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writes:I've wrote before, and you helped so i'm trying for help again. Me and my boyfriend, well, now ex boyfriend have broken up, but we still want to be together but we just keep arguing, at first, we spent all our time with his best mate, and we argued a lot. then we spent less time with his mate, and argued less, now we argue all the time AGAIN, the problem is that he winds me up, ALL the time. i think the problem is that he doesn't have many friends that are girls to have a joke with, so he tends to act as though im a mate, not a girlfriend. the thing is he upsets me then tells me he's done nothing wrong and i try to tell him but he's oblivious to it all. help. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Melanne +, writes (9 April 2007):
 You say you still want to be together, but are arguing a lot. Can you get used to him winding you up? If not then it doesn't look likely to last. It sounds as though he is still very immature and he doesn't realise how much he is upsetting you so he will continue to do it. The question is could you really see yourself staying long time with someone who winds you up so much or is it all just going to end up with you being hurt? It sounds to me like you need to stay friends and are not ready for a relationship with one another yet.
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