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Help I'm attracted to my aunties fiancee's Brother! What can I do

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Question - (9 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Help im attracted to my aunties Fiancees Brother !! What can i do ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007):

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Hes About 24 i think possibly 23, but he already has a girlfriend, and a kinda Stepson and his own baby i no nothing could ever happen between us and tbh i wouldnt want it to i think its just lust as he is Gorgeous! lol, but i dont want to have these feelings. Its Wrong !

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007):

Depends on his age. If he is around your age and he feels the same way then go for it, after all he isn't blood related otherwise stay out of it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007):

It depends upon his age. If he is of a similar age to you then try to get to know him a bit better and make sure he is free to be with you first. However if he is a grown man then you will need to take more care as any resulting relationship between you would be inappropriate and may even be illegal. Just imagine how upset your auntie would be if she knew her future brother-in-law had hurt you? Im sure you wouldnt want that. Dont worry though if he is too old for you because lots of girls your age have similar feelings. Its natural and healthy when he is a nice guy. You have found in him the attributes you would want in a future boyfriend. That can only be a good thing. Just enjoy this current situation. Learn from it exactly what it is you like about him and use it in your search for a nice man. One you would want to spend your future with when you are older. Given a little time these feelings will pass and you will find someone else you admire. I promise.

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