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When are you not a virgin?

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Question - (9 April 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *ullen writes:

do you have to orgasm to say that you've had sex or do you just have to have been in and out

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (12 April 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntDear Mullen,

pretty much when you go in and out...but if you have oral sex you can say you have had sex to...but most people would say when you had the penis in and outta you...

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A male reader, pfairypepper United States +, writes (10 April 2007):

Hi, yes if you've penetrated you are officially not a virgin. Doesn't sound like you had too much fun though....

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (9 April 2007):

penta agony aunthttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virgin

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A male reader, ChiRaven United States +, writes (9 April 2007):

ChiRaven agony auntTechnically, any penetration counts.

In fact, though, if you haven't had an orgasm you've really missed the point of the whole thing. And it you haven't worked on it enough to get your PARTNER to orgasm you've just been pretty damned selfish about it and need to go back and learn some manners ... and probably some more about female anatomy and physiology as well. Work on it, damn it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007):

i think that technically you aren't a virgin once you have had full penetrative sex - that is once you've been fully inside someone, if you know what i mean. i don't think orgasms or lack of orgasms have anything to do with virginity.

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