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Archived questions from: March, 2007 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We are going to be trying for a baby, any tips to help us succeed ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

- Me and my girlfriend will start trying for a baby in a few weeks and i've got a few questions 1) if i have sex with no comdoms will that work? 2) sould i say 2 her she sould take pills or anything i've tried for a kid with another girl and we did it 4 .. about 2 mon... (111 words)

Best friends for 7yrs a couple for 3 and a half yrs, Hes the one.. but suddenly he ended it! How can I get through this!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have/had been going out with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. We met 10 years ago and were best friends for 7 years before finally getting together. He had always had feelings for me but I never felt the same until 3 1/2 years ago when we decided to give it a go as a couple. We ... (454 words)

He goes out with his friends and leaves me at home! He prefers them to me!! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My man leaves me at home all the time and goes out with his friends. In short he prefers spending time with his friends than with me! What should I do ?... (34 words)

Its been an on off relationship for 2 years, Im afraid to tell him how I feel for fear of rejection, is he interested!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been having an on off relationship for the last two years.I ended it a couple of times and didnt make any contact for months. He always starts ringing me up again after a few months. I am really in love with him but i dont want to tell him as i am scared of rejection. Is ... (74 words)

Sometimes when we row, shes refuses to talk to me, I get very angry, is there a way to control such feelings ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - hello some times when i have argemant with my partner she refuses to talk to me even i try to contact her all the time,but no answer and that makes me very angry so is tere is any way to control such feelings. thank you ... (49 words)

We got on well then he backed off, then we got together again and things were good, I do feel that hes backing off again, could he be using me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. A few weeks ago I met this boy, we got on incredibly well, and we met up on a date and that went really well too, and then he backed off and stopped talking to me. I thought to myself, oh well hes not interested, and started dating some other lad. Then, he comes back ... (147 words)

I look after my friends baby more than she does, Ive come to love him as my own, I think he would be better living with me untils shes sorted, what do you think ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

- Hey, I'm 16 years old, and in my final year of secondary school. My best friend, Sophia*, gave birth to her son, Charlie, about three months ago, and despite throughout her pregnancy being really positive about juggling school and motherhood, suddenly she seems to neglect him. ... (206 words)

We broke up after 5 years, shes my one true love, should I leave the door open to get back or cut all ties ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I cut off all all contact with my ex or is it worth keeping open lines of communication? We were together for 5 years. We lived together and owned a home. We were best friends and were making plans for marrige. I came home from work one day and she said she wanted ... (251 words)

Im in Love with my teacher, and Its so hard, Im also suffering with Aneroxia, what do I do!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my history teacher from last year. I'm 16 and he's 44. I love him more than anything, but He's married now. He got married in December 05 of my freshman year. He was engaged to her already, when I met him. She's coming here to America (from England) like next ... (1129 words)

I've become really close to her and she tells me shes just going along with her relationshipfor now, should I tell her how I feel ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the past two week i have become really close with someone i never really knew beforen then; Best friend close. Pretty quick, the only probelm however is that i now reallly like her and she has along term boyfriend (1 year) i'm getting mixed signals and she says said tom e ... (117 words)

How can I stop being paranoid when my man goes out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I trust a man...and stop being so parinoid when he goes out with his friends ?... (18 words)

Dating 6 months and he tells me he doesnt feel the same anymore! How can I get him to like me or move on!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend that i have been dating for 6 months all of a sudden tells me one night that he doesn't feel the same way about me that he used to and he thinks we should break up. All of my friends had been telling me for a long time to break up with him, but i really didn't ... (219 words)

Trouble with my spouse and I am suffering greatly. How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for almost 2 years i have been with my spouse for 5 years ,he lies about alot of little sometimes big things every time he leaves me he either comes back 1 month or days later or i look for him i have a child she is 13 ,not his,he has no children (medical ... (219 words)

Does he fancy me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused whether this boy fancies me or not, he always annoys me in a playful way and talks to me, when his friend did something to me as a joke he got annoyed and pushed him off me, he told me he fancied me and when i was like erm not u dont he eventully said only joking, ... (66 words)

The condom came off inside her!! Shes not on the pill, should she take the morning after pill just in case!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I was having great sex with my girlfriend last night (Friday). I am 22 years old and suffer from ED and had got a new Rx from my doc and was trying it out for the first time. I used Trojan w/ spermicidal. Everything was great until about 2 minutes before we both orgasmed. ... (287 words)

Been in a relationship long distance, shes talking of moving to England to give us a go, but Im not sure shes the one yet!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a long distance relationship for three years (we're talking 8000 miles), seeing each other every couple of months, and lived with my girlfirend for a year before that. She wants to quit her promising job and move to England very soon to give things a go. I love her ... (110 words)

Should I dump him and completely rip his heart out.. or stay in it for longer and see what happens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

- My long-distance-boyfriend is having a hard time. His parents recently disowned him, and he just had about 5,000 dollars stolen from his bank account. Our two year anniversary is coming up in July and everytime it hink about it my stomach kind of drops. I know it's wrong but i ... (126 words)

She broke up with me, but then said I need to learn how to love her to make it work!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend broke up with me and it's about to drive me crazy.I think about her every min and when i do call to see how she doing she just flip on me for no reason. Then she'll be okay for a day or two then right back to crusing me out for no rason and she told me that she ... (120 words)

My mother gives me a message that I am someone to be hated! It has deeply affected me..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony aunts, Please help. My mother gives me a message that i am someone to be hated whereas many other females give me an opposite message and think that i deserve to be loved and to be treated well. But my mother is also quite strong in her belief which i get trap... (129 words)

I love him so much but I dont know if im being used. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - there is a lad i use to go ut with during school, he was my first love and ive never really got over him, we went our seperate ways and lately weve been texting i fell pregnant by my boyfirend at the time but it didnt last and i slept with my ex tom while i was pregnant i knew ... (161 words)

Any good tips on how I should propose to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi me and my gd have been together for 6 yrs and love each other very much.Ive decided to ask her to marry me. I've got the ring and everything i just don't know how to say it and at what time and where to do it. Neither of us are the type for going on romantic candle lit ... (101 words)

I want to tell my dad I've decided to date a 20 yr old, he wont approve! What should I do ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey hey..... thanx kay fay and martini for your replies it helped me alot... and i think i know what im gnne do... theres just one thing that i would like to ask... i wana be with the 20 year old and stuff but iv got a prob like what must i do coz i decided last night to se... (198 words)

I broke up as she was getting hurt, shes taken it badly and now I think she might hurt herself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i just broke up with my girlfriend.... and she is taking it too seriously..... i tried to explain the reason why i am breaking up with her but she wouldn't listen to me.... the reason why we broke up was because she was always getting hurt anytime we are togther... its either ... (104 words)

I really like him, but I have serious confidence issues, not sure Im ready for a relationship, what do I tell him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im 20 and a friend has told me they like me and i think i like them back. my problem is is that i have serious confidence and body issues at the moment and because of this, im not sure im ready for a relationship and he is 3 years older than me and is more experienced than me. ... (84 words)

I never seem to get it right with boys, they trample all over me and leave, will I ever find the right one!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really hope you can help. well it may seem just a small problem but i really dont seem to get it right with boys they come and go, when they are forgetting me my feelings and they just trampalling all over me im just so fed up and i really want someone who will like me ... (82 words)

We are moving on to oral sex soon, any tips to make it good!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there.....me and my gf are gonna take things a step further really soon and i was just wondering how to give really great oral sex... and also shes had some before and i havent so how can i be her best ever....any tips would be extremly appriciated... thank you all the b... (55 words)

We have phone sex alot as we are long distance, cant help thinking he gets off better to the slut roleplay scenarios than sex with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 25. We are in a long distance relationship and we frequently have phone sex. We usually talk about what we would like to do to each other, what we have done, etc. He also initiates a roleplay where I will fabricate a story relating a... (169 words)

I really love him, but hes not good in the sack! How do I tell him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya. How do you tell someone you really love that he is not very good in bed and that you have never had an orgasm when sleeping with him? please help!!... (35 words)

We broke up as he cheated, He said we can be friends, but where do I draw the line as I was so supportive to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of six months and I broke up. He cheated on me. But i still care about him!!! I can't seem to let him go. He said we could still be friends but it was up to me and I said yes. He's going through a REALLY hectic, stressful time in his life and I feel really bad to ... (139 words)

How do I talk to my guy about periods and things ? Surely most guys dont want to know!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this sounds silly, but OK, here goes: Im kind of weird about talking about stuff that's very female. Like periods and stuff. I've known my boyfriend for a month and a half, and now I'm on my period!! How do I talk to him about it? I'm absolutely terrified about t... (115 words)

We met on the internet, one minute hes 16, then 18, but now hes saying hes 20, Im 14 and confused as I love him!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello...I am fourteen years old and I am dating a guy who is nineteen turning twenty a month before I turn fifteen...I met him over the internet and first he said he was sixteen. Then he told me he was eighteen and then he said he was seventeen turning eighteen and now he says ... (159 words)

My girl has a bad attitude at times and its hard to bare! Is this reason enough to end it after 2 years ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Girl friend acts like a man. I find myself being submissive to her for a ;peaceful life. I hate arguements. It weighs me down. She talks rough infront of people both in person and on the phone. She hits when she is not pleased at times too. I am tempted to maul her sometimes ... (119 words)

Such nasty rumours spread about me, does everyone have to deal with rumours like these ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

- ok so....loads of girls where i live dont like me....i dnt no y but they dont! i just heard 2nite that there are rumours going around sayin im a slag and sleep with every1 but thats not true! im thinking its maybe cause (not bein big headed!!!) i get attention from blokes and ... (164 words)

He broke up with me 3 months ago, now he's like a bodyguard to me where other men are concerned!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. At the time we were working together and i got laid off shortly after. During these 3 months he would call me like once a week (if even that) just to see how i was doing. I just went back to the job two weeks ago and now all of a sudden ... (148 words)

We're married with 5 children and now my husband is asking for another woman to come into OUR bed!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband is a really loving man but he is asking for another woman to come into our bed we are married with 5 children and I don't know what could I be doing wrong? What do I do?... (39 words)

Is my boyfriend seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

31 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - is my boyfriend seeing someone else my boyfriend have been working away for a week while he was away i didnt heard from him then tonight he calls me asking how i am and stuff and if i've met someone else i said no thn asked if i have a sex life and asked me what i've been upto ... (91 words)

I'm 24 and have been married 2 weeks. My husband (28) has just taken a lover who is 64!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 24, and have just got married to my new husband who's 28. Recently he went on a business trip for a few days, or so it seemed, until a good friend (female) had told me she'd seen him with his lover. I thought that was bad enough - seeing as we've only been marrie... (235 words)

How do I remove a question from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (?)

- I need to remove a question i asked as it has my name on. I very much regret writing it and if my boyfriend types my nickname into google it comes up. It would be over or make my life bery difficult. I have tried to remove myself but have failed. Please help... (56 words)

When we're together it's wonderful then he stops contacting me for weeks/months at a time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes, will make as brief as possible! Met a guy on a dating website in 2005, hit it off and arranged to meet up few weeks later although that never happened (I had other plans arranged). Kept in touch via text and emails, then he went off abroad to do conserva... (479 words)

His room mate seems to be making up excuses now about me moving in saying it's a bad idea.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been planning to move in with my boyfriend for months, and his apartment mate was fine with it at first, but he seems to be making up excuses for why its a bad idea and being extremly difficult. His main complaint is that I don't let him act like king of the castle because ... (161 words)

How do you get over the fact your boyfriend or husband looks at other women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do u get over the fact ur boyfriend or husband looks at other women ??? i cant deal with it to the point i dont want to have sex any more . i feel used and cheap and always thought my ex thought of other women ( eg todays page 3 girl (ie topless girls in the news paper) why ... (77 words)

He's started talking to me for no reason... do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need ur opinion.today i had midterm exams and the guy sitting behind me is 1 year older..he has never talked to me as he is in grade 12 and im in 11th. but yesturday he asked me what did the teacher have up on the board... then today he asks me what exam i have..so i told him ... (180 words)

I feel like I can't exist without him, I'm so confused about men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - we have been seeing each other for since last june he was the best looking , most laid back , kind happy person ive ever meet and i truly love him /... until xmas every thing was fine (i was paying for everything as he didnt have a job that was my only problem) then i got ... (410 words)

I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now but still never had an orgasm.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been going out with my bf for nearly 2 and a half years and in the time we have been having sex, i have never had an orgasim. what should i do about it? ... (38 words)

We get on great and are very comfy together, I love him and want to make it official, how can I tell him without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy for over a year and things recently have got very comfy with us, which is great. I love it a lot but, it was always a casual thing and it hasnt became official. I know he enjoys my company, as I do his and we always have a laugh together and we dont ... (108 words)

I already have 2 children from a previous relationship but my partner wants to have kids and I'm not sure I want any more.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

30 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, My girlfriend is 23 years old. I am 31 with 2 children and seperated. We disagree quite often on things and not so long ago the issue of more kids came up. The problem is she definitely wants some in the future, and Im not so sure I do. I do however Love her ... (109 words)

I have started missing my ex again and thinking that we have got what it takes to work things out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have started missing my ex again and thinking that we have got what it takes to work things out. I think it would be a waste to not work it out. Bascially I still love him, and he is not showing any signs of anything, apart from he is angry at me. How can I go about ... (136 words)

Why do I feel so annoyed and angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - My husband has got a drinking mate who he sees occasionally. At Christmas I mentioned to him to see if him and his wife wanted to go to for a meal as a foursome as we hadn't done so for ages. The mate thought it would be a good idea and then nothing more was said and then the ... (637 words)

Is my husband cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is my husband cheating? I say yes but I want you to confirm or give me a better explanation My cell phone bill included a list of calls I confronted my husband because the person text messaged claiming saying I love you he said that he doesnt know the number the te... (120 words)

I really love this guy but two days ago was the first time he's ever hit me and left me a mark.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

30 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old female that has been with a man for almost three years.In the past year we had made a family. I am so confused because i feel like he is losing interest in me and I feel like he don't love me. He's always telling me he needs space: like hang out by his self ... (101 words)