A
female
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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend has had 100's of one night stands. Can he really have changed and know what 'making love' is?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (10 April 2007):
Could he potentially change? Yes, absolutely he could.
Has he changed?
That's the question. I don't know the guy! Trust your gut instinct.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): Its possible. I just hope he has been tested for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases and is using condoms when you and he have sex.
Even though he MIGHT have changed, its a strong possibility that he isn't very capable - or interested - in forming a strong, lasting relationship with a woman. Sounds as if the hundreds he's had one night stands with were just sex opportunities, and nothing more. I doubt (I could be mistaken) that he really valued those women for anything more.
That's what I'd be wondering about if I were in your shoes.
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