you never know the more ahe gets to know you the more she might start liking you.
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