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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I need help please...Alright I feel like my sexual relationship with me and my boyfriend is one way. He always fingers me, gives me head etc. but I don't give him head because I don't like to, I also hate hand jobs (I'm not good at them and don't know what I'm doing.I feel bad that my boyfriend does so much for me but i don't really do anything for him. It's not becuase i'm selfish it's just that I don't really like doing much of the stuff such as giving head.How could i peasure him in a way that will satisfy all our needs.Also how do i give a good handie i wan to be able to please my boyfriend.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 April 2007):
I'm glad you've realised how important it is to make some effort during sex for your boyfriend's sake. All guys like handjobs a little different so why not explain to him tht you don't do it because you don't know what you're doing. Or put his hand over yours when you do it so he can move your hand at the speed and pressure that he wants? As for blow jobs I don't think ANY girl actually likes to but it is worth doing every so often just to make a guy happy. I'm guessing he's not that fussed on giving you oral sex either but does it cos he knows you like it so bear that in mind too.
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