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writes:My husband had an extended affair about 2 years ago..pretty bad. I have left the home and just now filed for divorce, it has been 2 years. We tried to date, but I can't forgive him nor forget. I am afraid he will do it again...is it possible after I divorce him that maybe he will see the light and change or will it probably happen again....I don't think I can ever totally trust him again
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): My husband(43yrs) of 15 yrs of marrige had an affair about 9 months ago.He left me with our 4 kids.He told me that he fall in love with this other women and want a divorce. He want to marry this other women ASAP.
I been through a lot and by now I don't have the energy to do anything else.He used to be a nice loving husband and father,but not any more.Abusive and lies a lot.WHY most of the guys that have an affair becoming abusive????? Lies a lot and feeling to proud about them selves????
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): I can understand how you feel. When the trust is gone, it is very difficult to pick up the pieces. I would suggest councelling for both of you.If he wants to make up with you means that he did wrong but in reality, he wants you. I am pretty sure that he is sorry for what he has done to you.it is not easy for you to be with him and not think negtive,so I would strongly recommend that you see a marriage councellor or someone that may help you and him. Hope that he would want this, he should becasue it's his doing. Good luck dear.
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