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writes:When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him......................................................Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - Heres My Story..Hes a Teachers Pet, Goody 2 Shoes Ect Ect, Not My Usual Type But For Some Reason Im Totally Into Him, He Got My Number Of Somebody And Startd Txtin Me..And Then He Asked " Who Do You Fanci " Well i Was Under The Impression That My Friend Had Told Him i Liked Him, So i Replied Thats A Hard Question f our S Clever You Will Be Able To Figure It Out So He Replied "Hmmm Me?" So i Said WOW Ur So Clever What Did You Do Ring Morgan And Ask Her And He Said " No i Was Just Being Big Headed But I Guess It Is Me Now" And Now.. Whenever We See Each Other In School, We Exchange Smiles And If Im On My Own He Will Talk To Me But If Im With Friends He Ignores Me And Im Like Whaaa?? And Then Ill Be Stood In The Yard And Ill Glance At Him And Catch Him Lookin At Me.. And As Soon As He Notices Me Lookin He Turns Away ..On Friday There Was Me 2 of My Friends And Mike On A Corridor And I Was Shoutin To Him To Chat And He Completely Ignored Me.. And Then He Turned Down Another Corridor And As I Passed That 1 I Looked Down It And He Was Lookin At Me Again And Im Realy Confused As To Whats Happeneing Please Help Me I Really Like Him And The Major Problem Is HES LEAVING IN MAY ! ;'[
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reader, Midge +, writes (20 April 2007):
 You need to feel better about yourself.
Perhaps get yourself all dressed up and go out with some friends for the evening. Show you how beautiful you are and show you that other boys can like you.
You have to remember that the way you see yourself is how other people will see you. So if you are a confident, powerful young lady, others will see you as that and treat you as that!
You are still young and have a long way to go, but you have to get over the fact that this boy isnt the one. But that there are loads out there waiting for Miss Right to come along, and it could be you!
Beauty is on the inside, not the outside! Remember that!!
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (19 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the question I Dont No What I Can Do About It.....
Any Suggestions?
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reader, Midge +, writes (15 April 2007):
Ok, so you know you have low self asteem. The question is, what are you gonna do about it?
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (13 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell Iv Never Come Across Anyone So Far, ;[
And ill Admit I Do Have Low Self Esteem Sometimes, When it Comes To lads.
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reader, Midge +, writes (13 April 2007):
Exactly what I was saying earlier. You have a low self asteem and you are so wrong about people. Dont tar eveyone with the same brush and say that no-one will look twice at you. Some people look at more than just what people look like!
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (13 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou,
But it itsnt what i think about myself, its what others think if im not attractive Noones gonna look twice at me.
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reader, Midge +, writes (13 April 2007):
Firstly why do you care so much about what other people think about you? Its not peoples opinions that count, its what you think and feel!
If you were fat, looked like the swamp thing and had bulging eyes, who cares! That is you, and thats the end of it!
And by the way, you really gotta get yourself some self asteem! You say you are fat and ugly. Well I'm not seeing that! I see a young, pretty girl. But why care, my opinions dont count, its what you think about yourself that matters, and in this case, needs to be addressed! You really need to rethink how you think about yourself!!
Secondly, love hurts, even the puppy dog crushes. But there is always a way to survive it, lift your head up and get on with life. Life is far too short!
If he likes your friend, there isnt a lot you can do about it, but be happy for her, and get on with things! It will all be okay!
Just remember to say to yourself, "I am an intelligent, beautiful young woman!" Lift your head up and move on.
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (13 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i Got My Answer..
Nt The One I Wanted... He doesnt Like me
And for Some Reason I Dont Feel As Hurt As I Expected To
I Think That Is Because Deep Down I Knew He Didnt Like Me
What Hurts The Most Is He Likes My Friend, The 1 Who Txt Him And My Other Friend.
Its Not Surprisin He Doent Like Me I Mean Look At Me Im Fat And Ugly.
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reader, Midge +, writes (11 April 2007):
Dont stress about it. I know its easier said than done, but honestly by asking the question you will at least get an answer. Even if its not the one you want to hear, at least you will have an answer and you can get on with things one way or the other. Good girl for having the guts to do something about it!
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (11 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI Told my friend That im Fed up of not knowing where i stand So She has now Txt him and Asked Him Point Blank Do You Like Her or Not [Me] That Was LATE Last night, And We Are Still Waitin for His Reply... lol
Atleast it Will shed Some Light, I Eiter End Up Having To Forget About Him, Or We Can Progress Its A Win Win situation, If He Tells The Truth. :S
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reader, Midge +, writes (10 April 2007):
You're not a wimp, you are just scared that things wont go your way. Make a decision if you definately want to do this and do it. Dont stress about it. If its meant to be, its meant to be.
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (9 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm Not A Shy Person In General Ill Talk To Anyone But When It Comes To Him Im Shy, And I Dont Know Why, I Was Gonna Ask Him If He Wanted to Go To The Cinemas But Iv Talked Myself Out Of It I Dont No Why Tho ;'[ Im Such a Wimp
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reader, Midge +, writes (9 April 2007):
Your best bet is to speak to him on a one to one basis. No-one else there. Perhaps that would open him up too. As you say if he left in May its not the end of the world, you would see him again.
It sounds to me like your first real crush. They are by far the hardest to get over.
Speak to him, the worst that can happen is that he doesnt feel the same, but at least you will know. To hell with other people and what they think. As you say its you and him that matter! Yes its a big step, but you will have to make it at some point, rather it be now and get it over and done with!
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (9 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm Not Exactly, The Most Confident Person When it Comes To Relationships. (Im Not Exactly The Prettiest Girl Either) I Do Really Like Him Tho And If I Could Have 1 Wish In The World It Wud Be For Him And Me. My Friend Asked Him A Few Weeks Back What He Liked About Me. And She Said He Smiled And Replied Who Said i Liked Her. Another Lad Asked Me A Few Nights Ago If I Loved Mike. And My Answer Was, " No I Dont Love Him Just Yet, But If I Got To Know Him More, I think I Would Possibly Fall Inlove With Him"Whenever People Find Out I Like This Lad. They Always Go " Errr What Do You Like him For" And My Simple Reply Is. I Really Dont Know What It Is about Him But He Makes Me Smile Whenever I Think About him He Gives Me Butterflys At The Sight Of Him And Im Always Thinkin About Him. And they Say. But Its Mike.. And I Reply I Didnt Choose To Like Him It Just Happened And Theres Nothin I Can Do To stop Myself, And Thees Tge Whole Embarresment When we see each other in school if i was to do what you say :( Im reali stuckAnd Also In School I Dont Think It Is Possible To Have A Relationship That Truely Means Something To The 2 People Involved As Other People Judge You. So Maybe Him Leaving In May Wont Be Such A Bad Thing And May Open Many Doors For Us Both, I Wouldnt Have A Problem With What Other People Say In the End Its Me And Him That Matter And If I Had My Way I Would Be With Him Right Now.. But I Dont No What He Wants.. Help me
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reader, Midge +, writes (9 April 2007):
Tough one!
If you like him, and he is leaving shortly, then you need to act fast. Perhaps you should text him and ask him to meet you somewhere. Somewhere where there will be no friends etc. Then ask him directly if he has any feelings for you, and if he does, go out on a date.
I take it, when you say he is leaving in May, you mean leaving high school. So that would mean that if anything were to transpire, you could still have a relationship.
But be honest with him. Even if he says he hasnt got any feelings for you, which I find hard to believe considering what you have told us, you wouldnt have to deal with him for too long after that. And you could try and get on with life as normal!
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