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Was it his ex that called or am I just being paranoid ?

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Question - (9 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

my b/f stopped by my house for easter..about 8:30 or so his cell rings..he answers saying hi whats doing and then says im at so and so place(he said my name) and said i will call you on my way home..(obviously he wasnt going to carry on a convo in front of my family, i wouldnt do it either)..but it made me curious--was it his ex girlfriend who called..b/c he spent like 5 hours at his family's place before coming to mine so i dont think they would be calling him..but if it was an ex he probably wouldnt have been acting like he speaks to this person often by saying whats up and im at so and so's place right?? am i being paranoid? last year i told him i knew he was talking to a girl one time when his phone rang b/c he spoke differently and he tried to tell me it was guy so i wouldnt get mad it was an ex...so i guess i was just thinking maybe he said it like he did this time to make it seem like it wasnt her..BUT i really dont know anyone who says im at so and so's place unless they are pretty good friends and speak often and i dont think he speaks to her very often or that this ex knows information like my name etc.(unless he was trying to play it cool and tell this ex i cant talk now) So am i worrying over nothing?? let it go??

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A female reader, Midge United Kingdom +, writes (9 April 2007):

Midge agony auntYpu're paranoid! However if he has lied to you once, it is possible that he could do it again.

It does sound as if it was just a friend though!

If this is bugging you that much, just ask him directly! If you have a good relationship, he will understand and give you a direct answer.

If you love this guy, you gotta have a little faith in him!

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